Nthawi zambiri, kukhala ndi chibwenzi kumbali, amayi okwatira pa nthawi inayake yofunikira adzafuna kuisokoneza. Koma momwe mungathetsere chiyanjano molondola, popanda zochititsa manyazi ndi kukhumudwa kwamanjenje, momwe mungamuuze wokondedwa kuti ife tikulekana? Ndikofunika kuchita pano malinga ndi zovuta.
Mgwirizano wochuluka kwambiri wa zochitika, pamene onse awiri atakhazikika. Pachifukwa ichi kudzakhala kokwanira kulankhula zakukhosi ndi mtima, kuyamika wokondedwa chifukwa chokhalira osangalala komanso kunena zabwino.
Mukhoza kuchoka popanda kunena mawu, asiye onse ocheza nawo. Njira iyi ndi yolandiridwa pamene mkazi ali ndi chitsimikizo kuti wokondedwa wake adzachitapo kanthu mwakachetechete kuzinthu zoterezi ndipo sadzamufuna iye pakuyesera kubwezera.
Zidzakhala zovuta ngati wokondedwayo atakhala wodzikonda. Pankhaniyi, zimakhala zovuta kuti azindikire kuti akusiyidwa. Onetsetsani - sadzaleka popanda nkhondo. Choncho, simukusowa kusankha mawu olekanitsa kapena mwinamwake mukuganiza za kupuma. Muyenera kuchita zonse kuti wokonda mwiniyo akuponyeni: kuthetsa kulankhulana, kwa nthawi yaitali kuti musagwirizane, nthawi zonse kulumbirira ndikumuona kuti ndi wovuta.
Kodi mungapewe bwanji ndi wokondedwa wanu?
Ngati mnzanuyo akumvetsa, yesetsani kumufotokozera chifukwa chenicheni chochokera kwanu, tiuzeni kuti ubalewu watha mphamvu.
Ngati pali malingaliro akuti munthu, mosakayikira, sagwira chisankho chanu mokwanira, muyenera kukonzekera pasadakhale. Kotero kupatukana kwanu kwa iye sikudzakhala kopweteka kwambiri.
Momwe mungayanjane ndi wokondedwa - malangizo a katswiri wa zamaganizo
- Musachedwe nthawi yakuphulika. Ngati chisankhocho chapangidwa, chitanipo kanthu.
- Ndiuzeni mwatcheru kuti ubale wanu sungasokoneze.
- Ngati wokondedwa akupitiriza kufunafuna msonkhano pambuyo pa zokambirana - samanyalanyaza.
- Dzipereke nokha ku banja, ntchito, zokondweretsa. Sokonezani moyo wanu: lembani kuti mutenge thupi, pitani ku masewera olimbitsa thupi kapena phukusi.
- Yesetsani kugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yopuma phindu.
Ndi zopanda phindu bwanji kuti mugawane ndi wokondedwa wanu?
Kupumula kulikonse kumapweteka m'maganizo, makamaka ngati mkazi ali ndi wokondedwa kapena kumverera kwa chikondi kapena chikondi.
Chinthu chokha chomwe mungadzipangire nokha pa nkhaniyi ndichokonzekera maganizo. Yesetsani kuzindikira zofooka mwa mnzanuyo, musamangomusiya ndikumangoganizira zolakwa zake. Pezani zinthu zosayenera mu khalidwe lake . Ganizirani nokha phunziro limene lingasokoneze malingaliro olakwika. Choncho kudalira kusamuka kungakhale kosavuta.