Yesetsani kudziwa zaka zakuthupi
1. Kodi mumakonda thupi lanu?
A. Kukhala woona mtima, ndili ndi chochita ndi zomwe (ndili ndi zofooka zambiri).
B. Nthawi zambiri kuposa.
V. Inde, ndagwirizanitsa ndi zofooka zanga.
2. Kodi mumakonda ntchito yanu?
A. Ndimakonda zomwe ndikuchita.
B. sindimakonda kugwira ntchito.
V. Osati nthawi zonse, koma nthawi zina mumakonda kwambiri (izi zimachitika kawirikawiri).
3. Ngati chinachake chikuchitika :
A. Mukudzilemekeza kwambiri.
B. Mumadabwa ndikusangalala.
V. Kwa inu izi ndizoona zoonekeratu.
4. Ngati mukufuna kuthetsa vuto lalikulu la bizinesi, inu:
A. Mukuyesera kuthetsa nokha panthawi yovuta.
B. Funsani thandizo kuchokera kwa ena kapena kusintha kwa maudindo a anthu ena.
Q. Mwapititsa patsogolo chigamulo chake mwachidule kuti mutsimikizidwe molondola ndikupanga njira zina zoyendetsera mulandu.
5. Mukupeza uthenga wabwino kwambiri. Panthawi yoyamba iwe:
A. Pangani mawonekedwe omwe simulibe kanthu.
B. Simungakhulupirire.
B. Chisangalalo cha chimwemwe chimakukhudzani inu.
6 . Kodi nthawi zambiri mumadziimba mlandu chifukwa cha zofooka za moyo?
A. kawirikawiri.
B. Mu zovuta zanga zonse, moyo, nthawi zina zowzungulira, ndizolakwa, koma osati ndekha.
V. Nthawi zina zimachitika.
7. Pamene mulandira malipiro, inu:
A. Pitani kukagula.
B. Muzichita ndi ngongole.
V. Tumizani nthawi yomweyo gawo la ndalama kupita ku akaunti, yomwe mumabweretsamo mwezi uliwonse.
8. Kukhala ndi matenda aakulu, inu:
A. Sami amayesetsa kuchita chirichonse kuti achire.
B. Sizimakuvutitsani kwambiri, kusiya chirichonse chomwe chiri.
B. Pitani kwa madokotala ndi pharmacy.
9. Ndi mawu ati omwe ali pafupi kwambiri ndi inu?
A. Ndi zabwino kuti zimathera bwino.
B. Landirani chirichonse monga momwe zilili.
B. Zonse zomwe zachitika, kuti zikhale zabwino.
10. Kodi muli ndi maloto?
A. Ndimakonda kupanga zolinga za moyo, osati kuti ndiziyendayenda mumitambo.
B. Inde, ndimakonda kulota.
В. Palibe. Chirichonse chimene ine ndinachilota chachitika kale.
Kuwerenga, ndi mayankho ati omwe mumapeza - A, B kapena B.
Mayankho ena A
Ndiwe "wachinyamata". Mavuto ndi kudzikayikira, komanso maximimalism, samakulolani kukula ndikukhala munthu wodziimira. Pamene simukudandaula ndi zomwe ena amaganiza za inu, mumakhala omasuka kwambiri pa zomwe zikuchitika pozungulira inu. Simudzasunthika pamapewa pamene mukufunikira kupanga chisankho chofunikira, ndikuchotsani chizoloŵezi chodzudzula aliyense akuzungulirani chifukwa cha mavuto anu.
Mayankho Ena B
Ndiwe "mwana". Ana ali ovuta m'dziko la akuluakulu. Kumvetsetsa nkhani zofunika, kutenga udindo, kulandira ndi kulipira ngongole - izi zidzakhala chizindikiro cha munthu wamkulu.
Mayankho Ena Mu
Inu ndinu umunthu wodziimira, wokhwima. Munthu wamkulu yemwe angathe, pa mphindi yoyenera, "aphatikize" mwana wamng'ono kapena mwana. Mukudziwa kuthetsa mafunso ofunika, kusangalala ndi moyo ndi kulenga.
Kutanthauzira kwa zotsatira
"Mwana wokongola"
ZAKA ZAMAGAZINI ZAKA - ZAKA 7-12
Ngati munthu amanyalanyaza zoyenera ndi zikhalidwe za mwana wake wakhanda ndi wamkulu, ndiye kuti chiyambi cha mwanayo chidzayamba kupambana kuposa zina ziwiri. Mu psychology kwa anthu otere pali mawu: ogwira Peter Pen matenda. Mwana wa Carefree Peter Pen safuna kutenga nawo mbali moyo wovuta. Kumbali imodzi, iye ndi "mwana" wokongola, pamzake - wonyama wonyenga, amene amakhulupirira kuti dziko lapansi liyenera kukhala pafupi ndi wokondedwa wake. Ntchito, udindo, kufunikira kupeza ndalama ndi kuyendetsa chuma - zonsezi zimabweretsa Peter Foam kukhala wodetsa nkhawa, mantha. Moyo uyenera kumubweretsa chisangalalo. "Mwana wokondeka" amakonda masewera a pakompyuta, akuphatikiza gulu lachipembedzo la Potterians omwe amapanga maphwando opindulitsa, amapita ku zikondwerero za masewera a filimuyo "Ambuye wa Mapulogalamu" ndipo amasaka mpheteyo ndi iwo. Ndikoyenera kudziwa kuti mwana wamkulu uyu sanasinthidwe kuti akhale ndi moyo - munthu wazaka 30 kapena 40 akhoza kusokonezedwa ndi zochitika mwangozi, alibe banja ndi kukhala moyo mu klabu ya usiku kapena pa sofa kutsogolo kwa TV.
Ntchito
Pieters Peña ambiri amaganiza kuti akuphunzira komanso kugwira ntchito ngati zosangalatsa. Kotero, nthawi zambiri amapita ku koleji, kupeza ntchito. "Pano iwo ali ndi zovuta - ndipo olamulira samvetsa, ndipo anzako amakhala osangalatsa, choncho amasintha ntchito nthawi zambiri," anatero katswiri wa zamaganizo SVETLANA DUBININ. "Ana" awa ndi osayamika, akhoza kuwonetsa polojekitiyi, chifukwa "palibe kudzoza". Poyambira ntchito ya tsikuli, alibe nthawi yogwira ntchito, amagwira ntchito pansi pa ndodo, kuyesa, ngati n'kotheka, kuti apitirize kudwala. Pamapeto pake, palibe malo okhalako. Zopeza zonsezi ndi zokonzeka kuti anthu oterewa ayambe kugwiritsa ntchito zipangizo zatsopano kapena masewera a kanema (powononga ndalama zogwiritsira ntchito).
Ubale ndi okondedwa
"Akuluakulu" amazindikira anthu kuti ndi othandiza komanso oyenera. Munthu akhoza kukonza mwamsanga galimoto yake - zikutanthauza kuti ndi mabwenzi abwino, winayo ali wokonzeka nthawi iliyonse kupanga kampani kupita ku gulu - bwenzi labwino. Ubwenzi umaphatikizapo maudindo onse, omwe Peter Pan sangathe kuwona - chifukwa chake, alibe abwenzi enieni, koma alipo odziwa. Ubale ndi makolo a "mwana wamkulu" uyu umaphatikizapo mkwiyo wake chifukwa chokhala ndi makhalidwe komanso kufuna kulira mu chovala chake. Makolo, mwa njira, "Petro Pen" molimba mtima amatenga ndalama kuti apereke moyo wake. Sichiwathandiza pobwezera.
Kodi mungalankhule bwanji ndi iwo?
Ubale ndi "mwana wamkulu" nthawi zonse amakhala pamapeto. Iye, mofanana ndi ana onse, nthawi zambiri amakhumudwa, amadzitcha yekha ndipo amafuna kuti dziko likhale lozungulira.
1. Ndi bwana . Anthu oterewa, monga lamulo, musatenge malo apamwamba. Koma, ngakhale ali ndi udindo, amatha kusokoneza mitsempha ya anzanu. Mwachitsanzo, iwo ndiwo mabungwe abwino kwambiri kwa abusa awo, choncho pafupi ndi "mwana" amene mukufunikira kuti mukhalebe maso. Ngati sakukukondani, akhoza kukusonkhanitsa ogwirizanitsa ntchito.
Njira zamanja . Ndi bwino kukhala kutali ndi "munthu wonyansa wobwezera" uyu. Pamodzi ndi iye muyenera kulankhula momasuka, kumvetsera kapena kudziyerekezera kuti mumumvere. Ndibwino kuti musayankhule nokha, kapena tsiku lina lingagwiritsidwe ntchito motsutsana ndi inu.
Ndili ndi mnyamata . Iye ndi wokongola komanso wokongola, koma ngati mumavomereza kuti mukuyembekeza zochita zake, akhoza kuopa. "Kukula kwake m'maganizo kunakhalabe pamlingo woyamba - ndi kovuta kuti amvetse zomwe mkazi akufuna kuchokera kwa iye. Chikondi chake ndicho chikondi cha mnyamata wazaka 12. Ndili naye mungasangalale, ndipo musamangire ubale wautali, "- anatero Svetlana Dubinina. Ngati mukufuna kupanga banja limodzi naye, kumbukirani: adzakhala mwana wachiwiri, pambuyo pake mumasowa maso ndi maso. Ndi ana ake, "Peter" ndi wankhanza, chifukwa akubwera kukamenyana ndi "Amayi". Kuti moyo wakuthupi usasinthidwe - ndipo sungathe kulemba msomali.
Njira zamanja . Mwa amayi, amafunafuna chikondi ndi chisamaliro cha amayi. Koma maphunziro molimba samapweteka - iye pokapriznichaet, koma amamvera. Mothandizidwa ndi "amayi" okhwima, amatha kufika pamapamwamba a ntchito.
Ndi amayi . Mayi-mwana amawoneka kuti ndiwopanda chilungamo, koma kwenikweni akhoza kusokoneza kwambiri moyo wanu. Iye adzafunabe nthawi zonse chisamaliro. Kuyambira pamene mupita kuntchito, udindo wanu wachuma udzakhala udindo wanu. Ngati iwe ndi mwamuna wanu mumakhala pansi pa denga limodzi ndi amayi anu, mumapatsidwa chisudzulo. Ndipotu, amayi anga amakhulupirira kuti simungakhale a wina aliyense kupatulapo iyeyo.
Njira zamanja . Choyamba, yambani kukhala mosiyana, ndipo kachiwiri, akakufunsani ndalama, kani! Ndipo popanda chikumbumtima chirichonse! Ngati amayi sali odwala komanso osalumala, ali ndi zaka zomwe mungapeze ntchito, ayenera kudzipereka yekha. Ndipo mwakonzeka kuthandizira ndi kuthandizira, koma musasamalire nokha.
"Wachinyamata Wosatha"
ZINTHU ZOPHUNZITSA NTCHITO - ZAKA 16-18
Ngati munthu akukula pazifukwa zina satha, ndiye kuti sangakhale mwana wosasamala, koma osati wamkulu - apa tikuchita naye "wamuyaya". Iye ali ndi mantha ofanana ndi dziko loipali, koma pa mapazi ake amayima mwamphamvu ndipo akuyesera kukana onse achilendo, kusonyeza chitsimikizo ndi maximalism. Mnyamata ali ndi chitsulo chofuna ndi chokhumba chachikulu kuti chichitike mu moyo. Panthaŵi yomweyi, kudzichepetsa, komwe akuyesera kuwonjezerapo munthu wina.
Ntchito
"Achinyamata ndi opambana kwambiri: ali okonzeka" kudutsa m'matupi "popanda kuyang'ana kumbuyo. Iwo samayesa zochita zawo konse, amawadula pamapewa awo. Sali ndi chidwi ndi mmene ena amamvera, chifukwa anthu osowa chifundo samatha kumvetsa. Mawu atatu awa: chiopsezo, kunyalanyaza ena ndi luso lachinyengo kumawalola kuti apitirize kupita patsogolo, "- akuti Liza DOGODINA, katswiri wa zamaganizo, wolemba za yoga pa Open World Center.
Ubale ndi okondedwa
Chifukwa cha kusowa chifundo, mwanayo amakhala ndi maubwenzi ovuta ndi achibale, ndipo izi sizikudetsa nkhawa makolo okha, komanso abwenzi, enawo. Mnyamatayo amakhulupirira kuti mukhoza kunyalanyaza achibale anu, kuwasokoneza, chifukwa amakukondani - iwo sangatsutsane ndi chiwawa. Choncho - mikangano kawirikawiri m'banja ndi wokondedwa. Kwa anzanu, achinyamata amasankha munthu kutsatira, okonzeka kulekerera manyazi.
Kodi mungalankhule bwanji ndi iwo?
Ndi bwana . Simungatsutsane naye, tisonyezani kupanda ungwiro kwa ntchitoyi.
Njira zamanja . Tamandani ngati n'kotheka. Ngati muli ndi malingaliro, ganizirani momveka bwino: Iye anapanga zonse, ndipo mumatero.
Ndili ndi mnyamata . Iye akhoza kukhala ndi banja, kumusamalira, koma sangakhale wokhulupirika kwa mkazi wake ndi kukhala ndi ana.
Njira zamanja . Ngati mukufuna "msinkhu" kukhala gawo la chisa cha banja, muyenera kutengera akazi osiyanasiyana ndi zozizwitsa za tsiku ndi tsiku.
Ndi amayi . Zimasiyana chifukwa zimakhala zosakonzekera komanso kuyang'anira nyumbayo. Pamene mukusowa chinachake, akhoza kudziyerekezera kuti ali ndi bizinesi; koma ngati akufunikira thandizo mwamsanga, muyenera kudutsa mu mzinda ndikukhala pambali panu mwamsanga.
Njira zamanja . Musamuchitire mwamphamvu iye akulira ponena kuti akusowa chinachake tsopano. Ngati muli ndi zochitika zanu, zitsimikizani. Pamene muli mfulu, thandizani amayi anu. Poyamba, sangasangalale nazo. Koma ndi ntchito yayitali mungathe kudzutsa munthu wamkulu.
Superstar
ZOCHITIKA ZAKHALIDWE - ZAKA 60-70
Kodi n'zotheka kunena kuti wamkulu wamkulu m'banja ndi amene akufunikira kuti zaka zathu zamaganizo zikhale zokwanira? Ayi! Zimakhala ngati mwana wamkati ndi mwana "atagona" mwa munthu, amakhala ngati munthu wokalamba.
Ubale ndi okondedwa
Anthu awa samakonda zosangalatsa, amangokhalira kutsutsa aliyense ndi kuzungulira iwo, akukonzekera, kwa zaka zambiri zikubwera, kuyesera kutsatira ndondomekoyi.
Ntchito
Munthu uyu sakonda kusintha - amamuwopsyeza, choncho amagwira ntchito nthawi yaitali pamalo amodzi. Monga lamulo, anthu oterewa amasankha ntchito "yeniyeni" - chirichonse chimene chimafuna kuwerengetsa mwachidwi ndi zochitika zoyenera. Iwo ali ndi udindo, kuchita moona mtima chirichonse pa nthawi ndi zolakwika pang'ono kapena opanda. Ndipo amafunanso maganizo omwewo kuti agwire ntchito kuchokera kwa ogwira nawo ntchito: salola kuti agwire nawo ntchito pamene akugwirana ntchito nthawi, amalephera kapena amachita zonse pamphindi womaliza.
Kodi mungalankhule bwanji ndi iwo?
Ichi ndi maganizo ovuta kwambiri, omwe munthu ayenera kufunafuna njira yake yokha.
Ndi bwana . "Superstar" ndi luso lake ikhoza kukhala pa mpando wa mfumu. Ndiye kwa otsogolera padzakhala nthawi ya nkhondo ndi zovomerezeka "nthawi yam'mbuyo" ndi "zochotsedwa" zosawerengeka. Sizingatheke kuchoka ku Code Labour. Muyenera kuwerenga mgwirizano. Ngati chinachake, mwa malingaliro ake, chimasokonekera, nthawi yomweyo mudzathamangitsidwa chifukwa cha nkhaniyi.
Njira zamanja . Musamufuule kwa iye ndipo musasokoneze. Yesetsani kuti musachedwe kuntchito, osati kuswa nthawi yochepa komanso kusiya ntchito poyamba.
Ndili ndi mnyamata . Ndi gulu ili, simungathe kuyembekezera chikondi.
Njira zamanja . Dwala losafikirika likhoza kugonjetsedwa ndi caress, chisamaliro ndi chifundo. Musayambe kukambirana naye ntchito yake ndi luso lazamalonda.
Ndi amayi . Ngati mayiyo ndi "nyenyezi", ndiye kuti amawakonda komanso akusamalira ana, koma khalidwelo silimamulola kuti asonyeze malingaliro ake.
Njira zamanja . Mvetserani ku tirades ndi amayi anga onse. Limbikitsani kukwaniritsa zonsezi, koma mwanjira yamtendere chitani zomwe mukuyenera.