Atsikana achichepere amaganiza momwe angapulumutsidwe ndi mnyamata, kumuwona kuti apite ku ankhondo. Inde, ndi zovuta, koma zovuta kwambiri ndizo kwa omwe akukakamizidwa kuti azikhala osiyana nthawi zonse ndi wokondedwa. Muzochitika zoterezi ndi akazi a anthu okwera galimoto, oyendetsa sitima ndi onse omwe ntchito zawo zimayenda ulendo wautali ndi wautali. Chochita, momwe mungapulumutsidwe ndi kulekanitsidwa kwautali ndi wokondedwa wanu? Tidzayesa kupeza mayankho a mafunso awa pamapeto pa nkhaniyi.
Kodi mungapulumutse bwanji kusiyana ndi wokondedwa wanu?
Aliyense amene adzipeza yekhayo amadziwa kuti chinthu chovuta kwambiri ndi kukhala ndi moyo masiku oyambirira atatha. Posakhalitsa pali zopanda pake zachilendo mnyumbamo, zolakalaka, ndi kumene simudziwa nokha. Kuti musadzipangitse nokha kuti mukhale moyo wosadalirika musanafike wokondedwa wanu, muyenera kumangokhala nokha ndikuchitapo kanthu mwamsanga. Mwachitsanzo, kukumbukira za zomwe mumakonda kuchita kapena kukhala ndi imodzi - mungapeze zinthu zambiri zosangalatsa. Komanso, chinthu chokondweretsa kwambiri chomwe chimachita, ndibwino, inu mumathandizira kuti muthe nthawi yamadzulo amodzi, ndipo ulendo wamalonda wa mwamuna wanu si wotsiriza. Kuwonjezera pa chizoloŵezi chochita zinthu, mungathe kudziona nokha kuti muli ndi chidwi chochuluka kwambiri - muzidziyang'anira nokha, ndipo khalani pulogalamu yayitali yomwe cholinga chawo chikukupatsani kuyang'ana kokongola kwa kufika kwa wokondedwa wanu. Pezani chakudya, lembani kampani yolimbitsa thupi, pitani ku dziwe kapena kuvina. Lolani tsiku lanu kukhala lotanganidwa ndi nthawi ya malingaliro okhumudwa sakukhalabe.
Ndipo, ndithudi, ngati n'kotheka, kambiranani ndi wokondedwa wanu, chifukwa simukuganiza kuti ndi zophweka kuti munthu asakhale ndi inu? Amuna angathe komanso samapewa kupatukana, monga amayi, mwachisoni, koma opanda kuzunzidwa m'maganizo ndipo sachita. Choncho, lembani, dinani, mutumizeni chithunzi ndi ana anu, mum'dziwitse zomwe mumaganiza za iye. Ndipo musati mudandaule chifukwa chakuti salemba kawirikawiri kapena kukuitanani mukuyankha. Sikuti ali muzochita zake, koma kuti alibe nthawi yokwanira.
Ndipo, kuwonjezeraninso, kumbukirani kuti kugawanitsa izi ndi kanthawi ndipo wokondedwa posachedwa adzabwerera. Ndipo muyenera kuganizira za msonkhano mutatha kulekana, momwe mungakonzekere.
Momwe mungakumanitsire wokondedwa wanu mutatha kusiyana?
Msonkhano mutatha kugawikana ndi nkhani yoyenera, choncho ndifunikira kuyandikira ndi kuwona kwake kwakukulu. Tiyeni tiyambe, mwinamwake, ndi mawonekedwe anu. Inde, mwamuna wanu adzakondwera ndikukuwonani patapita masiku ambiri, koma adzakondwera ngati akukumana ndi mkazi wokongola komanso wokongola. Choncho musakhale aulesi ndipo musachite manyazi musanafike wokondedwa wanu kuti mutenge nthawi yanu nokha - chitani manicure ndi pedicure, tsitsi labwino, chabwino musaiwale chovalacho. Mukhoza kugula zovala zatsopano, ndikusangalala ndi fungo lanu lopaka.
Chinthu chotsatira chomwe muyenera kusamalira ndicho nyumba. Zikongoletseni, taganizirani za chakudya chamadzulo chodyera ndi wokondedwa wanu, komanso chipinda chogona chiyenera kukhala chokonzekera kulandiridwa kwanu. Kawirikawiri, patapita nthawi yayitali, mpweya sungathe kukhutitsidwa kwa nthawi yaitali, choncho ndibwino ngati pali zakumwa ndi chinachake chokoma m'chipinda chogona.
Chofunika kwambiri komanso maminiti oyambirira pambuyo pa msonkhano. Amuna ambiri akuwopa kwambiri kuti panthawi yomwe palibe mayiyo analeka kuwakonda ndi kuwayembekezera.
Chabwino, potsiriza, musawope kugawanitsa, sizakhala kwamuyaya. Mwina pachiyambi zidzakhala zovuta kuti mukhale osiyana-misonkhano, koma ngati munthuyu ndi wokondedwa kwa inu, mudzakhala ndi chizoloŵezi cha moyo, ndipo kulekanitsa sikudzakuvutitsani kwambiri, ndikuwopa kuti kusiyana kudzasintha chikondi chanu, kupha, Musatero. Inde, kupatula pang'ono kumakhudza malingaliro, koma ngati moto pa lawi la moto - amphamvu amangoyamba. Zoona, kuwala kolepheretsa kuzimitsa mphepo, koma kodi ndi bwino kukhumudwa?