Mwinamwake, mtsikana aliyense anali ndi chidwi pa funso loti chifukwa chiwombankhanga chimakonda kwambiri amuna akuluakulu ndi anyamata osasamala. Ndipotu, paliponse pomwe phokoso likuwonekera, nthawi zonse amadziona kuti ali pakati, ndipo maso a munthu sangathe kumuchotsa. Nanga bwanji amuna ngati mabadi, amasiyana bwanji ndi amayi ena?
Kodi chidutswa chanji?
Ngati muyang'ana mu dikishonale ya Dahl, ndiye pamenepo mukhoza kuwerenga kufotokoza kosasangalatsa kwa lingaliro ili. Mawu akuti chinachake chachitika kuchokera ku mayina monga mbalame monga "vulture, scavenger", ndiko kuti, chidontho ndi chimodzi chimene sichizengereza kupeza "zakudya" kulikonse komwe zingatheke, ndipo lingaliro la anthu silikum'vutitsa iye nkomwe. Choncho, akazi okwatirana samawakonda kwambiri ndipo amawaona kuti ndiwopseza mabanja awo chimwemwe.
Nchifukwa chiyani amuna ngati bitch?
- Kuwotcha, mosiyanitsa ndi ziwombankhanga, khalani ndi mawonekedwe okongola kwambiri. Mkazi woteroyo, wopanda ngakhale ngakhale deta yapadera, adzawoneka bwino kwambiri. Chifukwa amatha kufufuza mozama zomwe zili zoyenera komanso zofooka za nkhope yake ndi thupi lake komanso amadzidziwa momwe angasamalire yekha, kuvala, kupaka ndi kusinthasintha tsitsi lake kuti apange chithunzi chosamveka.
- Koma maonekedwe okongola sali okwanira, ndizofunika kuti mudzipezeke nokha ndikudziwe momwe mungachitire. Funso ndilo, kodi iwo amakonda anthu, ntchentche samasamala, amadziwa zomwe amakonda, ndipo kudzidalira kumeneku ndiko kukongola. Mungathe kutchula kuti ntchentche mkazi wokhala ndi chibwibwi, womvera pamaso pake, akungoyang'ana kumbuyo komanso kumangokhala kosavuta kwa galu womenyedwa? Sizingatheke kuti tanthauzo la "gray mouse" ndi "jelly colorless" lidzamutsatiranso. Kuwona kwachangu ndikutsimikizika kwa ntchafu, kumbuyo kuli kolunjika, kusuntha ndi mawonekedwe a nkhope kumanena kuti chirichonse chiri pansi pa ulamuliro, ndipo pakuwona kwa mwamuna wokondweretsa mkazi woteroyo ali ndi kachilombo koopsa m'maso mwake kuti awonekere. Chabwino, kodi n'zotheka kukana chinthu choterocho?
- Mabala amadziwa momwe angakope munthu. Mkazi wamba, poona chizindikiro cha chidwi cha njonda yosangalatsa, amadzigwera m'manja mwake ngati chipatso chokoma. Koma ntchentche idzayimba pa chibadwa cha msaka, ndipo iye adzakakamiza yekha kuti akwaniritse, osati motalika kwambiri, kotero kuti ndondomekoyo siidetsa nkhawa. Mwachidziwitso, chida chachikulu cha bitch ndi kuthekera kukhala wosiyana, zimawoneka kuti mwamunayo sangazindikire mkazi uyu, amamutsegulira kuchokera kumbali yatsopano nthawi iliyonse. Ndipo pambali pa "msaki" mwa amuna athu apo pali chilakolako cha kupeza, ndi chidontho chomwe amachimva ngati Columbus, yemwe adapeza dziko lokondweretsa komanso losamvetsetseka.
- Achigololo amakonda kukhala ndi moyo wokhala ndi moyo wokhazikika, ndipo ngati sachita chidwi, amakhala okhulupirira omwe amawakonda kwambiri. Ndani safuna kuti bwenzi lake ligwire ntchito? Inde, pali nthawi pamene chidontho chimakhala chovuta kwambiri kulakalaka nthawi zonse komanso m'zonse kukhala choyamba kuti munthu mwa iye awone wokondana, osati chinthu chogonana.
- Osauka - chokongoletsa kwa osonkhanitsa amtengo wapatali, "akalonga" oterewa amakondwera kwambiri ndi kuzindikira kuti iwo adatha kugonjetsa mkazi wodziimira ndi wodzikweza. Ngakhale, amene adagonjetsa ndani, funso lalikulu ndi -zinunkhira ndi aluntha ndi aluntha, ochita masewera abwino.
Kodi amuna amakonda bitch?
Ndipo nchifukwa ninji mudasankha kuti amuna ali ngati bitch? Nchifukwa chiyani izi zikuwonetseratu, bwanji osanena kuti amuna amakonda tchire? Kusiyana kwake ndi chiyani? Inde, chimodzimodzi pakati pa chilakolako ndi chikondi. Ngati amuna amakonda ntchentche, ndiye bwanji osakwatirana? Zonse chifukwa chikondi sichikununkhira apa, ndibwino kuti mutenge nthawi ndi chidutswa, kuti mupumule kuchokera kwa mkazi wake - mtsogoleri wodula mwamsanga ndi ana, nthawizonse mumapanga phokoso pansi pa khutu, mukakhala chete. Koma kulenga banja ndi chidutswa sikuti aliyense amasankha, ayenera kukhala mwambo wangwiro kapena lamulo labwino kwambiri kuposa mkazi uyu, kuti asamusiye iye kuti apite. Ndipo munthu wamba wa kutentha kotereku safuna kukhala ndi moyo.
Maganizo a abambo kwa amuna ndi achindunji - zidzakhala ndi mwamuna, pomwe ubale umabweretsa ubwino wake, pokhapokha ngati zinthu zikusintha, mwamunayo amatumizidwa mwamsanga. Ayi, ntchentche sichikhala yopanda malire, ngati izi zingawonekere, koma amadziwa momwe angagwirirepo maganizo ake, chifukwa amadziwa zomwe akufuna kumoyo, ndipo ali wokonzeka kudzipereka yekha pa cholinga chake.