Kodi mungayambe bwanji kukambirana ndi mnyamata wokongola? Funso limeneli linayambira pafupifupi zaka zonse za sukulu, koma tikuyembekezadi kuti mu moyo wamkulu akulu akalonga adzagwa. Ndipo tsopano sukulu yadutsa, mantha a ana ali kumbuyo, ndipo funso la momwe angayandikire ndikuyambitsa kukambirana koyamba ndi mnyamatayo.
Atsikana ambiri amakhulupirira kuti kuyambira maminiti oyambirira a interlocutor muyenera kudabwa. Ndipo momwe mungachitire izo, ngati simukuyamba kuyankhula ndi munthu wokondweretsa, mwinamwake ngakhalenso zachilendo? Koma si aliyense amene angakonde njira yolenga, makamaka ngati akukuyang'ana kwa nthawi yayitali, koma sachita mantha. Mwa kutsimikiza kwake, mumayesetsa kuti muchititse manyazi mnzanuyo. Ndiye chochita, momwe mungayambitsire kukambirana ndi mnyamata molondola, ndi mafunso otani omwe angakhale othandiza kwa iye? Ndipotu, mndandandanda wa mafunso okhudzana ndi kuyankhula ndi mnyamata sungathe kufotokozedwa - anthu onse ndi osiyana, ndipo wina akufuna kuyankhula za mpira, ndipo wina ali ndi njala yoti akambirane buku lachilendo, kotero muyenera kuchita zomwezo. Koma kuti ayambe kukambirana pali ziganizo zochepa. Ndipo musagwedezeke pa mawu oti "muyezo"! Ndipotu, sitikufuna kulandira mphotho ya mankhwala oyambirira, koma mulole mnyamatayo adziwe kuti ali wokondwa kwa ife.
Ndi nthawi yanji?
Inde, funsoli ndi banal, koma kwa nthawi yayitali pakati pa zifukwa zowonjezera zogonana. Ulonda wanu pa nthawi ino ndi bwino kuchotsa, ndipo kuchotsani foni mu thumba lanu. Pambuyo pozindikira nthawi, mutha kuyamika wotchi yake (foni), ngati mumakonda chidwi ndi mnyamatayo, ndiye kuti ayesa kulumikiza.
Ndi galu wokongola bwanji!
Mnyamatayo amayenda ndi galu (kamba, hamster, dzanja lachitsulo), adayamika nyama yake. Anthu okonda zinyama angathe kulankhula za ziweto zawo kwa maola ambiri, kotero mutu wa zokambirana umatsimikiziridwa kwa inu.
Ndithandizeni, chonde
Pano ife tikuwonetsa kale malingaliro. Mwinamwake simukutsegula botolo la madzi amchere kapena simungathe kuwona foni yanu, ndipo adawona chitsanzo chomwecho? Mtima wamphongo wolimba sungathe kukana mwayi wakuwonetsera makhalidwe ake abwino: mphamvu, nzeru ndi kuyankha.
Ndimakonda nyimboyi!
Amamvetsera nyimbo kudzera m'mafoni, koma mokweza kwambiri moti amamveka kwa ena? Musataye, ili ndi mwayi wathu. Timayandikira mnyamatayo ndikumuuza kuti timakondwera ndi nyimbo iyi (ngati mwaipeza) kapena mukukhudzidwa ndi ojambula (ngati nyimboyo sichidziwika). Mukhoza kupempha kusiya nyimbo iyi pa foni yanu, ndikukonzekera nyimbo zomwe mumakonda.
Ndimakonda mabuku ake!
Kodi mwawona mwamuna wokongola mu bukhu la mabuku ndipo simukudziwa momwe mungayambitsire kukambirana naye? Mwachidule, yang'anani mabuku omwe iye akuwakonda, ndiyeno funsani funso lothandizira la wolemba uyu, iwo amati, mwakhala mukulakalaka kuti muwerenge chinachake kuchokera mndandandawu, koma musayese.
Zikuwoneka kuti ndatayika ...
Funsani momwe mungapezere msewu uliwonse, masitolo kapena cafe. Anyamata amakonda kumverera ngati ambuye otsogolera, kotero simungathe kukanidwa.
O, kodi iyi ndi piritsi?
Kodi adawona m'manja mwake nzeru zinazake?
Monga mukuonera, mungayambe kukambirana ndi mnyamata ndi mawu alionse, chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti chinali pamutuwu, choncho timangomvetsera osati momwe timaonera munthu amene watsala, koma ndi zomwe akuchita. Ndipo kaya ndi wotanganidwa, chifukwa munthu wam'mbuyo wam'mbuyo sakuletsa, ngakhale funso loyambirira kwambiri. Ndipo chofunikira kwambiri, muyenera kukhala wachikazi ndipo musakhale wamanyazi kusonyeza chidwi chanu kwa mnyamata. Simungathe kunena mawu, kungomanga maso, ndipo iye mwini akufuna kukudziwani bwino.