"Timakonda kukhulupirira zomwe sitikuzidziwa, chifukwa sanatinyengere," anatero wolemba ndakatulo komanso wolemba ndakatulo Samuel Johnson. Ndi zoona, koma zomvetsa chisoni!
Kusakhulupirika kwa anthu kumabwera chifukwa cha zifukwa zosiyanasiyana:
- chifukwa cha zomwe sizinachitike (kuphatikizapo makolo anu, abwenzi anu ndi odziwa). Ngakhale bodza laling'ono pambuyo pake limapangitsa kusakhulupirira kwambiri;
- chifukwa cha chilakolako cholimba, kugogoda munthu kunja kwa chizoloŵezi cha rut. Maganizo ndi ovuta, mumayika maloto anu onse ndi malingaliro anu, ndikuwapatsa malingaliro omwe alibe. Kukhumudwa m'modzi kumapangitsa kuti musamakhulupirire ena onse;
- chifukwa cha chikhalidwe cha maphunziro. Ngati muli mwana munaleredwa ndi kukayikira ndikuyamba kukuvutitsani kudziko lozungulira, nzosadabwitsa kuti, mukukumana ndi zokhumudwitsa, mumazitenga monga gawo la dziko lathu lapansi. Kusakhulupirira mwamuna wake, mwachiwonekere, kumayambanso.
Ganizilani: Zifukwa zonsezi, zodziwikiratu, zimachepetsedwa kukhala chinthu chimodzi - simukudalira nokha ndi dziko lozungulira.
Kodi mungatani kuti musamakhulupirire?
Chikondi ndi kusakhulupirika zikhoza kukhala mu mtima mwanu kwa nthawi yochepa kwambiri. Zili ngati kuika nkhumba ndi nkhumba mu dera limodzi. Pambuyo pake pirato idzameza nyama. Koma ndi bwino kusunga chida mu mtima mwako, ngakhale kuti sikoyenera kudyetsa (pambuyo pake, kusakhulupirika kumachititsa kusakhulupirira).
- Phunzirani kudalira. Chirichonse. Kusakhulupirika (mu maubwenzi ndi m'moyo, mwa onse) sikungakupulumutseni. Osakhulupirira mwamuna wake, mumangoika malire pakumverera komwe sikukanakhala kopanda malire - chikondi. Yesetsani kukukumbutsani kuti kusakhulupirira kulibe ntchito;
- Phunzirani kudzikonda nokha. Inu mumayenera kwambiri. Kuphatikiza - ndi moyo popanda kudalira;
- lankhulani zoona. Musaope kuwonetsa malingaliro anu, chifukwa kusamvetsetsa nthawi zambiri kumabweretsa kusakhulupirika;
- Musamangokhulupirira anthu ena, mulole iwo akhale chomwe iwo ali.
- yesani kupeza mizu ya kusakhulupirika kwanu. Pezani kudzera mu malingaliro a zochitika pamoyo wanu komanso miyoyo ya makolo anu. Pezani mfundo yovuta ndi ... kuvomereza kusakhulupirika kapena kukhumudwa. Monga zoona. Zinali, zakale sizingathetsedwe. Inu mukhoza kusintha kokha maganizo anu pa mfundo iyi. Khululukirani onse omwe ali nawo mkhalidwewo. Nthawi zina izi zimafuna thandizo la katswiri.
Ndipo kumbukirani: kusakhulupirira mu ubale si inoculation motsutsana ndi zokhumudwitsa zotheka. Lolani nokha kukonda mwa mphamvu zonse!