Tsopano pali mwayi wambiri wa chitukuko cha ana a luso la mitundu yonse. Ndipo amayi onse ali ndi chidaliro kuti ndi mwana wake yemwe ali ndi luso lapadera, ndipo nthawizina osati limodzi. Ana a zaka ziwiri amatengedwera kuvina, ndi atatu amaphunzitsidwa chinenero chachilendo, ndipo kuyambira anayi amatumizidwa ku sukulu ya nyimbo. Zotsatira zake, mwanayo wathyoledwa, ndipo kudutsa kwa ana.
Kumbali imodzi, n'zoonekeratu kuti makolo akuyesera kupereka mwayi wambiri kwa mwana, chifukwa m'tsogolomu chilichonse chikhoza kubwera. Koma nthawi zina ana ochokera ku bwalo lozungulira amachititsa mantha kuti asatayike komanso kuti asaulule luso, choncho amatha kulimbitsa zonse mwakamodzi. Kuti tisawononge ana, tiyeni tiyese kuona ngati pali zizindikiro ndi njira zoonekeratu zomwe zikuwunikira kuti adziwe mphatso.
Njira za mphatso
Vuto la mphatso ndilololedwa mosamala mu kuwerenga maganizo. Aliyense amadziwa kufunika kwake kuona nthawi yake momwe zimakhalire ndikupanga talente, kotero akatswiri a maganizo azindikira zizindikiro zoyambirira za mphatso:
- chitukuko chakupita patsogolo, chidwi;
- Kuzindikira njira yosamvetsetseka ya kuganiza pa msinkhu wachinyamata;
- luso lokhala ndi chidwi chachikulu;
- chithunzi chokongola;
- kukhala ndi chilungamo chokwanira, kukhudzidwa mtima ndi kukhudzidwa;
- Kukula kwaumunthu kuli patsogolo kwambiri pa thupi;
- zovuta poyankhulana ndi anzanga.
Palinso mayesero oyenerera a mphatso, opangidwa ndi akatswiri a maganizo a anthu kuti aone zochitika zosiyanasiyana. Njira yophunzirira mphatso yonse ingagwiritsidwe ntchito ndi makolo kapena aphunzitsi. Limapereka makhalidwe khumi omwe ayenera kuyesedwa pamlingo wochokera ku zero kufika zisanu, malinga ndi mlingo wa kuuma kwawo.
Njira ya "Khadi la Mphatso" imalola kuti muyese kuyesa mphatso za ana kuyambira zaka zisanu mpaka khumi. Lili ndi mafunso makumi asanu ndi atatu omwe amafalitsidwa pambali zosiyanasiyana za makhalidwe ndi zochitika za mwanayo, zomwe zimawerengedwa pazithunzi zinayi.
- (++) - ngati katundu woyang'aniridwa wapangidwa bwino, akufotokozedwa momveka bwino, akudziwonetsa kawirikawiri;
- (+) - katundu amavomerezedwa, koma amadziwonetsera okha;
- (0) - zinthu zomwe zimayesedwa komanso zosiyana sizifotokozedwa momveka bwino, zimakhala zosawonetsera kawirikawiri, zimatsutsana ndi khalidwe ndi ntchito;
- (-) - imatchulidwa kwambiri ndipo nthawi zambiri malo osayanjanitsika akuwonetsedwa.
Choncho, mwana wanu:
- Ali ndi malingaliro oganiza bwino, amatha kugwira ntchito ndi maganizo osadziwika.
- Osagwirizana amaganiza ndipo nthawi zambiri amapereka njira zosadziwika, zoyambirira.
- Amaphunzira chidziwitso chatsopano mwamsanga, chirichonse "chimagwira pa ntchentche."
- Palibe zowonongeka muzojambula. Zachiyambi pakusankha ziwembu. Kawirikawiri amajambula zinthu zosiyanasiyana, anthu, mikhalidwe.
- Amasonyeza chidwi chachikulu pa maphunziro a nyimbo.
- Amakonda kulemba (kulemba) nkhani kapena ndakatulo.
- Zimangowonjezera mosavuta mbali iliyonse ya munthu: nyama, nyama, ndi zina zotero.
- Wokonda makina ndi makina.
- Choyamba polankhulana ndi anzanga.
- Wamphamvu, amapereka lingaliro la mwana yemwe amafunikira kuchuluka kwa kayendedwe kake.
- Pali chidwi chachikulu ndi luso lapadera lokhazikitsa.
- Osati za kuyesedwa kwatsopano, nthawizonse amayesera kuyesa lingaliro latsopano.
- Mwamsanga amakumbukira zomwe wamva ndi kuziwerenga popanda kukumbukira mwakuya, satenga nthaŵi yochuluka pa zomwe ziyenera kukumbukiridwa.
- Amakhala woganiza komanso wolimba kwambiri akaona chithunzi chabwino, amamva nyimbo, amawona zithunzi zachilendo, chinthu chokongola kwambiri.
- Zosamvetsetsa mtundu wa nyimbo.
- Zingathe kumangapo nkhani mosavuta, kuyambira pa chiwembu cha chiwembu ndikutha ndi kuthetsa mkangano uliwonse.
- Wokonda kuchita.
- Zingathe kukonza zipangizo zowonongeka, gwiritsani ntchito zigawo zakale kupanga zatsopano, zida, zipangizo.
- Kusunga chidaliro kumalo a alendo.
- Amakonda kutenga nawo mbali masewera a masewera ndi mpikisano.
- Amatha kufotokoza maganizo ake bwino, ali ndi mawu ambiri.
- Zosangalatsa pakusankha ndi kugwiritsa ntchito zinthu zosiyanasiyana (mwachitsanzo, zimagwiritsa ntchito masewera osati masewera okha, komanso zipangizo, zinthu zapanyumba ndi zina).
- Amadziwa zambiri zokhudza zochitika ndi mavuto omwe anzake amadziwa kawirikawiri.
- Amatha kupanga mapangidwe a maluwa, zojambula, miyala, masampampu, makasitomala, ndi zina zotero.
- Amaimba zabwino.
- Kulankhula za chinachake, amadziwa momwe angamvere nkhani yosankhidwa, sataya lingaliro lofunikira.
- Zimasintha tanthauzo ndi mawu a mawu pamene akuwonetsera munthu wina.
- Amakonda kumvetsa zomwe zimayambitsa njira zopanda ntchito, amakonda kusokonezeka kwachinsinsi ndi mafunso pa "kufufuza."
- Kulankhulana momasuka ndi ana ndi akulu.
- Nthaŵi zambiri amapambana ndi anzawo m'maseŵera osiyanasiyana a masewera.
- Ndi bwino kumvetsa kugwirizana pakati pa chochitika chimodzi ndi china, pakati pa chifukwa ndi zotsatira.
- Iye amatha kutengedwera, kupita kumalo komwe amamufuna.
- Amapeza anzanga mwa kuphunzira kwa chaka chimodzi kapena ziwiri, i.es. kwenikweni ayenera kukhala m'kalasi lapamwamba kuposa momwe aliri tsopano.
- Amakonda kugwiritsa ntchito zinthu zina zatsopano popanga ma tepi, ma collages, zithunzi, pomanga nyumba za ana pabwalo la masewera.
- Mu masewera pa chida, mu nyimbo kapena kuvina, icho chimapereka mphamvu zambiri ndi kumverera.
- Amatsatira zokhazokha m'nkhani za zochitika, amasiya zonse zopanda phindu, amasiya zinthu zofunika kwambiri, zomwe zimawoneka bwino.
- Kuchita zochitika zochititsa chidwi, amatha kumvetsa ndi kusonyeza nkhondoyo.
- Amakonda kujambula zithunzi ndi njira zamagetsi.
- Pezani zifukwa za zochita za ena, zolinga za khalidwe lawo. Amamvetsa bwino lomwe osayimilira.
- Amathamanga mofulumira kuposa onse omwe ali mu sukulu ya sukulu, m'kalasi.
- Amakonda kuthetsa ntchito zovuta zomwe zimafuna khama.
- Amatha kuyandikira mosiyana ndi vuto lomwelo.
- Amasonyeza chidwi chodziwika bwino, chodziŵika bwino.
- Amadzikoka mwadala, nkhungu, amapanga zolemba zomwe zili ndi maluso (zokongoletsera nyumba, zovala, etc.), panthawi yawo yopanda phindu, popanda kukopa akuluakulu.
- Amakonda zolemba nyimbo. Amayesetsa kupita ku konsati kapena kumvetsera nyimbo.
- Amasankha m'nkhani zake mawu ngati amenewa, omwe amasonyeza maganizo a anthu otchulidwa m'nkhaniyi, zomwe amamva komanso zomwe amamva.
- Zimakhudza kupyolera m'maganizo, manja, kusuntha.
- Amawerenga (amakonda, akawerenga) magazini ndi nkhani zokhudzana ndi kulengedwa kwa zipangizo zatsopano, makina, njira.
- Nthawi zambiri amatsogolera masewera ndi zochita za ana ena.
- Zimayenda mosavuta, mwachifundo. Ali ndi kugwirizana bwino kwa kayendetsedwe ka kayendetsedwe kake.
- Wopenya, amakonda kusanthula zochitika ndi zozizwitsa.
- Sizingangowonjezera, komanso zimapanga malingaliro awo komanso ena.
- Amawerengera mabuku, nkhani, mapulogalamu ambiri a sayansi patsogolo pa anzawo kwa chaka chimodzi kapena ziwiri.
- Yotembenuzirani kujambula kapena kuwonetsera kuti muwonetse malingaliro anu ndi maganizo anu.
- Amasewera bwino pa chida china.
- Amadziwa kufotokozera mfundo zoterezi m'nkhani zofunika kwambiri kuti amvetsetse zomwe zikuchitika (zomwe anzanu nthawi zambiri sadziwa kuti achite), ndipo nthawi yomweyo sakuphonya mndandanda wa zochitika zomwe akunena.
- Amayesetsa kukweza maganizo kwa anthu ena, pamene akunena za chinachake mwachangu.
- Amakonda kukambirana zochitika za sayansi, zochitika, nthawi zambiri amaganizira za izo.
- Zimakhudzidwa kutenga udindo, zomwe zimapitirira malire omwe alipo pa msinkhu wake.
- Amakonda kupita kumalo othamanga, kukacheza kumalo otetezera kunja.
- Akhoza kusunga zizindikiro, makalata, mawu kwa nthawi yaitali.
- Amakonda kuyesa njira zatsopano zothetsera mavuto a moyo, sakonda njira zomwe zakhala zikuyesedwa kale.
- Amatha kupeza zogwirizana ndi zowonjezera.
- Amakonda kupanga zithunzi zitatu, kuti azigwira ntchito ndi dongo, pulasitiki, mapepala ndi gulu.
- Poimba ndi nyimbo, amayesa kufotokoza mmene amamvera mumtima mwake.
- Amakonda kuganiza, amayesa kuwonjezera chinthu chatsopano ndi chachilendo pamene akunena za chinthu chomwe kale chidziwika ndi chodziwika kwa aliyense.
- Ndikumasewera momasuka, amamveketsa malingaliro ndi zochitika pamtima.
- Amathera nthawi yochuluka pomanga ndi kukhazikitsa "ntchito" zake (zitsanzo za ndege, magalimoto, zombo).
- Ana ena amasankha kumusankha ngati wokondana nawo masewera ndi makalasi.
- Amasankha kugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yake yocheza mu masewera othamanga (hockey, basketball, mpira, etc.).
- Ali ndi zofuna zambiri, akufunsa mafunso ambiri ponena za chiyambi ndi ntchito za zinthu.
- Zopindulitsa, zirizonse zomwe mukuchita (kujambula, kulemba nkhani, kupanga, etc.), amatha kupereka malingaliro ochuluka osiyana ndi malingaliro.
- Panthawi yake yopanda malire amakonda kuwerenga zofalitsa za sayansi (zolemba za ana ndi mabuku ofotokozera) kuposa kuwerenga mabuku a zojambulajambula (nkhani zamatsenga, otsogolera, etc.).
- Angathe kufotokozera yekha kuyamikira ntchito za luso, kuyesa kubereka zomwe iye ankakonda, mu kujambula kwake, chidole, kujambula.
- Iye amapanga nyimbo zake zoyambirira.
- Amatha kufotokozera anthu ake omwe ali amoyo m'nkhaniyi, amasonyeza khalidwe lawo, malingaliro awo, maganizo awo.
- Amakonda maseŵero a masewera.
- Mwamsanga ndi mosavuta pulogalamu yamakina.
- Ali ndi mphatso yokopa, amatha kulimbikitsa maganizo ake kwa ena.
- Amakhala opirira kwambiri kuposa anzawo.
Kusintha kwa zotsatira:
Lembani chiwerengero cha zophatikizira ndi zosungira zowonongeka (kuphatikiza ndi kuchepetsana mwachindunji). Zotsatira za ziwerengero zili pansipa, pansi pa ndime iliyonse. Zowonjezera za zizindikiro zimasonyeza kukula kwanu kwa mwana wa mphatso zamtundu wanji:
- luntha;
- kulenga;
- wophunzira (sayansi);
- chithunzi;
- nyimbo;
- cholemba;
- chithunzi;
- luso;
- Utsogoleri;
- masewera.
Njira imeneyi ikhoza kugwiritsira ntchito chithandizo chokha, komanso kukhazikitsa ntchito, chifukwa mudzakwaniritsa mndandanda wa mawu omwe angakulimbikitseni ndi kukhala ngati pulogalamu ya chitukuko.
Musayesere kukakamiza mwana wanu maloto anu ndipo musakhale ndi chifukwa chilichonse. Ndi bwino kumvetsera zomwe amachita ndi zosangalatsa, kuthandizira zokondweretsa zake ndikuyesera kukulitsa zowonjezereka, mwinamwake, zikhoza kukhala zomwe zimakhudza chidwi cha mwana wanu.