Wina mwa moyo ali ndi mwayi ndipo zochitika zikukula komanso zotheka, ndipo wina akukumana ndi mavuto omwe amawoneka kuti moyo watha ndipo palibe chifukwa chokhalabe m'dziko lino. Komabe, mungayambe moyo mwatsopano pa msinkhu uliwonse ndi muzochitika zilizonse, ndipo momwe mungachitire izo zidzanenedwa m'nkhaniyi.
Kodi n'zotheka kuyamba moyo mwatsopano?
Funso limeneli limabuka kwa anthu ambiri omwe sasangalala ndi momwe amakhalira miyoyo yawo. Zinthu ndi zosiyana: wina amataika wokondedwa wake, wina sachita yekha, ndipo wina amangomva kuti chinachake chiyenera kusinthidwa. Inde, kukayikira kudzawonekera mulimonsemo, chifukwa lero zinthu zonse ndi zoipa, koma ndizodziwika bwino komanso zomveka, ndipo ndikukayikira kokha. Koma chinthu chachikulu ndicho kutenga sitepe yoyamba ndikuyang'ana mmbuyo, ndiyeno zonse zidzapita podutsa. Akatswiri a zamaganizo amapereka uphungu wotere pa izi:
- Kuyamba moyo kuyambira pachiyambi, zikuonekeratu kuti wapatsidwa kamodzi, ndipo kuti sikunali kowawa kumapeto kwa zaka, muyenera kuchita zonse zomwe zimadalira inu, kuti mukhale osangalala. Simungabwerere mphindiyi, koma mukhoza kukhala pano komanso tsopano.
- Tiyenera kukhala okonzekera mavuto. Zolakwitsa zapitazo ndi zinthu zonse zoipa zimene zasungirapo zidzabwereza mobwerezabwereza, koma ngati mupita ku cholinga , khulupirirani nokha kuti zikhale zoipa kuposa momwe zinaliri, sipadzakhalanso, ndiye kuti kupambana ndi chilakolako chosintha sizingatheke monga wamtundu monga kale.
- Mungayambitse moyo mwatsopano zaka 40, 50 ndi zoposa. Sichichedwa mochedwa kusintha chirichonse. Zakale ziyenera kuyamikiridwa chifukwa cha zomwe zinapindula ndi kutseka chitseko kumbuyo kwake. Ndipo kuti palibe chomwe chimamukumbutsa iye chirichonse, kusintha maonekedwe ake, kusiya chirichonse chimene chinabweretsa zinthu zoipa pamoyo - zizoloŵezi zoipa, mabwenzi oipa, ntchito yolipidwa molakwika, ndi zina zotero. Onetsetsani kuti mugwiritse ntchito maganizo anu. Wina wathandizidwa ndi zitsimikizo, ndipo wina akupemphera .