Nthawi zina misonzi imatuluka popanda chifukwa chapadera - chinachake mwadzidzidzi chimakumbukiridwa kapena kumveka nyimbo ndizokongola kwambiri moti zimakhala zovuta kuti muzidzimvera nokha, koma sizingatheke kuzifotokozera mwanjira ina. Muzochitika zonsezi, tikukamba za kumverera ngati maganizo.
Kodi kumverera kumatanthauza chiyani?
Tanthawuzo la mawu akuti sentimentality limakhala loyera, ndikofunikira kuti tizindikire muzu wa Chifaransa kuti "malingaliro", omwe amatanthawuza ngati "kumverera." Izi ndizo, malo enieni a psyche, omwe amadziwika ndi kukonda kwambiri komanso kulota. Ngati munthu ali ndi malingaliro, maganizo onse omwe amachokera kudziko lakunja samakhudza malingaliro ndi malingaliro, koma, poyamba, maganizo.
Anthu okhumudwa angathe kupatula nthawi yapadera yosonyeza chidwi, chifundo, kukhudzidwa ndi chifundo. Sasiya kusiyanitsa zomwe ena samvetsera kapena kuchitapo kanthu.
Kuwonjezeka maganizo
Kawirikawiri, lingaliro la kuchuluka kwa malingaliro ndilokhakha ndipo limadalira malingaliro a munthu mmodzi. Kwa wina mu dongosolo la zinthu kuti awononge bukhuli ndi kusangalala ndi chimwemwe, mwangozi akakumana ndi bwenzi lakale, ndipo wina sangakwanitse kusonyeza malingaliro pamaliro a wokondedwa, chifukwa amachiwona ngati chiwonetsero cha kufooka.
Koma ngati machitidwe amalingaliro ali amphamvu kwambiri, munthu sangathe kuwaletsa, ndipo amawawonetsa iwo molakwika, ndiye kuti malingaliro oterewa angatanthauzidwe ngati opanda pake.
Kuwonjezeka kwamalingaliro kawirikawiri ndi khalidwe la akazi. Amuna amakhalanso okhudzidwa kwambiri pa nthawi, izi zimakhala chifukwa cha kusintha kwakukulu kwa zaka, makamaka, kuchepetsa kupanga mahomoni amphongo, koma kawirikawiri akafika pamtunda wa hafu yokongola yaumunthu.
Kuchita zinthu mopambanitsa kungakhale kosatha komanso kumakhalidwe abwino. Ngati mumakonda kuti musamadzimvere nokha, ndipo muwafotokozere momveka bwino njira zina zachinsinsi, ndipo izi sizimakulepheretsani kukhala ndi moyo konse, musadandaule.
Koma malingaliro achikhalidwe angadziwonetsere ngakhale pakati pa anthu osungidwa omwe ali ndi maganizo ena, mkhalidwe wa thanzi kapena chochitika. Nthawi zonse timakhala otetezeka kwambiri panthawi ya mavuto kapena pamene chinachake chikuvulaza. Komanso, pali chiopsezo chotaya mphamvu pazomwe mumakhala nazo nthawi yaitali. Kudzitamandira nokha kuti anthu amphamvu samalira, ndipo amayi nthawizonse amakhala ndi khalidwe loletsa, mumadzigwetsa nokha, zomwe zingachitike modzidzimutsa.
Kodi mungachotse bwanji maganizo anu?
Choyamba, muyenera kuchotsa kokha ngati kukuletsani. Apo ayi, chiwawa choterechi sichinthu cholakwika.
Yesetsani kuzindikira kuti sikuli kofunikira nthawizonse kuti muteteze mtima, pali zinthu zomwe sangathe kuziwonetsera, komanso zofunikira, chifukwa izi zimawabweretsa anthu. Mwinamwake, ndi bwino kudzipangira nokha kuntchito, koma m'banja ndi nokha ndi inu simukufunikira kukhala chitsulo. Musapewe ocheza nawo apamtima, kwa munthu aliyense ndikofunika kwambiri kuti musakhale ndi nthawi zonse zosangalatsa komanso chisoni mukakhala nokha.
Tchulani momveka bwino zochitikazi zomwe mungasonyeze kuyesa ndikuyesera kuti mukhale ndi zisonyezo zambiri mwa iwo ndikuganiziranso zambiri. Izi zidzakuthandizani kumvetsetsa nokha ndi kuphunzira zomwe mumachita. Nthawi zonse mumadziwa zomwe muyenera kuyembekezera mumphindi wotsatira. Kuwonjezera pamenepo, chisoni sichidzawonjezeka ndipo sichidzatha
Yesetsani kusintha izi pamoyo wanu ndipo patapita nthaŵi mukonzekere nokha mtundu wa "mayesero okhudzidwa". Ndipotu, ngati mumadziona kuti ndinu osasunthika, mwina muli ndi zochitika zomwe zimadziwonetsera. Tsopano ndi zovuta kulowa mwa iwo, mwachitsanzo, kuphatikiza filimu imene simungakhoze kuiwona mpaka kumapeto chifukwa cha misonzi. Zomwe angachite sizingasinthe, koma, pakakhala choncho, wina ayenera kuganiziranso mosamala ngati kuli koyenera kulimbana ndi malingaliro kapena ngati akuyenera kuvomerezedwa.