Amayi ambiri ali okonzekera zambiri kuti apambane ndi munthu amene amamukonda, koma apa pali lingaliro lomveka la momwe angachitire. Ena amapanga masitepe, mwachitsanzo, kukonzekera zigawo zosiyana, kuchita miyambo, kupanga pulasitiki, ndi zina zotero. Ngati mukudziwa zinsinsi zina, ndiye palibe chomwe chidzafunikire ndipo bamboyo adzagwa pamapazi ake.
Momwe mungapangire munthu kuthamangira yekha?
Mpikisano pakati pa amayi ndi wapamwamba kwambiri, monga, monga momwe akudziwira, pali amuna ocheperapo, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti munthu ayenera kuonekera kuchokera kwa anthu.
Njira zosonyeza kuti munthu amatha kukuthamangitsani:
- Mawu odziwika bwino - "Amuna amakonda maso" akugwira ntchito, choncho muyenera kuyang'ana maonekedwe anu. Lero, mkazi ali ndi njira zosiyanasiyana zochezera maonekedwe ake. Choyamba, muyenera kugwiritsa ntchito chiwerengerocho, ndipo izi muyenera kuzilembera ku masewera olimbitsa thupi ndikuyang'aniranso chakudya chanu. Chachiwiri, kukongoletsa tsitsi ndi kukonzekera ndizofunika kwambiri. Kuti mukwaniritse vutoli, muyenera kupita ku salon yokongola.
- Mu psychology, pali malangizo ena othandiza momwe munthu angathamangire pambuyo pako - kukhala wokhutira. Mu moyo weniweni, ndi mavuto ambiri ndi zokhumudwitsa, kotero pochita zinthu ndi amuna kapena akazi, mumakhala mosavuta komanso osangalatsa. Kumwetulira kochokera pansi pa mtima ndi kuyang'ana mwachifundo kudzakopa munthu.
- Kulimbikitsidwa ndi kupirira ndizochititsa manyazi kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, choncho muyenera kuiwala za makhalidwe awa. Mkazi wabwino ndi wofewa, wosamala komanso wosavuta. Momwemonso, amuna onse osaka ndipo amakonda kupambana, koma pa izi, chofunika kwambiri, musamenyetse.
- Malangizo ena, momwe mungapangire mwamuna wokwatira akuthamangitsani inu - kumutamanda ndi kumuyamikira iye. Chilichonse chimene anganene, oimira chilakolako chogonana amakhala ngati malo oyamba, choncho ndikofunika pa nthawi yoyenera kunena mawu okondweretsa, kutchula zochitika ndi kubisala zolakwika. Adzayamikira kwambiri, makamaka ngati mukuchita ndi anthu ena.
- Ngakhale kuti amuna samakonda "dummy", musakhale anzeru ndikuwonetsa chidziwitso chawo pa mwayi, chifukwa khalidwe lotero lingathe kudzikuza kapena chikhumbo choposa kapena kuchititsa manyazi.
- Njira yoopsa koma yothandiza momwe munthu angathamangire pambuyo pako atamenyana - msiyeni apikisane. Kugawana naye, sadzakhala ndi wina aliyense ndipo pamapeto pake amvetse kuti nthawi iliyonse mwamuna wina akhoza kutsogolera wokondedwa. Ndikofunikira kuti mumve pamphepete, kuti musatenge "mphepo".
- Musakonde oimira amayi omwe ali ndi vuto logonana lolimba lomwe lamangidwa pakhosi. Musapemphe kalikonse ndi kuyankhula, chifukwa ngati munthu akufuna kuchita zabwino, adzachita.
- Njira ina yowatengera munthu wakale kuti athamangire iwe sichidziwika. Ngati, atatha kupatukana, mkazi amamuyitana mwadzidzidzi ndikumuuza woyamba kuyenda, izo zidzakhala zodabwitsa kwa iye, ndipo mosakayikira sadzakana, ngakhale kuti zonse zimadalira zochitika ndi zifukwa zotsalira.
Mu chiyanjano chirichonse kukhala moyo molingana ndi ndondomeko sizosangalatsa ndipo njira yothetsera vutoli ndidzidzimutsa. - Ndikofunika kukhala ndi chidwi ndi moyo wa munthu, mwachitsanzo, kufunsa za zomwe amakonda, zokonda, chakudya, zokonda, ubwana, ambiri, ayenera kumvetsa kuti iye alibe chidwi.
Njira yogonjetsera mwamuna iyenera kukhala yosangalatsa, kotero musaiwale kumulimbikitsa chifukwa cha zochita zake, koma ndibwino kuti muyambe kutero, kuti pakhale chilimbikitso chokwaniritsa zambiri. Kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi ndi kusewera ndi anthu okhulupirika pakukopa anyamata kapena atsikana.
Mukuyenera kukhala nokha osati kusewera kukondweretsa munthu, chifukwa posachedwa chinsinsi chidzakwaniritsidwa, ndipo wokondedwa akhoza kuthawa.