Pa nthawi imene mwamuna wake amawonekera, mayi nthawi zambiri amayamba kusintha khalidwe la mwamuna wake komanso kumvetsa chifukwa chake. Ndipo zonse chifukwa chidziwitso chachikazi chimakhala champhamvu kwambiri kuposa chachimuna. Inde, ndipo kuthekera kukhudza chikhalidwe cha munthu kumayankhula. Koma ndibwino kuti sizinthu zonse zomwe zimakayikira, chifukwa pali zifukwa zambiri zosinthira maonekedwe ndi khalidwe.
Nthawi zina, nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti mkazi ndi mmodzi mwa omaliza kuphunzira kuti ali ndi mpikisano ndipo sangakhulupirire mokwanira zomwe zinachitika. Mwadzidzidzi funsoli likukambidwa, momwe mungadziwire ngati mwamuna ali ndi mayi ake enieni.
Momwe mungadziwire kuti mwamuna wanga anali ndi ambuye?
- Sinthani tsiku ndi tsiku . Ndikofunika kumvetsera zomwe amachita tsiku ndi tsiku. Ngati zasintha kwambiri, ndiye kuti muyenera kumvetsera, chifukwa zimatengera nthawi yambiri kwa ambuye. Ndipo izi ziri kutali ndi mphindi 10. Mwamuna akhoza kunena kuti watachedwa kuntchito, basi ikutha kapena ayenera kugona kuntchito. Ngati izi zichitika nthawi zonse, ndiye ziyenera kuchenjeza.
- Foni yam'manja . Mmene mungadziwire kuti mwamuna wake ali ndi ambuye adzathandiza foni yake. Pambuyo pake, amafunika kulankhulana naye, choncho nthawi zonse amasunga foni yake m'masomphenya ake. Ngakhale munthu wochenjera ndi wochenjera angatsegule foni, koma mkazi wina (ngati ali) angakhale nawo olembedwa pansi pa dzina la munthu, ndipo amangochotsa mauthenga. Yang'anirani zomwe amacheza nazo nthawizonse kapena kulembera ma SMS, ngati mfundo zikulolani kuti muwerenge makalata a munthu wina ndikutenga zinthu popanda chilolezo.
- Mkhalidwe wosiyana kwa inu nokha . Azimayi ambiri samadziwa momwe angaphunzire za mbuye wa mwamuna wake, koma ndiyenera kumvetsera momwe akuvekedwa posachedwapa. Ngati anayamba kuyesa zovala asanapite, kapena anaima kuti azikonda zomwe ankavala kwa milungu ingapo ndipo sanawombere, chifukwa
popeza adali wopenga za kavalidwe kake, iyeneranso kuchenjeza. - Ntchito zambiri - zochepa ndalama . Palinso njira ina yodziwira ngati mbuye wa mwamuna ayenera kumvetsera ndalama zomwe amabweretsa. Ngati alipo, monga akunenera, ntchito yowonjezera ndipo nthawi zonse amatha, ndiye mwachibadwa, izi ziyenera kukhudza malipiro ake. Koma ngati akubweretsa zochuluka kapena zocheperapo, akukangana kuti awerengera kapena kupeza chifukwa china, ndiye kuti akudandaula sakhala opanda maziko (pokhapokha ataika mwachinsinsi pa mpheteyo ndi diamondi kwa mkazi wake).