Amanena kuti munthu aliyense ali ndi "mphukira pamutu pake", zomwe zikutanthauza kuti anthu onse ndi osamvetseka ndipo amachoka mu psyche. Komabe, matenda amalingaliro amafunikanso kuwongolera ndi kuchiritsidwa, popeza munthu sangathe kukwaniritsa zofunikira zomwe gulu limapereka kwa iye ndi kuthetsa mavuto ake.
Zomwe zimayambitsa matenda
Akatswiri amanena kuti matenda a m'maganizo angayambitsidwe ndi zifukwa ziwiri zosawerengeka komanso zosagwirizana. Pachiyambi choyamba, zisonkhezero zina za ubongo zomwe zimayambitsa matenda osiyanasiyana, kuvulala, matenda a ziwalo zamkati. Zokhumudwitsa sizikugwirizana ndi zinthu zakunja ndipo makamaka zimakhudza moyo. Koma mulimonsemo pali mafunso ambiri m'maganizo a matenda kusiyana ndi mayankho. Munthu sanganene motsimikiza chomwe chinachititsa kuti izi kapena matendawa a psyche, ndipo ngati pali kuikidwa mkati mwa thupi kuphatikizapo kukakamizika kuchokera kunja, munthu kaya akhale ndi moyo wotani akhoza kukhala wopweteka maganizo m'thupi.
Kuyanjanitsa kwa matenda ndi mavuto a maganizo kumaphunzira ndi kuphunzira ndi akatswiri ambiri. Sizongopanda kanthu zomwe amanena kuti matenda onse amachokera m'mitsempha. Ngakhale opanda chidziwitso cha zachipatala, n'zosavuta kuona kuti anthu omwe ali ndi mantha, osasamala komanso osasinthasintha nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi mliri wa matenda okhwima. Wolemekezeka padziko lonse lapansi, Louise Hay, yemwe, ngakhale kuti si dokotala, koma woyambitsa gulu lodzithandizira, wapatsa anthu ambiri mwayi wothandiza ndi kuthetsa mavuto ambiri a maganizo. Ndi iye amene adayambitsa mndandanda wa zofanana ndi matenda. Ndi chithandizo chake mutha kumvetsa zomwe zimayambitsa zomwe zimayambitsa matenda ovutitsa ndi kuchotsa.
Matenda aliwonse omwe ali mndandandawu ali ndi malingaliro ake enieni. Mlembi mwiniwakeyo adanena kuti anatha kuthana ndi khansa popanda thandizo lachipatala, kungosiya kuloledwa ndi kukhululukira omwe adamukhumudwitsa kale.
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