Ngati mumaganizira mozama momwe mungatchulire wokondedwa wanu, zikutanthawuza kuti zimatanthauza zambiri kwa inu ndipo mumayesa kuzikongoletsa. Ndipotu, pafupifupi atsikana onse amaganiza za kuyamba kwa chiyanjano cha momwe angatchulire mnyamata wachifundo ndi wachilendo. Kusonyeza malingaliro anu, khalani okwanira. Dzina lakutchulidwa liyenera kukhala lokoma, chikondi, koma osanyoza. N'kutheka kuti mukufuna kufotokozera mwamuna wanu kuti aziseka ndi abwenzi ndi abwenzi. Mwa njirayi, kumbukirani kuti ngati dzina lanu lotchulidwa lidzakondana, koma lopusa - silikulipira kuti mumve pamaso mwa mnyamata, koma kukuwonetsani kuti mukusowa malingaliro.
Atsikana samafuna kungolongosola malingaliro awo pogwiritsa ntchito, komanso malemba. Choncho, sizosangalatsa kutchula munthu wokondedwa dzina lake, pokhudzana ndi izi, zilembo zosiyanasiyana zimayambira. Mofananamo, amuna achikondi amachita mofananamo kwa amayi. Ndi mawu achikondi otani amene amatcha mnyamata - ziri kwa inu. Mfundo yofunikira ndikuti dzina lakutchulidwa liyenera kukondedwa ndi onsewa ndi kukhala lapadera, pamene likuyandikira munthu.
Momwe mungayitanire mawu amodzi a mnyamata?
Chiwerengero cha nambala yoyamba ndikusowa kwachinyengo. Monga lamulo, anthu ambiri amakhumudwa pamene amatchedwa bunnies, zisindikizo, dzuwa, pussies, pupps, makanda, makanda kapena mapepala. Kodi amadziwa bwanji kuti simunaitane munthu wakale chimodzimodzi? Mwa njira, posankha dzina lotchulidwira, ganizirani zaka za mwamuna wanu. N'zotheka kuti mnyamata wa zaka 17 azikonda pamene umamutcha "kitten" kapena "bunny", pomwe munthu wolemekezeka amamva ngati wopusa kwambiri. Sitidzakamba za zowonjezera m'malo mwake, popeza tikukulangizani kuti muganizire za zosiyana siyana.
Nthawi zambiri "nthawi yovuta" ingakhale filimu yogwirizana kapena kujambula zithunzi. Bwanji osaitanani wina ndi mnzake Kuzey ndi Nafane? Pinky ndi Brein? Lilo ndi Kusinthanitsa? Winnie ndi Pooh? Mungagwiritse ntchito mayina a masewera olimbitsa thupi: Superman, Batman Laskovo, mayina ena a "nyama" akuwomba: tigrule kapena tiger cub, tiger, njuchi, nsomba, mkango wamphamvu, chimbalangondo, fawn, dolphin, chiberekero cub, mphungu, falcon. Ngakhale "mvuu" nthawi zina ikhoza kukhala yoyenera, chofunika kwambiri, musatchule osankhidwa anu mwanjira imeneyi - ngati pakati pa inu izo zikumveka zokoma ndi zofatsa, ndiye pagulu mungathe kuwulula munthu kuti anyoze.
Mutha kutchula munthu wokondedwa, wokondedwa, wachikondi, wokondedwa, wokondedwa, wokondedwa, wokondedwa, wachikondi. Zonsezi zimawoneka zabwino komanso zachikondi. Makamaka ngati mumanena zonsezi ndi mzimu. Mungathe kubwera ndi chinachake choyambirira, chokhudzana ndi ntchito kapena zosangalatsa za munthu.
Bwanji osafika ndi "yankho loyenera" kwa wokondedwa wanu ndipo mukukhala ndi dzina lotchulidwa lomwe limagwirizanitsidwa ndi zomwe mumamutcha?
Munthu aliyense adzasangalala ndi mawu monga "kalonga wanga", "mfumu yanga", "msilikali wanga", "msilikali wanga", "mphunzitsi wa mtima wanga", "womenyera", "khoma langa", "mngelo wanga", " Mulungu wanga. " Ndibwino kumva "dzuwa langa", "diamondi", "nyenyezi", "mphepo" kapena "mphepo". Ngati mwamuna ali ndi tsitsi loyera, akhoza kutchedwa "mwezi". Mwa njira, pamene iwe umati "mwamuna wanga" kapena "mwana wanga" - izo zidzamveka komanso zaulemu ndi zofatsa. Mutha kumuitana munthu "chimwemwe changa," "ray," "keke."
Musamachite mantha kuti muwonetse mphamvu zanu komanso chiyambi chanu posankha dzina lanu lachikondi. Mwina mungagwiritse ntchito malangizowo, ndipo mwinamwake mukubwera ndi zina zanu, zowonjezereka komanso zofatsa.