Nchifukwa chiani enafe timapambana mu moyo, kudzidalira, ndipo ngakhale, ngakhale zovuta, tipitiliza kukweza mitu yawo? Ndipo ena, ngakhale ali ndi zonse zomwe moyo ungasangalatse, azipita nazo mutu wawo ukucheperapo, kapena, mosiyana, ziribe kanthu momwe amayesera kuyang'ana chidaliro, iwo sachita kanthu kalikonse.
Chinsinsi chonse ndi chakuti oyamba ndiwo anthu amphamvu omwe ali ndi miyambo yawo yosasinthasintha, zizoloŵezi ndi zikhulupiliro. Ndi umunthu wathunthu umene makhalidwe ake sangasinthe ngakhale panthawi yovuta. Amadzichitira okha mosiyana ndi osowa ambiri, komanso, amaona kuti anthu amphamvu nthawi zonse amakhala ophweka. Tiyeni tiwone zomwe zimapangitsa munthu kukhala wamphamvu komanso momwe angakhalire wamakhalidwe abwino.
Kugonjetsedwa ndi kugonjetsedwa
Friedrich Nietzsche ankakhulupirira kuti zomwe sizikutipha zimatipangitsa kukhala olimba. Izi ndizoona, kugonjetsedwa kwakukulu ndi kulephera, kutayika ndi kutayika kungasonyeze mphamvu za umunthu wake. Munthu aliyense yemwe ali ndi khalidwe lolimba sangaime ngakhale asanagonjetsedwe, sataya mtima, m'malo mwake, amachokera pa izi phindu lokha: pindulapo ndikupitilirabe. Kulimbana ndi mavuto ambiri, munthu amachepetsa khalidwe lake, ndipo cholinga chachikulu chimakhala chofunika komanso chofunika kwambiri.
Koma kupambana kunapitiliza njira yopita ku zokhumba zawo, kulimbikitsanso chifuniro, kusonyeza kuti njira yomwe munthu akupitayo ndi yolondola, ndipo zolinga zikhoza kupezeka. Kuti mudziwe chomwe munthu wamphamvu amatanthauza, munthu akhoza kupambana pa moyo wake. Izi zikuwonetseredwa osati ndi zizindikiro zakunja ndi chitetezo chakunja, komabe ndi machitidwe oyendetsera mkati mwa kupambana kwawo ndi munthu mwiniwake. Zizindikiro za munthu wamphamvu yemwe amakumbukira mwangwiro ndi kuyamikira kupambana kwake konse ndi zotsatira zake, ndipo amagwiritsa ntchito zomwe waphunzira pazinthu zotsatira.
Makhalidwe abwino
Kukhulupirira mwa inu nokha, kudzipatulira, kulimba mtima ndi kutsimikiza nthawizonse kumasiyanitsa anthu amphamvu kwambiri, ndi chitsulo chofuna. Koma ndiuzeni, kodi simunazindikire kuti munthu m'modzi yekha angakhale wopanda khalidwe komanso wosaganizira? Makhalidwe oipawa samasonyeza kuti ali ndi mphamvu zenizeni, komanso amatsegula mbali zake zonse zoipa komanso zovuta. Anthu okomerana mtima ndi amphamvu, chifukwa mumafunikira kukhala ndi malo osungira mphamvu omwe mungagwiritse ntchito osati nokha komanso kukwaniritsa zolinga zanu, koma kuthandiza ena.
Funso "Kodi munthu wamphamvu ndi ndani?" Angayankhidwe motsimikiza - ndi munthu wachifundo ndi wowolowa manja, wosadzikonda komanso wowolowa manja, womvera komanso wachifundo. Mphamvu yochitira chifundo, kuthandiza mnzako, kukonzekera kudzimana, kudzikonda ndizo zonse zomwe zimapangitsa munthu kukhala wamphamvu.
Khalani wamphamvu
Choncho, tinayesa kuti ndi munthu wotani amene angatengere kukhala wamphamvu. Mphamvu ya chikhalidwe sichiperekedwa ndi kubadwa, ikhoza kupezeka ndikupangidwira kufika pazitali. Malangizo ena ndi malingaliro angathandize momwe mungakhalire munthu wamphamvu.
- Phunzitsani kufuna kwanu. Pewani ndi zizoloŵezi zoipa, yesetsani kuchita zambiri
kukonzekera, kukwaniritsa zomwe mwasankha, kutsirizitsa zomwe wayamba mpaka mapeto, musayimbenso "zapambuyo" nkhani zovuta ndi zovuta, kuthana nazo poyamba, kulimbana ndi ulesi. - Lowani masewera. M'maseŵera, ngakhale m'masewera olimbitsa thupi tsiku ndi tsiku, nthawi zonse ndi kofunika kuthana ndi mavuto ena, kutenga zolepheretsa. Kulowa masewera, mumaphunzitsa bwino mphamvu yanu, ndipo panthawi imodzimodzi ndi khalidwe lanu, pitirizani kudzidalira. Inde, ndipo thupi lidzakuthokozani chifukwa chokonzekera bwino thupi.
- Ikani zolinga. Lembani maloto, chifukwa chokha mungathe kuwona zomwe mungathe kuchita. Khalani ndi zolinga zokhumba, pokhapokha mutangokhala munthu wamphamvu kuti mukwaniritse zonse.