Kodi mungakoke bwanji mwana?

Kuvulala kwa ana ndi chozizwitsa chosapeŵeka. Panali mwambo wosasangalatsa - mwana wanu adadzichepetsera yekha? Mukuzunzidwa, kuganizira za momwe mungapwetekere komanso mwamsanga kuchotsa vuto la mwana yemwe ali ndi vuto, ndipo mwana wanu, ndithudi, panthawi ino, kulira kwake kukukuta pepala. Choyamba, khalani chete, manja "opaleshoni" sayenera kunjenjemera. Koma isanayambike "opaleshoni" izi ndi zoyenera kuzifufuza. Ngati ndizochepa, mungathe kudzisamalira nokha, koma ngati mwanayo athazikika kale ndipo nsonga yake yathyoledwa, ndiye kuti ndibwino kupita kwa madokotala osati kumamwa mankhwala.

Timatenga miyeso

Kotero, mwakhala chete, tsopano ndi nthawi yotsitsimula zinyenyeswazi. Musamuwonetse iye "setesi ya sadist", yomwe mudzatengeko pang'ono. Musapempherenso kulimba mtima kwa mwanayo, kuyesera kunena moona mtima zomwe zingakupweteke. Yesetsani kumasulira ndondomeko iyi yosasangalatsa mwa nthabwala, mochuluka momwe zingathekere kuyesa kusokoneza chidwi cha mwanayo ku "kuphedwa" kumeneku.

Njira ya chikhalidwe ndikutenga thupi lachilendo ndi zizindikiro ndi singano. Zida zonse ziyenera kuti zisamatetezedwe. Gwiritsani khungu khungu mozungulira pang'onopang'ono kuti nsonga ikhale kunja. Ndikofunika kuti phokoso lisagwedezeke, kotero gwirani chala chanu mwamphamvu. Tulutsani mosamala mankhwalawa, ndipo perekani chilonda ndi greenery, mowa kapena ayodini. Ndikofunika kuti palibe zowonongeka zomwe zimasiyidwa mkati zomwe zimatha kugwira.

Ngati mumakhulupirira kuti ndizochepa, mukhoza kuganizira kale za momwe mwana amapezera phokoso m'nyumba. Musanayambe kugwiritsira ntchito, sambani bwino ndi sopo ndi manja, kenaka khalani ndi khungu mozungulira. Njira imodzi, momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito phokoso popanda singano, ndi yophweka kwambiri. Kenaka tumizani mbali ya tsamba la aloe kupita kumalo kumene malowa amapezeka. Madzi a zomera izi adzachepetsa khungu. Sokonezani kujambula kamwana kapena chidole chomwe mumaikonda. Pang'anani pang'onopang'ono khungu lanu ndi zofiira pamphuno, ndipo pang'onopang'ono muzikoka ndi nsonga. Pambuyo pomaliza ntchitoyi, mufunika kukonza ndi kusindikiza chilonda ndipo ngati mayi anu akusowa - mutenge chinachake.

Ngati sichikuya, pali njira yabwino kwambiri yoitulutsa khungu kakang'ono kopanda kuzunza mwanayo. Onetsetsani pa tepi yokhazikika kapena tepi ndikuyikhalitsa mu kayendedwe kamodzi, mwamphamvu ngati n'kotheka. Ngati chirichonse chikuchitidwa molondola, pali zotheka kwambiri kuti ziphuphu zikhalebe pambali pa tepi kuchokera kuyesayesa koyamba.

Thandizo la akatswiri

Komabe, ndi bwino kuyesa kuthetsa vutoli mpaka pamlingo waukulu, mmalo moganiza momwe mungatulutsire mwapang'onopang'ono chala chaching'ono. Koma zonse zimachitika m'moyo, ndipo muyenera kukhala okonzekera izi. Zopweteka kwambiri ndizochitika pamene mwanayo ali ndi ziphuphu pansi pa chovala chake ndipo palibe mwayi wonyamulira kuti awutulutse. Pankhaniyi, muyenera kuonana ndi madokotala mwamsanga.