Childfree

Mbadwo wathu ndi wowolowa manja pakuwonekera kwa mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya anthu yomwe imagwirizanitsa anthu omwe ali ndi maganizo ofanana. Zomwe zimakhudza kwambiri mapangidwe a magulu amenewa zimaperekedwa ndi matekinoloje amakono, makamaka Intaneti. Mwachitsanzo, kayendetsedwe ka ana osayenerera m'dziko lathu kanali koyamba kuyankhulidwa ndi ogwiritsa ntchito pa intaneti - ogwiritsira ntchito ndi osowa ma webusaiti. Kusiyana sikungathetsere kufikira lero lino, kuthandizira ndi kuteteza oimira kayendetsedwe ka njira iliyonse, pamene ena ali ndi manyazi. Nanga amayi ndi abambo awa ndani?

Childfree ndi chiyani?

Mawu akuti Childfree (kuchokera "mwana" wa Chingerezi - mwanayo, "mfulu" - mfulu) amatanthauza anthu omwe amakana kukhala ndi ana. Mbiri ya lingalirolo ndi lovuta kuwongolera, zikuganiziridwa kuti linayambitsidwa motsutsana ndi liwu lakuti "wopanda mwana", lomwe limatanthawuza awo omwe analibe mwayi chifukwa chokhala ndi ana.

Anthu chayldfri - psychopaths!

Mu intaneti, mungapeze anthu ambiri omwe ali okonzeka kunena "kudana ndi chayldfri", powalingalira omwe akuyimira gululi ngati zitsanzo zoipitsitsa za mtundu wa anthu. Kodi ndi zoona kapena amatsutsana ndi anawo?

1. Anthu omwe amalimbikitsa ufulu wa ana amadana nazo ndipo amavomereza kuti abereke ndi kubereka.
2. Othandizana ndi kayendetsedwe ka Childfree amawatcha anthu osachokera ku malo awo omwe akubereka ana amasiye, akukhulupirira kuti awo omwe sali otsogolera anthu sangathe kukwaniritsa zotsatira zabwino.
3. Childfree ndi anthu opunduka maganizo omwe amatsutsa anthu polepheretsa tsogolo lawo.
4. Sikuti chikhumbo chokhala ndi ana chimatsimikizira kuti palibe makhalidwe abwino, anthu awa alibe lingaliro la makhalidwe abwino, akulingalira kuti banja ndi malo osatha.

Mbali inayo ya kayendedwe ka chayldfri

Ndizosatheka kudzipangira nokha chidziwitso china chirichonse, popanda kuziganizira kuchokera kumbali zonse ziwiri. Mikangano yothandizira malangizo a anti-childfri ife tikupeza, imakhalabe kupeza mawu otetezera ana opanda ana.

1. Sizingatheke kuti aliyense woimira kayendetsedwe ka ana amatha kunena kuti "Ndimadana ndi ana." Komanso, ambiri monga "maluwa a moyo", koma osati m'madera awo.
2. Mu chinachake chayldfri molondola - kudzipereka yekha ku banja, n'zosatheka kumanga ntchito. Nthawi zina pamoyo, aliyense (makamaka akazi) amasankha njira yotereyi, yemwe akufuna kufika pamwamba pa ntchitoyo.
3. Kuyankhula za kupotoka maganizo kumatheka kokha ngati mukutsatira mwangwiro lingaliro (kutentheka). Kugwiritsa ntchito vuto kwa anthu palinso m'malo mokayika. Kodi sikumenyana komweko pakati pa amatsenga, kuyankhula za mimba yachinyamata, kubadwa kwa ana m'mabanja opeza ndalama? Kodi nkhaniyi yokhudzana ndi kulera imawopsya?
4. Childfree samalimbikitsa khalidwe lachiwerewere, pakati pawo muli mabanja ambiri m'banja lovomerezeka. Kusakhutira kukhala ndi ana kungakhale koyenera chifukwa cha umoyo waumwini ndi mantha a udindo, koma wina sayenera kudula kukula kamodzi kokha, chifukwa chosowa ana chingakhale chosiyana kwambiri.
5. Childfree akhoza ndipo amatsutsana ndi chirengedwe, koma aliyense ali ndi ufulu wosankha yekha tsogolo lake. Ndipo palibe wina, ngakhale boma, kapena anthu omwe ali ndi ufulu wotsogolera umunthu weniweni ku chikhalidwe cha makhalidwe okhudza banja komanso kubadwa kwa ana.

Mwana ndiye chimwemwe chochuluka, koma pokhapokha ngati chikufunidwa. Ngati munthu sali okonzeka kukhala ndi mwana, ndiye cholakwika ndi chilakolako chake chofuna kukhala ndi mwana? Inde, anthu osakwanira pakati pa ana osapanda ana amapezekanso, koma alipo ambiri mwa "otengera".