Kukonzekera mwambo - chidziwitso cha amayi
Pali mafunso ambiri omwe akukhudzana ndi nthawi yoyenera kuchita mwambo. Palibe malamulo omveka bwino pankhaniyi. Amaloledwa kubatiza mwana wakhanda kuyambira tsiku lachisanu ndi chitatu cha moyo wake. Koma mayi anga ayenera kukumbukira kuti sangathe kupita kutchalitchi kwa masiku 40 atabadwa. Ngati sakramenti ikuchitika panthawi imeneyi, ndiye kuti sangathe kutenga mbali. Komanso, munthu sayenera kulowa m'kachisimo pa nthawi ya kusamba ndipo izi ziyeneranso kuganiziridwa.
Chofunika kwambiri ndi funso loti asankhe mulungu. Ayenera kukhala anthu apamtima omwe ali okonzeka kuthandizira kulera mwanayo. Amayi azimayi ayenera kudziwa kuti kwa ana obatizidwa ndi okwanira okha mulungu. Panthawi imodzimodziyo, makolo a mnyamatayo amangodzibisa okha posankha mulungu. Komanso chifukwa cha ntchito imeneyi mukhoza kuitanira anthu ochepa. Komabe, ziyenera kukumbukiridwa kuti pali zopereƔera zina mwa kusankha kwa azimayi. Iwo sangakhoze kukhala:
- mwamuna ndi mkazi;
- ana (mulungu ayenera kukhala osachepera 13, ndipo bambo - 15);
- makolo sangakhale ana aamuna a mwana wawo;
- Osati Orthodox, osabatizidwa.
Apo ayi, zosankha sizingatheke. Mukhoza kuitana anzanu apamtima kapena achibale ena kuntchito yofunikayi. Chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti anthu adziwe udindo womwe adawapatsidwa.
Komanso amayi ayenera kulingalira zomwe ayenera kuvala pa ubatizo wa mwanayo. Pa nthawiyi mkazi aliyense amafuna kuoneka wochenjera. Koma ziyenera kukumbukira kuti pali malamulo ena oyenera kuyendera tchalitchi chomwe chiyenera kulemekezedwa. Amayi ayenera kuvala chovala pamunsi pa mawondo, zovala ziyenera kuphimba manja awo. Simungakhoze kuiwala za kamtengo kameneko ndi mfundo yakuti payenera kukhala mtanda pa khosi. Musapangidwe bwino. Komanso ndi bwino kusiya nsapato ndi zidendene, chifukwa mwambowu umatenga nthawi yayitali, ndipo amayi anga amatha kutopa panthawiyi. Chisankho choyenera chidzakhala kupatsa nsapato zabwino.
Pa chifuniro, mkazi akhoza kukonza chikondwerero cha chochitika ichi, ikani tebulo ndikuitanira alendo. Makolo oterewa akhalapo kwa nthawi yaitali, koma kuti azisunga kapena ayi, makolo amasankha.
Kuchita mwambo - Kodi amayi anu amachita chiyani pa ubatizo?
Azimayi ena amawopsya chifukwa chosadziwa miyambo. Amadandaula kuti adzasokonezeka m'kachisimo, chifukwa sakudziwa choti achite. Koma musawope izi. Asanayambe kuchita sakramenti, atumiki a tchalitchi adzafotokozera mwatsatanetsatane momwe zonse zidzachitikire. Ndipo panthawi ya mwambowu, pomwepo, nayonso, idzafulumira.
Koma udindo wa amayi pa ubatizo si waukulu kwambiri. Ali kumapeto, wansembeyo akuwerenga pemphero la amayi ake. Zingakhale zaumwini ngati christenings zikuchitikira mosiyana kwa mwana mmodzi.