Chilakolako cha kudzikuza ndi chilengedwe chokhalitsa, popanda umunthu sichidzafike pakadali pano. Vuto liri m'mabvuto omwe akudikirira njirayi, imodzi mwa iyo ingakhale mavuto omwe alipo, kuchoka ku kutsutsana kwapakati. Pali nthendayi, pamene palibe chifukwa chodandaula za zosowa zofunika pamoyo.
Vuto lomwe liripo mu moyo waumunthu
Chikhumbo chotsimikizira kuti kulipo kwawo kumachitika mwa zonse, koma kufotokoza zambiri kumakhala kosavuta komanso kosavuta chifukwa cha kukhulupilira kwakukulu kapena kuika maganizo a mtundu wina. Mavuto omwe alipo amayamba panthawi yachisokonezo pazimene tasankha kale. Munthuyo amasiya kukhutira ndi kukwera kwake kwa chikhalidwe kapena kutaya chikhulupiriro m'moyo wapamwamba. Chifukwa china cha zochitika zoterozo chingakhale chidziwitso cha kusadziŵika kwa imfa.
Zovuta zenizeni za munthu
Zikuwoneka kuti ziwonetsero zoterezi zimayendera ndi eni ake nthawi yopanda malire, anthu ogwira ntchito mwakhama alibe mphamvu zotsalira za neurosis. Izi ndi zoona zenizeni, zomwe zimachitika nthawi zambiri zimakhala zikuyendera ndi oimira ntchito zaluso, omwe amagwira ntchito mwaluso sakhala ndi chidwi chodzikonda okha, koma satetezedwa kwathunthu.
Zoperekera zokhudzana ndi ubongo zingakhale:
- kutayika kwa wokondedwa;
- kuopseza moyo wake;
- kugwiritsa ntchito psychedelics;
- kudzipatula kwanthaŵi yaitali;
- kuchoka ndi wokondedwa kapena ana.
Vuto la existenceential ndi kudzipha
Poganizira, munthu amakumana ndi kutsutsana, komwe kumapangitsa kuti pakhale kufunika kwa moyo wake komanso kumvetsetsa panthawi yomweyo. Kulephera kupeza njira yothetsera vutoli kumakhala kukhumudwa kwina, komwe kulibe chidwi ndi tsogolo lanu. Kuwonjezeka kwa vutoli kungayambitse chikhumbo chothetsa moyo wawo wopanda pake, umene sungatheke kuti aliyense apindule. Pankhaniyi, ndizovuta kwambiri kuti munthu athetse vutoli payekha.
Kusungulumwa kwina
Pali mitundu iwiri yokha kusungulumwa: tsiku ndi tsiku komanso paliponse. Yoyamba imadziwika ndi kudzipatula pakati pa anthu, nthawi zambiri imagwirizanitsidwa ndi mantha okanidwa kapena kuopa kuti wina ayandikire kwambiri. Ndipo mtundu wachiwiri umakhala wozama, osadalira kokha kupezeka kwa anthu omwe ali pafupi. Apa vuto liri mu chiwonongeko cha mtendere wa mumtima chimene munthu aliyense ali nacho.
Chotsatira cha ichi ndi kukhumudwa komwe kulipo, kotayidwa ndi kutayika kwa chilakolako chofuna kudziwa tanthauzo lina. Munthu amamva kuti alibe chidwi, ali ndi nkhawa, koma chikhalidwe sichiri chilengedwe. Izi zikutanthauza kuti mavuto omwe alipo alipo pamapeto pake, amadziona ngati wopanda nzeru, safuna kuphunzira chinachake chatsopano ndikukhazikitsa, komabe palibe chikhumbo chodzivulaza yekha.
Chiwopsezo chenicheni
Zochitika za mtundu uwu nthawi zambiri zimagawidwa kwa gulu losiyana, chifukwa sizigwirizana ndi zochitika zina, koma zimagwirizana ndi dziko la mkati mwa munthu . Kuda nkhawa komwe kumachitika mosiyanasiyana kumachitika mwa onse, koma nthawi zonse sikumveka bwino chifukwa cha mphamvu yaikulu ya chikumbumtima. Kuzama kwake ndi zovuta zopezeka poopa kuika malire momveka bwino zimapangitsa kuti zitha kuthetseratu. Maganizo onse omwe alipo ali ogawidwa m'magulu akulu akulu:
- mantha a nthawi - munthu amawopa kukalamba, kukhala wopanda thandizo, kufa, chifukwa cha tsogolo losatsimikizika;
- mantha a danga - mantha a mdima , kuya, malo osatsegula, kusintha, chilakolako chotsatira bwino njira ya moyo ndikutsatira kokha;
- mantha a moyo - zochitika zokhudzana ndi chinsinsi, chinsinsi ndi kupanda pake kamodzi kokha;
- Kuopa nokha ndi mantha a kutayika maganizo kapena kutaya mphamvu, kusamvetsetsa zolinga zanu kapena zochita zanu.
Vinyo Wofunika
Iyi ndiyo nthawi yabwino kwambiri yoganizira za tsogolo lanu, monga momwe ziyenera kukhalira zingathandize kukhala ndi chilakolako chofuna kupita patsogolo, kukhala ndi luso lapadera, komanso njira zoyankhulana ndi dziko lapansi. Amathandizira kutulutsidwa kwa munthuyo kumtunda watsopano. Kupitilira zovuta pamoyo wamoyo kungapereke zifukwa zitatu zazikulu zowonekera kuti ndidzimva:
- kudzidzimitsa nokha;
- ziyanjano zolimba kwambiri ndi achibale ndi anthu ofunikira;
- kutaya kugwirizana ndi Absolute.
Kodi mungatani kuti muthane ndi vutoli?
Pamaso pa kumverera kwakukulu ndi kumverera kwa imfa ya moyo, munthu samafufuza bwino mphamvu zothetsera mavuto omwe alipo, kupambana kumene kuli ndi magawo akulu awiri:
- Kuzindikiridwa . Vuto ndilo, liyenera kuthetsedwa, ndipo n'zotheka, munthu aliyense ali mfulu mwachisankho chake.
- Tanthauzo latsopano . Vuto ndilo kuyambira kwa siteji yatsopano, zifukwa zakale zomwe sizikhala zowonjezera, nthawi yakupeza zatsopano. Tanthauzo likhoza kupezeka pakupeza pazipitazi zosangalatsa kuchokera ku moyo, komanso kubweretsa phindu kwaumunthu.
Akatswiri a zamaganizo amadziwa kuti angathe kuchepetsa kukula kwa zomwe akumana nazo pokambirana ndi okondedwa awo. Ngati izi sizikutengedwa, existential neurosis ikukula motsutsana ndi zomwe zinachitikira, zomwe zimayambitsa kusokonezeka kwa ziwalo za mkati. Ndi khunyu, katswiri yekha yemwe angagwiritse ntchito mankhwala ovuta (psychocorrection ndi mankhwala) adzatha kupirira.