Nchifukwa chiyani zikuchitika kuti lero mumakonda, ndipo mawa mumadana, ndipo pang'onopang'ono zonse zimatembenuka? Mphamvu ya chikondi ndi yaikulu, koma udani uli ndi mphamvu zoterozo. Maganizo amphamvuwa amalamulira dziko lapansi, wina amafa, ndipo wina wotsutsana amakula. Munthu aliyense ndiyekha ndipo umunthu wake ndi wapadera.
Chifukwa chiyani?
Anthu ambiri ali ndi chidwi ndi funso ili, kodi mungakonde bwanji ndikudana nawo? Tangoganizani kuti munagwidwa ndi chikondi, kumverera kumeneku kumakhala mkati mwa selo lirilonse la thupi, mukufuna kupereka munthu chirichonse, ngati mukufuna kupereka moyo wake chifukwa cha iye. Moyo uli wotseguka ndipo ukuyembekezera kulumikizana, ndipo, mwadzidzidzi, umagunda, kumverera kumaperekedwa ndipo pamutu pako mawu amodzi okha - ndimadana nawo. Muzochitika zotero n'zosatheka kukhalabe osayanjanitsa ndipo anthu ambiri, ngakhale ali abwino, adzasungira chakukhosi, chidani kapena mkwiyo, kapena zonse mwakamodzi. Chikondi ndikumverera ndi mphamvu zazikulu ndi mphamvu, mumapereka kwa mnzanuyo, ndipo zikapita, mphamvu sizingatheke ndipo zimakhala chidani. Mkazi aliyense, makamaka mwiniwake ndi chifukwa cha wokondedwa wake ali wokonzekera chirichonse, koma atachoka, tsogolo lake silinamuvutitse. Chifukwa cha ichi, mkazi akhoza kulakalaka chinthu chomwe amachikonda chirichonse, chifukwa tsopano sali "katundu" wake ndipo ali ndi ufulu womuda.
Kutalika Kutalika
Ndipo ndi nthawi yochuluka bwanji yomwe iyenera kudutsa, ndi njira zingati zomwe zimayenera kutengedwa kuti muwone kusinthaku? Kodi n'zotheka kudana ndi munthu chifukwa cha zolakwika zina kapena ziyenera kukhala mndandanda wonse wa zolakwa. Mwina kwinakwake mu moyo wa munthu aliyense ali ndi batani limene limagwira ntchito pa nthawi inayake ndipo chikondi chimasanduka chidani. Munthu amafunitsitsa kusintha maganizo ake malinga ndi momwe zinthu ziliri, kotero chikondi chikhoza kukhala chidani komanso mosiyana.
Chifukwa
Kodi chiyenera kuchitika ngati wokondedwa wanu atakhala mlendo, amene simukumva kanthu kalikonse koma chidani? Anthu omwe adziwona izi m'moyo akhoza kupereka yankho la konki ku funso ili: kusinthidwa, kukanthidwa, kupita kwina ndi zina zotero. Koma palinso milandu pamene palibe yankho chabe, kotero ndimadana ndi chirichonse, ndipo chifukwa chake sichidziwika. Njira yokhayo ndikuti chidani, monga chikondi, chimawuka monga chonchi, ndi nthawi yosadziwika.
Ndi anthu okha omwe angadane nawo
Asayansi ambiri akhala akudzifunsa kuti kodi chidani chimachokera kuti? Zinayesedwa zambiri ndi zochitika, kuphatikizapo zinyama. Zotsatira zake, zimapezeka kuti m'makhalidwe a nyama palibe malingaliro otero, sangathe kuwononga mtundu wawo womwe simunena nawo za anthu. Izi zimatipangitsa kulingalira mozama za nkhaniyi, koma zoona ndizoti popanda udani, munthu sangathe kukhala ndi moyo. Kwa ambiri, izo zikufanana ndi kuyeretsedwa, kuiwala munthu yemwe mukuyenera kuti mulole izo kupyolera mukumverera uku, kutaya zoipa zonse ndi kuiwala izo. Mwa njira iyi mukhoza kupitirizabe moyo wanu komanso kukonda
ь.Ndipo ngati mosiyana?
Nthawi zambiri pamakhala zochitika zonse zikachitika mosiyana, poyamba anthu amadana, ndipo patapita kanthawi amayamba kukondana kwambiri. Chomwe chimayambitsa kutembenuka kwa zochitika ndizosamvetsetseka. Ndizo zokhazo.
Mphamvu yaikulu
Maganizo a anthu amatha kwambiri, chifukwa cha iwo amafa, amachita zozizwitsa, chikondi chimalimbikitsa ndi kupereka moyo. Munthu mmodzi, akhoza kukonda chinachake, ndipo china ndi kudana ndi mosiyana. Chikondi chimapereka mapiko, chidani - mphamvu. Munthu wachikondi amatha zambiri, koma amadana kwambiri. Maganizo amanyengerera kwambiri moti sizingatheke kuti apulumuke, chifukwa chake chikondi ndi chidani zimadzaza moyo wathu ndipo zimadalira ife tokha, tidzakhululukira chikondi kapena kuwononga chidani.