Kodi kuchotsa kunyada?

Muchikhristu, kunyada ndi koopsa kwambiri pa machimo asanu ndi awiri oopsa. Kuopsa kwa chilakolako ichi ndi chakuti munthu wonyada, wopanda pake, wodzikuza amakhala wotseguka ku zokhumba ndi machimo ena onse. Funso la kuchotsa kunyada, kudandaula anthu ambiri omwe amazindikira kuti akusowa ndikumvetsetsa kuti khalidweli limawalepheretsa kumanga ubale ndi ena komanso okondedwa awo.

Kodi kunyada ndi momwe tingagonjetsere?

Kunyada ndi kunyada - malingalirowo si ofanana, koma omveka bwino. Kunyada ndi kudzidalira kokwanira ndi kudzidalira, kunyada ndi lingaliro lakupambana kuposa anthu ena, kudana ndi zofooka ndi zofooka za ena.

Mu mbali yachipembedzo, kunyada ndi tchimo, lomwe linawonetsedwa koyamba ndi mngelo amene amadziyesa yekha wolingana ndi Mulungu. Kupandukira kwa Lusifala, amene adakhala Satana , ndi zotsatira za kudzikuza pamwambamwamba.

Kunyada ndi kunyada zikhoza kudziwonetsera okha mu zochitika zosiyanasiyana. Dzizindikireni palokha palokha:

• kukana maganizo a wina;
• kudzimva kukhala wofunika;
• zopanda pake;
• kukhudzika ndi mavuto anu;
• kunyalanyaza anthu osauka ndi osaphunzira;
• kugawidwa kwa anthu kukhala malemba ndi magulu.

Funso la momwe tingagonjetse kunyada sikufunsidwa ndi anthu omwe sanazindikire ngozi yonse ya chilakolako ichi. Choncho, sitepe yoyamba mukumenyana ndi tchimo ili ndikumvetsetsa kolephera kumeneku. Munthu aliyense nthawi ndi nthawi ayenera kudziyang'ana yekha kuchokera kunja ndikuyesa zochita zawo moyenera. Mkwiyo, kukwiyira ena, kunyansidwa ndi ofooka kapena kuchepetsa udindo ndi chitukuko kwa anthu - awa ndi mawonetseredwe abwino a kunyada.

Atapanga chiyambidwe choyamba, kuzindikira cholakwika ichi mwa iweeni, munthu akhoza kudzifufuza mokwanira payekha ndikuvomereza zolakwa zake. Anthu ena omwe ali ndi mphamvu ndi chuma amaona kuti ndi zofooka kuti avomereze zolakwa zawo. Komabe, kuzindikira ndi kulapa moona mtima ndiko njira yomwe ingathandizire kulimbana ndi kunyada, komanso ndi machimo ena, zilakolako ndi zophophonya.

Munthu wonyada ayenera kulapa ndikuphunzira kukhululukira anthu chifukwa cha zofooka zawo ndi zofooka zawo. Wokhulupirira pa nkhaniyi adzathandizidwa ndi mapemphero ndi uphungu wa wovomereza. Kwa munthu amene sakhulupirira kuti kuli Mulungu, njira yothetsa kudzikuza ndi yovuta ndi yovuta, koma ngati aphunzira kufufuza zochita zake ndikuzifufuza bwinobwino, akhoza kupeza chiyanjano, chiyanjano mwa iyeyekha. Kuzindikira kumawathandiza kusintha khalidwe lanu ndikusintha moyo wanu.