Amayi ambiri m'miyoyo yawo kamodzi amakumana ndi khalidwe lachilendo komanso losalemekeza amuna. Tiyenera kukumbukira kuti zovuta izi, monga lamulo, zinayambira pa zamagalimoto. Mapulototi amatha kusokonekera kugonana (kutsika). Ife tikambirana za izo lero.
Nthawi ndi liti
Chiprotterism ndi kupotoka mu khalidwe la chiwerewere, momwe chisangalalo ndi kukhutira zimapindula pochotsa ziwalo za thupi pa gawo la thupi la munthu akunja. Kawirikawiri zimakula kukhala zogonana komanso zimathera pomwepo. Kawirikawiri, munthu amene amachita izi, amawonetsa ziwalo zake zogonana. Komabe, nthawi zambiri, amachita izi kudzera mu zovala. Mukhoza kuganiza za kupotoka uku ngati mawonekedwe a ziwonetsero. Otsatirawo, ali ndi chikhumbo chowonetsera maubwenzi awo kwa anthu. Owonetserako machitidwe a "ntchito" zawo, monga lamulo, amasankha mapaki, mapaki ndi malo ozungulira. Ngati muli ndi mwamuna wokhala ndi malaya otseguka, omwe umaliseche wake umabisala, ingotembenuka ndikuchokapo. Maganizo osachepera omwe mumasonyezera, mwayi wochepa umene angasangalale nawo.
Kodi tingakumane ndi chodabwitsa chotani? Inde, poyendetsa pagalimoto, mu ora lachangu. Metro, basi - yopsereza (yogwiritsidwa ntchito) imagwira ntchito m'gulu la anthu, imasankha khamu lalikulu la anthu. Popanda kuyandikira chinthu chokongola, amayamba kuyandikira kwambiri. Munthu amachita zogonana pamene magalimoto akusuntha. Izi zimapangitsa kuti wodwala chibwibwi asamvetsetse zomwe zikuchitika. Adzapukuta pa zomwe akufuna, kuganiza, kufotokoza chiwalo chake chogonana.
Kunja, munthu sawoneka. Komanso, panthawi ya kukhazikitsidwa kwa kusokonekera, amakhalabe wosasokonezeka, wodekha, ngati palibe chomwe chikuchitika. Ngati mukusonyeza kuti akuchita zachiwawa, akukwiya, amawopa ndipo amatha kuthamanga.
Zimayambitsa
Chifukwa cha kupotoka uku ndi matenda a maganizo omwe ali kumbuyo kwa moyo wosagonana. Zotsatirazi zikhoza kuchititsa zotsatirazi:
- kusowa kwa chiwerewere, mavuto mu ubale;
- mavuto a chitukuko;
- kusasitsa kwa kugonana mochedwa kapena kosayenera;
- zochitika zomwe zinachitika pa nthawi ya kutha msinkhu. Mnyamata wokondweretsa kwambiri amakhoza kuchita ndi kukakamizidwa kuti akhudze thupi lachikazi mu khamulo;
- zodziwika bwino za kulera;
- kusokonezeka maganizo mu ubwana;
- kuwonjezereka kwakukulu, kugwedezeka kwa kugonana;
- fetishism (zovala, ziwalo za thupi lazimayi);
- Kusamalidwa ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.
Thawirani kuti muthawe
Ngati mukuyenda pagalimoto muli nkhani yosakondweretsa, ndibwino kuti mukhale motere:
- Choyamba, musachite mantha;
- Nkhanza pa mbali yanu ikhoza kuwonedwa ngati "bayonets" - simukudziwa chomwe munthu uyu ali;
- mwanjira yomweyi yosasokonezeka, chokani malo anu kapena kuchoka pa zoyendetsa ku malo oyandikira.
Mkazi aliyense akhoza kudzipeza kuti ndi wovuta kwambiri. Kodi ndiyenera kukopa chidwi pamene ndikufuna kugwa pansi? Kukonzekera zochitika ndi chisangalalo ndi zopanda phindu - sizingatheke kukonza zomwe zikuchitika. Komanso, muyenera kumvetsetsa kuti ndinu munthu wathanzi. Kwa ena izo ziwoneka zosasangalatsa, koma ziwonetseni chifundo ndi chisoni. Ingobisala m'magulu a anthu okwera popanda kukangana.
Mwanjira iliyonse, chisokonezo ndi zofewa kwambiri komanso zochepa kwambiri zomwe zimakhalapo zolakwika zogonana.