Kuyankhula mwamphamvu kungakhale ngati njira yapadera, yomwe imadziwika ndi kukakamiza, yonyansa, yopanda ulemu komanso yonyada. Ndipo nthawi zina timakumana naye kuntchito, kusukulu, m'sitolo komanso ngakhale ndi anzathu. Lero tidzakhala tikudziwana ndi mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya chilankhulo chaukali kotero kuti m'tsogolomu mumadziwa mosavuta momwe mungadziwire ndikudzidalira nokha.
Mitundu ya chiwawa
Kaŵirikaŵiri osati, munthu wokwiya amafunafuna mpata wokhala ndi mlandu wotsutsana naye, carp pazithunzi, ndikuyang'ana pa gaffes. Komanso, kulankhula nkhanza kumawonekera kudzera ku mawonekedwe owopseza, mwachitsanzo, pogwiritsa ntchito manja, kugogoda patebulo, ndi zina zotero.
Kuwonjezera apo, olankhulana amalingaliro okhwima amasonyeza kusankhidwa kwa malamulo, kugawanika kosayenera kwa malamulo, kuwonjezeka kwa mawu, kusintha kosasinthasintha kwa umunthu, kuchuluka kwa mawu achisokonezo m'mawu ndi mwano.
Chitetezo motsutsana ndi chiwawa
Choyamba, pokonza vuto, muyenera kuyamba nokha, kotero kuti musagwiritse ntchito mawu achipongwe, onetsetsani kuti simukukwiyitsa munthu woteroyo. Kudziletsa ndi kudziletsa pazomwe mumalankhulira nokha ndi abwenzi anu okondana kwambiri. Muyenera kuyesa malankhulidwe anu mwachilungamo.
Njira yabwino yotetezera kuyankhula nkhanza ndi kunyalanyaza izo. Musapereke phindu kwa mawu osalongosola komanso zolakwika za alendo. Ndikoyenera kuiwala za mawu akuti "adandiwuza mawu, ndipo ndinamuuza khumi" ndipo mulimonsemo samayankha mwansanje kuti achite mwano. Ngati mumayamikira maubwenzi ndi munthu wachiwawa ndipo simunakonzekere kutsutsana, yesetsani kusinthasintha. Yesetsani kusintha malingaliro oipa, mwa kusokonezeka ndi vuto, mwachitsanzo, mothandizidwa ndi nthabwala, kusintha maganizo ake olakwika. Mungayesetsenso kulankhula mwakachetechete kukambirana mosiyana, pogwiritsa ntchito zofuna za mdani wanu yemwe mumadziwika.