Chomwe chimamukondweretsa munthu, ndizochita zotani?

Mmodzi mwa ubwino waukulu wa mkazi weniweni akhoza kutchedwa kukwanitsa kukondweretsa mwamuna ndi kayendetsedwe ka kuwala, kuyang'ana, mawu olankhulidwa mwanzeru. Ndipotu, zoona zake zenizeni, chidziwitso chenichenicho chimadziwonetsera muzinthu zing'onozing'ono komanso luso lokopa ndi kusangalala, nayenso. Sikofunika kukhala ndi chiwongolero pabedi kuti abweretse anthu ku chisangalalo chokwanira. Ndikofunika kokha kudzutsa chidziwitso mwachimwini, kulola kuti chidwi ichi chakale chiwatsogolere ndondomekoyi. Koma ngati kulibe kukayikira muzochita zawo, ndiye kuti ndi bwino kuphunzira zomwe zimamukondweretsa mwamunthu, ndizochita zotani, kutsatira mndandanda wa mtsogolo muno.

Nchiyani chimasangalatsa mwamuna kwambiri?

Inde, ndibwino kuyamba ndi zochita. Pambuyo pake, kusuntha, kumakhudza, kuyang'ana, kumwetulira - ichi ndi mbali yofunika kwambiri yowonetserana . Mwachitsanzo, ponena za kupsyopsyona. Kawirikawiri abambo amaganiza zopsompsona zosangalatsa kwambiri m'khosi, mumutu. Pachifukwa ichi, kukhudza kwa milomo kungakhale kofatsa ndi kosavuta, kosadziŵika bwino, komanso kulimbikira. Kungolumpha khutu kapena khutu la munthu pampsompsonso ndikusunthira bwino.

Kuwona kuti munthu wokondweretsa kwambiri, kuphatikizapo zovuta zosiyanasiyana. Amuna ambiri amakondana ngati mtsikana akupsompsona tsitsi lawo kumbuyo kumutu kapena kumayang'ana nkhope yake. Kukhala womasuka, koma kukhudza chiuno chamkati mwa munthu ndi chimodzi mwa manja osakanikirana. Amuna amakonda pamene atsikana "amasewera" ndi manja awo: amathamanga zala zawo pamitambo, kupyola mitsempha ndi zina zotero.

Chofunika kwambiri ndi maonekedwe a mkaziyo, chifukwa mungathe kubweretsa anthu kukhala osangalala mwa njira imodzi yokha. Nthawi zambiri zovala zimakhala bwino kuposa jeans, ndipo nsapato zabwino zimakhala bwino kuposa nsapato. Izi zimafunika kukumbukira atsikana onse. Maonekedwe ovuta kapena osakhalapo nthawi zambiri amakhala ochuluka kwambiri monga amuna, kuposa kukonzekera kowala ndi kozizwitsa. Kuphatikiza apo, anyamata nthawi zambiri amafanana ndi "zofooka" za amai: mazira, makwinya ang'onoting'ono, ming'alu pamilomo. Ndikoyenera kumvetsera zomwe zimamva kukopa ndi kukondweretsa amuna. Kawirikawiri, choyamba, ndi fungo la thupi lachikazi, osati zonunkhira. Koma ngati mukufuna kuwonjezera chokoma chonyenga pa chithunzichi, ndiye musiyeni kukhala watsopano komanso wonyezimira kapena zokometsera, monga kukoma kwa sinamoni kapena sandalwood.

Mawu okondweretsa kwa mtsikana aliyense ayenera kusankha yekha, monga momwe amachitira zochitika zina zofunika kwa anthu awiriwa ndi ena, mwinamwake ngakhale sangamvetse. Ngakhale, nkoyenera kunena, chilengedwe chonse "Ndikufuna iwe" kuchokera pamilomo ya mtsikanayo, chidzakondweretsa munthu aliyense.