Mwamwayi, m'mabungwe athu alipo pali zochitika zachilendo zomwe zimamasula akazi olimba ndi otayika ndi anamwali akale , osapindulitsa kwa aliyense. Popeza amakhulupirira kuti imodzi mwa machitidwe ofunika kwambiri a mkazi ndi kulengedwa kwa banja ndi kulera ana, ndipo akazi aufulu amadziwika ngati sakukwanilitsa cholinga chawo komanso osadzizindikira okha.
Ngakhale amayi atasankha ufulu wawo, lingaliro la anthu likhoza kuwapondereza ndikuika maganizo pa psyche. Ngakhale kuti ufulu uli ndi ubwino wambiri ngati mkaziyo amuthandiza molondola. Alibe nkhawa ndi zomwe angadyetse mwamuna wake ndi ana ake, nthawi yowonjezera, sakhala ndi udindo kwa wina aliyense ndipo akhoza kuchita chilichonse chimene akufuna.
Pali ziwerengero zomwe amayi okwatira amakhala othetsera odwala matenda a psychoanalysts. Ndipo ali ndi vuto la maganizo komanso kuvutika maganizo.
Ndikofunika kukamba za amai ndi ubale weniweni.
Mkazi ndi ufulu
Anthu masiku ano posachedwapa akhala okhulupirika kuti asagwirizane. M'malo mwachizoloŵezi cha banja, akazi ena amachititsa kuti asankhe maubwenzi popanda maudindo, kukonda kusamba ndi kusungirako zinthu, misonkhano ndi chikondi m'malesitilanti ndi amuna awo. Amadziwikanso kuti amayi osakwatira amakhala ndi moyo wathanzi wokhazikika komanso wathanzi, pomwe ubale wapamtima pakati pa okwatirana ndi wosawerengeka.
Mfundo izi zimatipangitsa ife kudzifunsa ngati ndi zoopsya kuti mkazi akhale womasuka ndi wodziimira. Ndipotu, anthu omasuka ndi amphamvu. Akazi omwe ali ndi ufulu kukhala ndi makhalidwe monga ufulu, kupirira, kudzikhutira, kudzipereka. Mwina ndi chifukwa chake amuna samakonda kupita kwa akazi oterewa, poopa kukanidwa.