Mphamvu yachisoni imatanthawuza kufotokoza za makhalidwe abwino a munthu, zomwe ndizofunika kuti kudzizindikiritsa kwa munthu aliyense. Chifundo chachikulu chimathandiza kukula kwaumwini, komanso kumakhala chimodzi mwa zizindikiro zake zazikulu. Chifundo cha umunthu ndi chofunikira kuti munthu athe kukhalapo mogwirizana ndi dziko la anthu ena ndikukhala ndi anzake.
Kudziwa za msinkhu wachifundo kumayang'aniridwa pogwiritsa ntchito mafunso apadera a N. Epstein ndi A. Mehrabien. Funso lothandizira kudziwa kuti ndikumvera chisoni lili ndi mawu 36.
Kufotokozera mwachidule mayesero
- Muli ndi mfundo 82 - 90 . Nambala yoteroyo imasonyeza msinkhu waukulu wa chifundo. Nthaŵi zonse mumayang'ana kumbali ya mkati mwa interlocutor, mumatha kumvetsa komanso kumangodzimvera chisoni. Zoonadi, mukukumana ndi mavuto ena chifukwa chakuti anthu omwe akuzungulirani nthawi zambiri amakugwiritsani ntchito monga "chovala", akukuponyerani mavuto awo ndi maganizo oipa. Mukhoza kudalira anthu a msinkhu uliwonse ndi chikhalidwe chawo. Kukhumudwa kwanu kwakukulu kungayambitse mavuto osafunikira, nthawi zambiri mumafuna kuthandizidwa ndi anthu oyandikana nawo. Samalani ndi kusamalira mtendere wanu wa m'maganizo.
- Ngati mpikisano wanu ndi masentimita 63 - 81 , ndiye kuti muli ndi msinkhu waukulu wa chifundo. Nthawi zonse mumadandaula za ena, yesetsani kuthetsa mavuto awo, ndinu okoma mtima komanso owolowa manja ndipo mukhoza kukhululukira zambiri. Inu muli ndi chidwi ndi anthu, anthu awo. Ndiwe wokondweretsa kukambirana komanso munthu wopatsa. Ndiwe wodzipereka kwambiri, yesetsani nthawi zonse kuti mukhazikitse mgwirizano ndi mgwirizano pakati pa ena. Mkhalidwe wokwanira wotsutsa ndi khalidwe losasangalatsa lomwe muli nalo. Kugwira ntchito mu gulu kumabweretsa chimwemwe chochuluka kuposa kugwira ntchito nokha. Monga lamulo, mumakhulupirira chidziwitso ndi maganizo, osati chifukwa. Muyenera kuvomerezedwa ndi zochita zanu ndi anthu oyandikana nawo.
- Ngati mwapeza kuyambira 37 mpaka 62 mfundo , izi zikusonyeza msinkhu wachifundo. Icho ndichibadwa mwa anthu ambiri. Simunayanjane, komanso sizimvetsetsa. Kawirikawiri amaweruza anthu mwa zochita zawo. Ichi ndi chisonyezero chachikulu kuposa maganizo anu a munthu.
- Zotsatira zanu kuyambira 12 mpaka 36 ? Izi zikutanthauza kuti muli ndi msinkhu womvera chisoni. Sizowonjezereka kuti muyanjane ndi ena, osasangalatsidwa mu kampani yosadziwika kapena yaikulu. Inu simukugwirizana ndi machitidwe achiwawa kwambiri mwa ena, zikuwoneka kuti ndinu opanda nzeru.
- Ngati zotsatira zowonetsera zikuwonetsa zosachepera 11 - chiwerengero chanu cha chifundo ndi chochepa kwambiri. Mumakhala kutali ndi anzanu komanso achibale anu. Sizavuta kuti muyambe kukambirana nokha, makamaka zimakhudza kukambirana ndi ana kapena anthu achikulire.