Kudzudzula - choti uchite ngati utataya kudzoza kwako, ndikuti ungayang'ane pati?

Simungakhale wolemba ndakatulo, wolemba kapena wojambula, koma kuti mulembe ndakatulo zodabwitsa ndikulemba zithunzi zozizwitsa, mukhoza kuchita zozizwitsa ndi kukwaniritsa zolinga . Sikoyenera kukhala munthu wa ntchito yolenga, kudzoza kungakhoze kuwonetsera mu gawo lirilonse la moyo.

Kodi kudzoza ndi chiyani?

Pamene palibe kuyembekezera kwa chozizwitsa ndi wamba wamba kunja kwawindo, pomwe mwadzidzidzi kumverera kumayamba kuphulika mwa munthu, mwayi wodabwitsa umawonekera. Ngati mutumizira ku chingwe china, mungathe kupambana bwino. Kudzoza ndi mkhalidwe wapadera wa moyo wa munthu umene ukuphulika ndipo ukufuna kuti uchitike. Poyang'anizana ndi izi, anthu ambiri amayamba kuyang'ana zofuna zawo, choncho zogwira ntchito zamakono zimakhala zobadwa, zopangidwa zimapangidwa, kulengedwa kwatsopano ndi kufunafuna zosadziwika zikuchitika. Mukakhala ndi kudzoza kwodziwa, munthu amamuyang'ana paliponse.

Nchiyani chimapereka kudzoza?

Mu moyo wauzimu wa moyo , n'zotheka kuthetsa mafunso alionse ndipo mavuto onse adzakhala opanda mphamvu. Kuwuziridwa mu moyo wa munthu kumakhudza osati iye yekha, koma anthu ena omwe akumzungulira iye. Pokhala wolamulidwa ndi maganizo, iye akhoza mosavuta kukhulupirira ena kuti avomereze malingaliro ake, kumupangitsa iye kuyesa lingaliro lake, kukonza gululo ndi kumutsogolera iye kukakumana ndi tsiku latsopano. Mphamvu kwa ena ndi chifukwa cha kudzoza kwaumwini, munthu yekhayo mudziko lino akhoza kukonda kwambiri chinthu china chake. Chikoka chake sichitha kusiya anthu omwe ali pafupi.

Kodi kudzoza kumabwera bwanji?

Nthawi zambiri mumamva kuti nyumba yosungiramo zinthu zakale imabwera kwa munthu wina. Ndipo amayendera osati anthu okha opanga ntchito: ojambula, oimba, ojambula, komanso anthu wamba. Kuwuziridwa mwadzidzidzi kungathe kusefukira kwa aliyense ndipo monga kuyendetsa matsenga kumakhala chilakolako chopanga bwino. Nyumba yosungirako zinthu sizimabwera pamene iye akufunsidwa ndipo sawerengera nthawi yabwino. Ifika mosayembekezereka, ndipo mtsinje wachimwemwe wa malingaliro umasanduka mtsinje wokhotakhota. Ngati chilakolako chimabwera ndi kudya, ndiye kuti kudzoza kungabwere pa ntchito. Chikhalidwe cha moyo panthawi ya kudzoza chiri pafupi ndi euphoria.

Bwanji ngati ine nditaya kudzoza kwanga?

Anthu amakonda kuyang'ana chinachake chatsopano, amafunikira othandizira ndi zolimbikitsa. Vuto ndiloti ndizosatheka kuti upeze ulemelero mwachindunji, koma payekha sikubwera kawirikawiri. Kotero, ndikuti kuti apeze kudzoza? Ndikoyenera kudzipatula nokha ndikuchita bizinesi yomwe mumakonda, kusamba mbale ndikuyeretsa nyumba ndikujambula ndi kuyima pa makina. Muse amayamba kugwira ntchito, sakonda anthu aulesi. Kudzoza ndi chipatso cha chikondi ndi lingaliro lowala. Ojambula, olemba ndakatulo ndi anthu ena ambiri olenga, akuzunzidwa kulenga, kufunafuna kudzoza paliponse, ndipo musagone pabedi.

Momwe mungapezere kudzoza?

Anthu ambiri amadziwa kale za kusokonezeka kwa maganizo oterewa. Ngati kumverera uku kutayika ndipo sikubweranso kwa nthawi yaitali, ndiye funso lidzawoneka - kuti ndiyang'anire kudzoza? Zomwe mwakumvererazi ndizokhazikika kwa wina aliyense, poyesa chirichonse chomwe mungathe kupeza njira yanu yakufunira.

• Chimodzi mwa zofunikira kwambiri ndi chikondi;
• kuwerenga mabuku omwe akulimbikitsanso kuti azikhalabe;
• kuyenda kapena kulingalira za chirengedwe, timapeza malingaliro atsopano ndikuponyera ku kudzoza;
• Kulankhulana ndi anthu osangalatsa ndi opambana;
• luso lingapangitse moyo wathu kukhala wamantha;
• chikondi kwa banja lanu, ana angakhale chilimbikitso chabwino kuti asunthire ku cholinga ngakhale mwakuya kwambiri;
• Kuthamanga kwa mmawa kapena madzulo kumathandiza kuti pakhale kuwonekera kwaulemerero.

Mabuku a kudzoza

Kuwerenga mabuku abwino sikungokupangitsani kuganiza, komanso kumakhala kolimbikitsa kusintha moyo wanu. Mabuku a kudzoza ndi chilimbikitso chomwe chinathandiza anthu ambiri kumvetsa bwino miyoyo yawo, kupeza chiyanjano chamkati ndikuyamba kukhulupirira mu chozizwitsa:

1. "Madigiri 451 Fahrenheit" ndi Ray Bradbury. Ntchitoyi inachititsa ambiri kuyamba kuganiza za mutu wawo.
2. "Kupha Mbalame" ndi Harper Lee . Mukawerenga bukuli, mukhoza kuyang'ana dziko lapansi m'njira yatsopano, ndi maso a mwana.
3. Buku lofotokoza mbiri ya anthu "Idyani, Pempherani, Chikondi" mlembi Elizabeth Gilbert adzakhala cholimbikitsani kusiya mtendere.
4. "Zaka 100 Zokha Solokha." Gabriel Garcia Marquez anawonetsa nkhani yokhudzana ndi kusungulumwa, osati kwa amuna amodzi yekha, koma kwa anthu onse mu buku lake.
5. "Ulendo wautali wopita ku ufulu" ndi buku la Nelson Mandela . Ili ndi buku lokhudza munthu wamphamvu yemwe anali purezidenti wa South Africa. Mndandanda wa mabuku omwe ali ndi magwero a kudzoza akhoza kupitilira kwamuyaya, pali ntchito zambiri zoyenera zomwe zingabweretse chisangalalo ndi kuyambitsa mphepo yamkuntho.

Mafilimu Olimbikitsa

Vuto lirilonse likhoza kuthetsedwa, ndipo choletsedwa kuti chigonjetsedwe, ichi chikuphunzitsidwa ndi mafilimu, atatha kuyang'ana zomwe zimabwera ndi kudzoza kwa moyo. Mafilimu oterewa sikuti amangokhalira kukakamiza, amatsegula maulendo atsopano, chifukwa cha iwo akufuna kuti akonze ndikupita ku maloto, osamvetsera mavuto onsewa:

1. "Kufunafuna chimwemwe . " Firimuyi ikufotokoza nkhani ya Chris Garden. Tsogolo la mamilioni lidzakulimbikitsani inu kuti mugwire ntchito ndi kuyesetsa maloto anu.
2. "Moyo wodabwitsa wa Walter Mitty" ndi filimu yonena za munthu wamng'ono yemwe adatembenuzidwa ndi madigiri 180.
3. «Kugalamuka» . Mukawona chithunzichi, mukufuna kutsegula maso anu.
4. "Wopambana" - masewera a masewera amaonekera mu chithunzi ichi. Firimuyi imaposa chiyembekezo chonse cholimba.
5. "Aviator" ndi filimu yokhudza zosatheka, kutsimikizira kuti anthu amapanga malire enieni.

Mndandanda wa mafilimu abwino ndiwopambana kwambiri, owonetsedwa ndi kanema, anthu akufuna kukhala ndi kulenga, amasiya kuganiza za komwe angapeze kudzoza.

Momwe mungamulimbikitsire munthu?

Chilichonse chomwe chimachita zogonana mwamphamvu, amachichita kwa theka labwino la umunthu. Mkazi aliyense amatha kulimbikitsa mwamuna wake. Momwe mungamulimbikitsire munthu kuti apambane?

1. Kulemekeza mwamuna wanu, zochita zake kapena zolinga zake nthawi zonse zimafuna kuvomerezedwa ndi mkazi.
2. Musati muzitha kunyoza ndi kunyoza, ngakhale mutaganiza kuti zochita zake ndizolakwika. Ndiuzeni mofatsa za izi. Ngati izi zikutanthauza makhalidwe ake, nenani, koma mosamala.
3. Pa njira yopambana pamapeto a tsiku, samalirani. Koma njira yomwe angafunire kukhala. Funsani, chisamaliro chimatanthauza chiyani kwa iye?
4. Moyo wapamtima si wokondweretsa, ndi njira yolankhulirana. Mayi akhoza kusonyeza momwe amamukondera, amamukhulupirira mwamuna wake
5. Lolani munthu wanu akhale mfulu. Muloleni iye akhazikitse zolinga ndikusankha njira zoyenera kuzigwiritsira ntchito.
6. Kawirikawiri perekani munthu wanu maganizo abwino.
7. Kuyamikira kumatha kuchita zozizwitsa, kuphunzitsa kukhala oyamikira.
8. Khalani akazi. Mwamuna aliyense akufuna kuwona pafupi ndi mkazi wokonzekera bwino, amenenso amadziwika ndi amuna ena. Amuna akupeza mpikisano ndipo nthawi zonse amayesera kukhala opambana kuposa okondana.

Momwe mungamulimbikitsire munthu kuti achite zinthu?

Akazi omwe amachititsa anthu kugwiritsa ntchito zinsinsi. Popeza mwawadziwa, mungathe kumupangitsa munthu kuchita zinthu.

1. Khalani okongola osati kunja kokha kwanu, komanso kunyumba. Kutaya, malaya akale otulidwa ndi zovala zonyansa popanda kuganiza. Zodzoladzola ndipo musaiwale kusakaniza tsitsi lanu mutangomuka. Mkazi wopanda amayi, wopanda chiuno ndi chobvala chodetsedwa sangayembekezeko kulimbikitsa munthu kutenga ngakhale zonyansa.
2. Chitani masewera, pezani zokondweretsa ndikuyamba kukula.
3. Khalani mzere wa chimwemwe.
4. Musapite ndi nkhope yowawasa, musatenthe nthawi zonse, momwe mungakhalire ndi zoipa. Bwino kumapangitsa chidaliro mwa iye kuti iye ndi wabwino kwambiri ndipo akhoza kugonjetsa chirichonse.
5. Kuwongolera naye, kumwetulira mobwerezabwereza ndikumbukira kuti moyo wapamtima wokondweretsa ndilo pangano la banja losangalala .
6. Ngati mukufuna kuwona mwamuna mwa mwamuna - khalani mkazi.

Momwe mungamulimbikitsire munthu kuti apeze?

Nthawi zina mwamuna sangathe kumvetsetsa momwe bajeti ya banja iyenera kukhalira komanso momwe ayenera kukhalira. Kulakwitsa kwa amayi ambiri ndiko kuti m'malo molimbikitsa wokwatirana, amapanga zolakwika. Njira iyi poyamba inali kutaya. Kwa wokondedwayo anayamba kupeza zambiri zomwe ziyenera kulimbikitsidwa kuti zikulimbikitse. Kuwukitsa munthu ndikopumira chikhumbo mwa iye. Izi zingatheke pothandizidwa ndi:

• kutamanda ndi kuvomereza;
• chiyanjano;
• zolinga zofanana;
• mothandizidwa ndi ana komanso zofuna zawo.