Zaka zingapo zikuyendera bwino ndipo zatsala pang'ono kufika zaka makumi asanu ndi limodzi zapitazi, zomwe akazi amakumana nazo, mantha ndi kupsinjika - kulemetsa kwakukulu kumaphatikizidwa ndi mwayi wosawonetsedwa, ndikuwonetsa pagalasi kuti achinyamata ali kumbuyo. Ndipo momwe amai amawonekera patatha zaka 50 kupyolera mwa anthu - m'nkhaniyi.
Psychology ya mkazi pambuyo pa zaka 50
Winawake akunena kuti zaka 50, moyo umangoyambika, ndipo wina amakhulupirira kuti izi ndizonyoza chotero. Azimayi amene adutsa zaka makumi asanu ndi awiri awa akusintha:
- Kutaya kwachilendo kumakhudza chidwi chake ndi abambo. Zikomo kuti agogo aamuna pamsewu sanayitanidwe ndipo samathamangira kukwera pagalimoto, koma palibe amene amadziwa chinthu chogonana. Zoonadi, izi sizingatheke koma zimakhudza maganizo a mkazi: kudzidalira kwake, monga kudalira kukongola kwake. Ambiri pamsinkhu uwu saona kuti ndi kofunikira kuti adzipangire okhaokha ndikudziyang'anira okha, chifukwa ukalamba wayandikira kale ndipo sungatheke kukalamba.
- Kuwonongeka kwa khungu, misomali, tsitsi. Kuyamba kwa matenda osiyanasiyana odwala, omwe saonjezera kudzidalira. Koma pambuyo pa zonse, kuphatikizapo zonsezi, ndi pachimake chodedwa.
- Nsanje motsutsana ndi achinyamata, kudandaula za zaka zomwe akhalapo komanso kuphonya mwayi. Kuopa kukhala ndekha.
Komabe, monga momwe akumvera mkazi, ndiye kuti munthuyo amadziwa, ndipo izi zikugwiranso ntchito m'badwo uliwonse. Pambuyo pa mayi wokonzekera bwino, atatha zaka 50, atavala bwino ndi ovala bwino, abambo adzatembenuka, osati anzanga okha, koma kwa iwo omwe angatsutse ndi kunena kuti wamkulu munthu, wamng'ono amayang'ana mnzake wa moyo, wina akhoza kuyankha kuti ichi ndi chizindikiro chachikulu cha zomwe zilipo maofesi komanso kusakhutira kukalamba. Kwa wokondedwa wotereyo, iye sadziyerekezera ndi iye yekha, koma amangozindikira kuti ali ndi chidziwitso cha kupambana kwake komanso chizindikiro cha achinyamata omwe akuyenda bwino.
Mwamuna amene amakalamba pafupi ndi wokondedwa wake sadziwa kuti zaka zimasintha zaka zingati zaka makumi asanu, chifukwa amadziwa kuti zonsezi ndizopindula, ndi ubwino ndi zovuta zonse, ndipo ngati simukuganizira kwambiri, ndiye kuti mutha kulandira nthawi yayitali kuchokera kwa iye kuyamika ndi kusangalala ndi moyo.