Pa nkhani zachinyengo, poyang'ana, zonse zimveka bwino. Ndabvala chovala chachifupi, nsapato zonyezimira, nsalu za fishnet ndipo mungatsimikizire kuti mukuwoneka kuti mumawoneka ndi chidwi ndi chidwi cha amuna. Koma ngati chinthu chopembedzedwa chiri, mwachitsanzo, bwana wanu kapena wogwira nawo ntchito, ndiye kuti zovala zofanana ndizo muofesi sizikuyenera kukhala zoyenera. Pankhaniyi, funso lidzakambidwa, "Kodi mungakondweretse bwanji mnyamata?" Ndipo kawirikawiri, ngati cholingacho chidzapambana.
Kotero, kuyang'ana kosangalatsa ...
"... Ndimasangalala ndikaona chidwi cha mtsikanayo. Zikuwoneka kuti ngati akundiyang'ana molimba mtima ndipo samabisa maso ake, ndiye kuti akuyandikira kwambiri ... "
"... Ndimakonda pamene msungwana akuwonetsera chidwi chake ndi mawonekedwe ake, ngati kuti akunena ndi maso ake:" Ndi munthu wotani! Sindikanakana kumwa khofi ndi iye ... "
"Ndimasintha kwambiri mtsikana akamandiyesa moona mtima, ndikuyitanidwa kuti ndiyambe kuchitapo kanthu"
Kotero, tiyeni tiwerenge zotsatira. Amuna amamvetsera momwe amawonekera ndi kugonana kwabwino, komanso - amawona maso kuti akhale chida champhamvu chachinyengo, motero, kudziwa momwe anganyengere mnyamatayo ndi mawonekedwe omwe sali pambali kwa mtsikana aliyense.
Tiyeni tikonze zinthu zopitako. Kuti mnyamata wina pa tebulo lotsatira akuchepe khutu kwa inu, mukuwona kuti payenera kukhala chidwi, chophatikiza ndi chidwi chochepa. Koma nkofunika kuti musanyalanyaze. Simukusowa kumuyang'ana ndi "chiwonongeko cha chiwombankhanga," kusakanikirana pang'ono, kenako kutembenuka. Muyenera kukhala ngati mkango wamphamvu, zomwe iye, ndithudi, ndi chinthu chodziwikiratu, koma palibe. Popeza, ngakhale amuna samavomereza izo, mwa maso aakazi iwo akufuna kuwerenga movuta, kuyitana kuti amenyane kapena, ngati mukufuna, pempho loti mupite nawo mu zosangalatsa zosangalatsa.
Khalani monga momwe zingakhalire, ndikofunikira kukumbukira lamulo lalikulu la momwe mungakondweretse mnyamata ndi mawonekedwe - kumupatsa chiyembekezo cha chisomo chanu ndipo panthawi imodzimodziyo kuti mutsimikizire kuti ndinu "chinthu chonyenga."
Ndondomeko yothandizira pazinthu zachinyengo kapena momwe mungakondweretse munthu wowonekera:
- Musanapatse mnyamata kuyang'ana, mutumizireni kuwala, kumwetulira kosamveka komwe kungakuitanani kukambirana.
- Pewani "pang'onopang'ono" pamwamba pake ndi mawonekedwe a chidwi, ndiye mutenge maso kumbali.
- Nthaŵi ndi nthawi mumuponyeni msanga "kuchokera pansi pa nsanamira", pamene sakuiwala kumwetulira.
- Njira yatsopano ya "kuwombera" maso. Poyamba, musamupatse mpata wokomana nanu, kuyang'ana kutali, mwamsanga,
atangokumbukira. Malinga ndi amuna ambiri, masewerawa amachititsa chidwi komanso zosangalatsa. - Apanso, musaiwale za kumwetulira. Phunzirani kumwetulira ndi maso anu, zomwe zingakuchititseni kuyang'ana kwanu.
- Ngati nkhani ya chidwi chanu ikuyamba kuyang'ana mobwerezabwereza kutsogolo kwanu, osabisa kumwetulira - muli pa njira yoyenera. Pankhaniyi, mumusangalatse, mumudziwitse kuti simukudziwana. Kuti muchite izi, kwa masekondi angapo kuti mukwaniritse maso ake, kenaka muwoneke. Kuti muwonongeke, pwerezani njirayi kangapo.
Komabe, kulingalira za momwe mungakondweretse mnyamata ndi mawonekedwe ndi kokoma pazochitikazo, ngati munthu uyu ali wokondweretsa kwambiri kwa inu. Ngati mutangoyesa kuyesa mphamvu yakuyang'ana kwanu, ndiye kuti mumayesedwa kuti mumusamalire. Ndipo chidwi chochuluka, monga mukudziwira, sichingakhale chabwino kusiyana ndi kupanda chidwi konse.