Mawu omwewo "chikhalidwe" m'Chigiriki amatanthawuza "chosiyana" (chifukwa mawu akuti "khalidwe la khalidwe" ali mwa njira zina ngakhale tautology), ndipo kuchokera apa izi zitenga, monga zithunzi, fano la aliyense wa ife. Lero tidzakambirana za makhalidwe omwe ali nawo, omwe ali ngati anyamata, ndi omwe amatsutsa, komanso momwe angapezere khalidwe la munthu.
Kodi khalidweli limapangidwa pa msinkhu wanji?
Makolo ambiri amakhulupirira molakwitsa kuti watsopano wapangidwe ndi pepala loyera limene mungatengeko kalikonse. Ndithudi, makhalidwe ena a khalidwe amadalira pa zomwe makolo amapereka pamene ali ana, koma nkofunika kumvetsetsa kuti munthu amakula ndi kusintha m'moyo wake wonse (ngakhale kuti chidziwitso chofunikira chimayikidwa mmenemo kwa zaka zitatu), ndipo moyo umayamba m'mimba mayi.
Kutsutsa ndi khalidwe
Zimakhulupirira kuti khalidwe limatsimikiziridwa ndi khalidweli, koma panthawiyi khalidwe ili (gawo) pang'onopang'ono limatsogolera ku mphamvu ya khalidwelo. Izi zinanenedwa ndi Aristotle. Komabe, pakadalibe maziko oterowo omwe ali obadwa mwa ife kuchokera pa kubadwa, ndipo amachititsa makhalidwe ena. Zili ndi malingaliro monga kuwonjezereka ndi chikhalidwe.
Kodi mawu awa osamvetsetseka akutanthauza chiyani? Kotero akatswiri a maganizo amaganiza kuti kukula kwa makhalidwe ena a khalidwe. Zomwe zidawoneka kuti zakhazikitsidwa zapangidwa mwinamwake, nthawi zambiri timagwiritsa ntchito makhalidwe awiri okha:
- An extrovert. Anthu amtundu uwu ndi anthu omwe amayang'ana zochitika zamasewero komanso ku kampani yaikulu yomwe imadziona ngati nsomba m'madzi.
- Introvert. Ambiri amasokoneza chidziwitso ndi manyazi, koma izi siziri zoona. Kuwongolera mwachidule kumachokera ku mphamvu zochokera kumalo awo enieni ndipo kumadzimverera okha okha kapena kuzungulira ndi anthu angapo.
Kuphatikiza pa zochititsa chidwi, akatswiri a maganizo amagwirizanitsa makhalidwe ndi magulu molingana ndi zizindikiro. Mwinamwake munamva matanthauzo awa: choleric, phlegmatic, blood and melancholic. Musanawafotokozere, tiyeni tiyese kudziwa kuti ndi yani mwa mitundu iwiri yomwe muli nayo?
Kuyesera kwapang'ono: "Kodi khalidwe lanu ndi lotani?"
Mayesero awa anawonetsedwa ndi Bydrstup wojambula mwa mawonekedwe a kanema. Kuchokera nthawi imeneyo, nthawi zambiri amapezeka mufukufuku kuti azindikire chikhalidwe.
Choncho, tangoganizani kuti mwakhala pa benchi, ndipo pafupi ndi inu ndi chipewa chomwe mumakonda. Ndipo mwadzidzidzi munthu wina mwachangu amakhala pamutu pamutu. Zimene mumayankha:
bwerani muukali, ndipo muthamangire panja chifukwa cha zolakwa zanu (X); Musathamangire kukwiya: pamapeto pake, zovuta zimakhala zosangalatsa (C); Zimakwiyitsa kwambiri, koma mumayesa kuti musasonyeze malingaliro oipa (M); Onetsetsani kuti zonse zili muyeso, imperturly kutenga chipewa chokhudzidwa ndikuchiyika pamutu panu (F).
Mayankho
(X) Choleric. "Ndili kolera" ndikumvetsetsa kawirikawiri atsikana aang'ono, chifukwa kusinthasintha maganizo, kuyambitsa, mphamvu komanso mwakhalidwe ndizofunikira kwa mtundu uwu (ngati, ndithudi, zifukwa zina zifotokozedwa). Cholera ndi moyo wa uzimu wofunika, mwinamwake mu khalidwe lake silingakhumudwitse ndi kukwiya msanga.
(S) Sanguine. Mutha kusiyanitsa ndi kukhala ndi anzanu, kukwanitsa kukumana ndi anthu mwamsanga ndipo, mwachizolowezi, zimasinthidwa ndi zikhalidwe zatsopano. Komabe, pali kusasinthasintha komanso ludzu la kusintha kwa maonekedwe. Magazini ambiri amangoti, chifukwa chiyani anganene kuti ali ndi vuto.
Phlegmatic. Mwina mukuuzidwa kuti ndinu aulesi, komatu kuti simukuchita nawo bizinesi yatsopano sikukutanthauza kuti sikudzatha. Mosiyana ndi zimenezo, anthu achikulire amakonda kukhala oleza mtima ndi olimbikira. Nthaŵi zambiri mumakwiya, mumadalira mphamvu zanu ndipo simukukonda kucheza.
Kusakanikirana. Ndiwe wovuta komanso wamanyazi. Mukumana ndi mavuto kapena, monga momwe mukuganizira, kusamvetsetsa, mukhoza kugwetsa manja anu. Pulumuka mkati mwanu, motalika, mwaukali komanso mozama. Amakonda kuchita chilichonse, koma ngati muli ndi anthu okonda, zimakupatsani mphamvu ndikuthandizani kumaliza ntchito zanu.
Kodi mtsikana ayenera kukonda mtsikana wotani?
Atsikana nthawi zambiri amadzifunsa kuti ndi anthu amtundu wanji amene amakonda, ngati n'kotheka, "kulondola" makhalidwe awo. Kuti mumvetse kuti palibe yankho lachidziwitso, yang'anirani anyamata anu abwenzi. Kodi mumakonda makhalidwe awo onse? Musadabwe ngati zomwe mukuganiza kuti ndizovuta kwa wina ndizo zabwino. Zonse chifukwa malingaliro a anthu ena amadalira, kuphatikiza pa zomwe khalidwe lanu liri.
Koma, ndithudi, palinso ubwino wozindikiritsidwa pakati pa atsikana. Tiyeni tione makhalidwe ndi makhalidwe omwe amapezeka kwambiri ndi anyamata:
- zosangalatsa. Mukaseka nthabwala zomwezo, komabe ndikuseka kuseka, ndiye mwayi wanu wokopa chidwi ndipamwamba kwambiri. Goethe adanena kuti "palibe njira iliyonse yomwe anthu amawonetsera ngati momwe amachitira zopusa";
- chisamaliro, chifundo. Makhalidwe ameneŵa amakondedwa ndi anthu mwachibadwa, chifukwa msungwana wachikondi adzakhala mayi wabwino;
- ukhondo. Palibenso mnyamata yemwe amakonda msungwana wamantha;
- zopatsa. Kusayera kumadzudzula ndi mabwenzi ndi pettiness;
- luso lomvetsera. Ichi ndi khalidwe losasangalatsa lomwe
amayamikiridwa ndi munthu aliyense, mosasamala kanthu za chikhalidwe chake; - "Zowawa". Nthawi zambiri amphona abwino amakhumudwitsa maganizo awo. Mwamunayu amavomereza kuti amakonda gawo la bitchiness, komabe popanda izi zokometsera zokometsera, maubwenzi ndi ovuta kwambiri.
Musayesere kukhala wokonzeka kwa aliyense, pambuyo pake, khalidwe lililonse labwino labwino limakhala ndi mithunzi yosasangalatsa. Kotero, ukhondo ukhoza kukula kukhala wokondweretsa kwambiri, mwachangu - kukhala mwaubwenzi, ndi kukoma mtima - pochita kudzimana ndi kuwonongeka kwa umunthu wako. Khalani nokha ndikudzikonda nokha, chifukwa ndinu wapadera!