Ambiri amakhulupirira kuti iwo omwe ali ndi mphamvu zotengera anthu angathe kusamalira, mwachidziwikire, mkhalidwe uliwonse. Anthu ena amaika tanthawuzo lolakwika pa lingaliro limeneli, choncho, ndibwino kumvetsetsa mwatsatanetsatane zomwe zikutanthawuza kugwiritsira ntchito. Chitsanzo chabwino kwambiri cha anthu osokoneza bongo ndi ana omwe amagwiritsa ntchito njira zamakono kuti akwaniritse zomwe akufuna.
Kodi mungamvetse bwanji mawu oti "kulamulira"?
Ambiri amagwirizanitsa mfundo iyi ndi chinyengo, mabodza, zowona zabodza. Pali mfundo zingapo zomwe zingathandize kuti mupeze chithunzi chokwanira. Kodi mawu akuti "kuyendetsa" amatanthawuza - ndiwopangitsa munthu kukhala ndi maganizo ake, popanda kudziwa kwake, ndi cholinga cholamulira khalidwe lake ndi malingaliro ake . Wopambana amachita zonse zomwe angathe kuthetsa munthuyo kuchita zomwe akufuna. Amagwiritsa ntchito zenizeni za psyche ndi zofooka kuti amutsimikizire munthuyo kuti adasankha yekha, popanda zifukwa.
Momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito anthu - psychology
Akatswiri a zamaganizo amagwiritsa ntchito kufotokozera kwa lingaliro labwino kwambiri - "zida za moyo," zomwe mungathe kusewera pogwiritsa ntchito luso lina. Nthawi zambiri, wogwiritsira ntchito amachititsa kapena kugwiritsa ntchito makhalidwe monga: kunyada, kudzidalira, chifundo, mantha, ndi zina. Anthu ambiri amagwiritsa ntchito kunyengerera ngati chida chogwiritsira ntchito, chomwe chimathandiza kukwaniritsa zochitika ndi kukhumudwitsa ena. Iyi ndi gawo lokonzekera kuti achitepo kanthu.
Mu psychology, pali zigawo zingapo zachinyengo, zomwe anthu amagwiritsa ntchito tsiku ndi tsiku. Tiyeni tione chimodzi mwa izo:
- Kuthamangitsidwa mu bizinesi. Pankhaniyi, mkhalidwewu umaganiziridwa ngati munthu amagwiritsa ntchito mautumiki kapena katundu wina, pogwiritsa ntchito njira zopezera kuchotsera kapena zopindulitsa zina.
- Kusokonezeka m'banja. Apa, maubwenzi amatanthauza, pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi, choncho pakati pa makolo ndi ana, ndi achibale ena.
- Kuponderezedwa mu maphunziro, maphunziro ndi kulera . Amagwiritsidwa ntchito pa magawo onse a moyo: kusukulu, yunivesite, ndi zina zotero.
- Kuthamangitsidwa m'ma TV. Masiku ano, ndale ndi ziwerengero zina zimagwiritsa ntchito mwaluso, zomwe, mothandizidwa ndi televizioni, nyuzipepala, intaneti, zimabweretsa kwa anthu ambiri zofunika
zambiri, zomwe sizowona nthawi zonse. - Kuthamangitsidwa mu timu. Zimatanthauza kulankhulana ndi abwenzi, ogwira nawo ntchito, ndi zina zotero.
Zizindikiro za kusokoneza
Pali zifukwa zingapo zomwe zingathandize kuzindikira mphamvu inayake, monga kusokoneza:
- okhudzidwa amamvetsa bwino zomwe akufuna komanso momwe angakwaniritsire;
- chikoka chimabisa mwadala zolinga zake ndi zolakalaka kuchokera ku chinthu choyendetsa;
- Munthu amene akugwiritsidwa ntchito akuyenera kukhala ndi udindo wonse.