Nthawi zina, kuyerekezera ndi chida chachikulu. Mu moyo, kawirikawiri chinachake chikufanizidwa: kunyumba zipangizo, katundu, etc. Zonsezi zimapangitsa kuti munthu asankhe bwino. Koma, kodi mumasiyanitsa bwanji nokha ndi anthu ena? Nchifukwa chiyani anthu ambiri amachita ndipo ndi zolondola?
Kodi mungatani kuti musamafanizire nokha ndi wina ndi chifukwa chake timachita?
Ngati aliyense wa ife ali ndi ubwana, zimakhala zoonekeratu kuti nthawi imeneyo anthu oyandikana nawo amachititsa zolakwa zazikuluzikulu - iwo amafanizira ife ndi ana ena, kuyika wina monga chitsanzo. Koma, ndizolakwika kwambiri! Ali mwana, aliyense amadziwa kuti sangakhale ngati wina, chifukwa anali ndi maluso osiyana, koma zinali zovuta kufotokozera munthu wamkulu, ndipo mwanayo sanamvetsetse momwe angachitire.
Ambiri kale ali akuluakulu samadziwa momwe angayambire kudziyesa okha ndi momwe angalekere kudziyerekezera ndi ena ndikusiya kuchitira ena zabwino, ngati mungakwanitse kukwaniritsa zonse.
Ndipo zotsatira zake ndi zotani?
Munthu wamkulu akuwonetsa mwachindunji ubwana wake. Chizoloŵezi cha mwana wofananamo choterechi chimangokhala chokhumudwitsa, mkwiyo, ndipo palibe amene amafunikira kupsinjika maganizo . Ngati munthu akukumana ndi mulu wa mavuto, ndiye kuti mwachibadwa, akufuna kupeza chifukwa cha zonsezi. Ndizoipa kwambiri kuti munthu wamkulu samvetsa momwe angasiyanitse yekha ndi ena, koma nthawi yomweyo amawoneka bwino, apamwamba komanso apamwamba.
Yerekezerani ndi inu nokha
Azimayi ambiri adakumana ndi vuto lomwe msungwana kapena mnzako ali nalo kavalidwe kabwino, ali wochenjera kapena ali ndi ntchito yabwino kwambiri. Koma, mungaleke bwanji kufanizitsa nokha ndi amayi ena ndikukhala pamwamba pawo? Chinthu chokha chimene chiyenera kuchitidwa ndi kudzipeza nokha makhalidwe abwino omwe ena alibe.
Mwachibadwa, aliyense ali kutali kwambiri ndi ungwiro, koma kuyerekezera kumachitika kokha ndi dzulo komanso yekha. Madzulo alionse mukhoza kuganizira momwe tsikulo linayendera. Kuyeneranso kuyang'ana makhalidwe abwino omwe adziwonetsera okha ndikuthandizira tsiku ndi tsiku.