Sitinayambe kuyesera kuti tilowe m'mutu mwa munthu ndikupeza kuti monga izi zamoyo zodabwitsa zomwe akazi amakonda, amuna omwe amawakonda amuna: owonda kapena aphungu, mbewa zazikulu kapena zofiira?
Kodi amuna ngati akazi odzaza?
Makampani amamakono amakono amatipangitsa ife kukhala abwino a atsikana ochepa kwambiri. Choncho, palibe chodabwitsa chifukwa chakuti tikukayikira kale ngati amuna ngati akazi onse. Kuti muyankhe funso ili, muyenera kukumbukira kuti, ambiri, amuna ngati akazi. Amakondwera ndi maonekedwe okongola, okwezeka pakamwa, kuchokera pamtundu woyenera. Amuna ambiri amaganiza kuti ndi chifaniziro chachikazi chofanana ndi chiuno chachiuno, chiuno chochepa, chifuwa chachikulu komanso chiuno. Choncho atsikana oonda kwambiri sanakhale malire a maloto a anthu. Koma pyshechki nthawi zonse ankakonda kutchuka, ndipo amuna amakono samawadutsa. Komabe, kokha ngati thupi lilemekezedwa - chidutswa chopanda chilema cha thupi sichingakhale chokhudzidwa ndi wina.
Amuna amtundu wanji ali ngati akazi?
Kulankhula za zomwe akazi amakonda amuna, wina sangaganize kuti chinthu chachikulu ndi mawonekedwe. Nthawi zambiri timawona okonzeka bwino, akazi okongola omwe sali otchuka kwambiri ndi amuna. Psychics amati amayi awa alibe chakra omwe amachititsa kugonana. Akatswiri a zamaganizo amachititsa kuti malingaliro a dziko lapansi awonongeke, motero, khalidwe lolakwika la amayi omwe ali ndi abambo omwe si amuna kapena akazi anzawo.
Nanga ndi akazi otani ngati amuna athu amphamvu? Tiyeni tiyang'ane pa mfundozo.
- Mayi ayenera kudzikonda yekha, chifukwa mkazi wotero nthawi zonse amadzikonza bwino, amawoneka wokongola. Ndipo izi ndi zoona kuti muwapempherere amuna. Chinthu chachikulu sichiyenera kuchitapo kanthu kuti asakhale chidole chokongola, amuna awo samalemekezedwa kwambiri.
- Amuna nthawi zambiri amakhudzidwa ndi atsikana osapusa, koma nthawi yachangu imapita mofulumira, ndikukwiyitsa. Choncho, nzeru za mkazi ndizofunikira kwambiri. Zoonadi, mkazi wanzeru sangathe kusonyeza kuti ali ndi luso, mwinamwake munthu ayamba kumuwona mdani, osati chinthu chokhumba.
- Maphunziro amathandiza kwambiri pa chifaniziro chazimayi, kuthekera kwa khalidwe la anthu kumayamikiridwa ndi amuna. Koma kugonana kwambiri ndiko kukhala mkazi yemwe nthawi zina angaswe malamulowo, azichita mwachindunji.
- Nchifukwa chiyani amuna nthawi zambiri amasankha akazi oposa omwe, amakonda chiyani? Ambiri amakopeka ndi zochitika za kugonana ndi moyo wa mkazi, ndipo msinkhu wake umatengedwa ngati chitsimikizo. Mwa njira, ndi chifukwa cha mphindi ino imene anthu amaganiza zazing'ono zamakwinya m'makona a maso. Koma simungathe kutsutsa chilichonse mwachidziwitso, chifukwa chodzisankhira nokha wamkulu kuposa iwe ukhoza kukhala mwayi wokhala ndi mayi wolemera.
- Amuna amafuna kukhala olimba, odalirika, kuyerekezera "kumbuyo kwake, ngati khoma lamwala" kudzakondweretsa aliyense. Ndicho chifukwa chake amayamikira amayi omwe amawapatsa maganizo amenewa. Akazi, komabe, kusonyeza kuti onse angathe komanso popanda mwamuna, samayambitsa chilakolako chilichonse, "chifukwa chiyani akusowa ine, ngati iye ndi chinthu chimodzi chodabwitsa."
- Ndipo mwamuna wina akufuna kudziwa kuti mkazi amafunikira iye, ndipo osati mwayi umene amakhala nawo pamodzi.
- Ife vzahleb timawerenga malangizo a momwe tingakhalire chidontho, tikukhulupirira kuti amayi oterewa amafanana ndi amuna. Koma izi sizowona kwathunthu, ntchentche, ndithudi, idzakopa chidwi cha munthuyo, koma kwa nthawi yayitali bwanji? Sitikudziwa kuti wina angakonde kukhala ndi munthu wodzikonda, wokhala ndi ntchito yokha. Ndicho chifukwa chake nthawi zambiri "mbewa zamphongo" zimakhala mosangalala muukwati, ndipo zimamasulidwa mwachisawawa, zomwe zimabisafunira zosowa zawo za banja komanso zauzimu.
Ndi akazi ati omwe ali ngati amuna opambana?
Amayi ambiri amalota kalonga wolemera amene angasankhe yekha mavuto onse. Koma kodi akalonga amafunikira akazi oterewa? Kodi ndi akazi ati olemera? Chilichonse chimadalira munthu, koma nthawi zambiri nsomba za bizinesi zili ndi mfundo zambiri zomwe zasintha. Choncho, amatha kumuchitira mkazi monga kuwonjezera pa kupambana kwawo. Pankhaniyi, iwo adzasankha zomwe zikudziwika, ndizo, mtsikana wa maonekedwe apadera, makamaka osakhala wophunzira komanso wophunzira, kuti asatenge chuma chake. Koma anthu olemera angayang'ane mkazi ndi moyo, ndiye zitsanzo zawo sizidzakhala zochepa. Chidwi chawo chidzaperekedwa ndi amayi omwe apindula zambiri, koma panthawi imodzimodziyo adatha kusunga zachikazi.