Ngati mumakhulupirira m'badwo wokalamba, ndiye kuti zochita zathu zonse kapena kunyalanyaza mu khitchini zingabweretse mavuto ena m'banja. Anapukuta tebulo ndipo idakhala lonyowa? - Konzekerani, mwamuna adzakhala chidakhwa, chabwino, ndipo ngati, Mulungu sakuletsa, ndithudi, nyenyeswa zing'onozing'ono zidagwa pansi, ndiye zonse, chiwerengero chanu, banja lanu lidzayendetsa bwino umphawi. Pali choonadi ndi zizindikiro zabwino: mbale ikugunda mosangalala! Ndipo kodi "zikhulupiliro za agogo aakazi" akunena chiyani za zodula, makamaka - foloko?
Chizindikiro - mphanda inagwa
Pochitika kuti foloko inagwa pansi kuchokera pa tebulo, kufika kwa msanga kwa mkazi kuneneratu chizindikiro. Ndipo mlendoyo sangakhale wosangalatsa kwa mamembala onse a m'banja, kapena amabweretsa uthenga woipa m'nyumba. Fotokozani zamatsengazi ndi zida zowonongeka za pulagi. Ndipo pofuna kupewa ulendo wosayembekezereka, chipangizocho sayenera kukwezedwa, kapena kugogoda pansi ndi mawu akuti: "Musapite kulikonse, khalani kunyumba!"
Kuthamangitsidwa kumaopseza waitress mosasamala pamene akutumikira. Zoona, ngati wantchito sakusiyana mofulumira komanso atasamala, adzataya ntchito osati chifukwa cha mphanda wagwetsedwa. Chizindikiro china ndi chakuti mulimonse mulibe muyenera kukweza zowonongeka mumsewu. Anthu amakhulupirira kuti ndi chithandizo cha mphanda yomwe mungathe kuchotsa diso loipa ndi kuwonongeka. Dutsani, mutagwira dzanja lanu lamanja. Mulimonsemo, musatuluke usiku wodula patebulo, iwo amakopera mphamvu yosayera.
Kukhulupirira zizindikiro kapena ayi?
Pali lingaliro lomwe maulosi amakwaniritsidwa kwa iwo omwe amakhulupirira mwa iwo. Ndipo ngati palibe yemwe ali pa tebulo sakuyang'ana pa foloko yakugwa, zovuta sizigwira ntchito. Njira yotsimikizika yosangalala nayo moyo uno, ndikukhulupirira kokha mwa anthu abwino. Apo ayi, zida zakugwa, makapu, mafoloko, matebulo osaphika komanso mbale zopanda chimbudzi zidzakuchititsani kupenga.