Mwamuna wamkulu ndi msungwana wamng'ono

Ubwenzi pakati pa mtsikana ndi mwamuna wachikulire sunakwiyitse, mwina m'masiku amenewo pamene mkwati adasankhidwa ndi makolo a mkwatibwi. Koma tsopano azimayi omwe ali ndi zaka zosiyana kwambiri adzachititsa miseche, miseche ndi kutsutsa anthu. Koma zokambirana, komanso "mwamuna wamkulu ndi mtsikana" sizodziwika kwambiri ndipo ubale woterewu umakhala moyo wa banja losangalala. Kotero sikofunikira kuti muthawe kumverera kwanu, malingana ndi maganizo a anthu, kumvetsa bwino momwe mungakonde munthu wamkulu, yemwe akudziwa, mwinamwake iye ndi amene mumamufuna?

Kodi mungakonde bwanji munthu wamkulu?

Bwanji ngati nditayamba kukondana ndi munthu wamkulu? N'kwachilengedwe kuti musakhale pansi, koma yesetsani kumusamalira. Momwe mungachitire ndi zomwe mungakopetse mwamuna wachikulire, werengani pansipa.

1. Msungwana aliyense yemwe ali ndi chidziwitso ndi munthu wamkulu akudziwa kuti amakopeka ndi maonekedwe. Koma mosiyana ndi ana ake aakulu, munthu wamkulu samakonda kuyang'anitsitsa deta, koma kuti athe kuwapereka. Msuketi ndi waufupi, decollete ndi lakuya, ndipo maonekedwe ndi owala ndipo mnyamata ali ndi zaka 18-20 kumapazi ako. Mwamuna wa chidole chodziwika bwino adzachita mantha. Kotero ndi bwino kuphunzira kudziletsa kupanga ndi kuvala mwanjira yomwe ikugogomezera ulemu ndi kubisala zofooka.
2. Kukhala ndi ubale ndi munthu wamkulu kwa nthawi yayitali, muyenera kumusangalatsa. Choncho, m'pofunika kuphunzira kuti mumvetsetse bwino zokambiranazo ndikuyesera kukhala opanda nzeru. Mvetserani mosamalitsa, muthandizire zolinga zake, ndithudi, ngati sizikutsutsana kwambiri ndi inu.
3. Mwamuna ndi wamkulu kuposa inu, ngakhale zambiri, koma izi sizikutanthauza kuti akuyenera "kutulutsa", kupatula ngati ali bwana wanu. Yesetsani kumuuza "inu", khalani nawo ofanana naye. Ngati simukuchita izi, munthu akhoza kuganiza kuti simukufuna, kuti mumamuona kuti ndi wamkulu kwambiri.
4. Kodi mukuganiza momwe mungagwirizane ndi munthu wamkulu, choti muchite chiyani? Ndipo mwina simukusowa chinthu chapadera? Kwa amuna achikulire, muyenera kukonda atsikana aang'ono? Uchinyamata wawo ndi kudzipereka, wapadera, mwinamwake pang'ono chabe, maganizo a dziko. Choncho tsatirani chisankho chanu, musayese kuyang'ana pamaso pake.

Zoonadi, izi ndi zitsanzo zabwino zokhazokha zomwe zimayenera kutsatiridwa, zosangalatsa munthu wamkulu kuposa iye mwini. Pambuyo pake, onse ndi osiyana ndipo amakonda zinthu zosiyana, koma kuyang'anitsitsa, mumvetsetsa zomwe mungagwirizane ndi munthu yemwe ali wokondweretsa kwa inu. Mwa njira, koma chidwichi chimachokera kuti kwa amuna achikulire, kodi palibe anzanu ambiri?

Nchifukwa chiyani atsikana amakonda amuna akuluakulu?

Kukonda mwamuna wachikulire kwa msungwana wamng'ono ndi malingaliro ofanana a atsikana kwa mwamuna wachikulire sangathe kufotokozedwa chifukwa chimodzi chokha - chikondi kwenikweni ndikumverera kosadziwika. Koma chifukwa chake atsikana omwe ali ndi chidwi ndi amuna okhwima angathe kunena.

1. Chinthu choyamba chimene chimabwera m'malingaliro ndicho chuma chambiri. Amadalirabe makolo awo, ndipo munthu wokhwima amatha kudzipezera yekha ndi mkazi wake, ndipo ali wamng'ono, ngati si nthano yokongola, osamupweteka chifukwa cha chinthu chatsopano.
2. Amuna achikulire kawirikawiri amawoneka ngati atsikana chuma chenicheni cha zochitika pamoyo ndi nzeru, pamlingo winawake. Ndipo atatha kuyankhulana ndi anzawo ndi mtima wongoganizira za moyo, asungwanawo amakopeka chabe ndi kufunika ndi malingaliro a munthu wokhwima.
3. Atsikana amafunadi kukhala ngati mkazi weniweni, osati "mwana wawo," monga momwe zimachitikira ndi anzanu. Amuna achikulire amadziwa kale kuti gallantry ndi yotani, kusamalira mkazi, chifukwa atsikana aang'ono amamverera pafupi ndi akazi oterewa.
4. Atsikana ena amakula bwino, m'maganizo komanso m'maganizo kusiyana ndi anzawo. Ndicho chifukwa iwo akuyang'ana munthu wachikulire yemwe angathe kumvetsa ndi kuwayamikira.