Mkazi wachikondi nthawi zonse amakhala wokondana komanso wachikondi, ngakhale asanayambe kumverera kuti amatchedwa "mkazi wachitsulo". Okonda amayamba kulota za tsogolo labwino, banja, nyumba, ana, mtendere ndi chikondi, chimwemwe chopanda malire. Mwanjira ina imakhala yophweka kwambiri, inayamba kukondana - ndipo sichidziwanso kuti moyo panthaŵi ino uli wokha.
Koma kawirikawiri okonda amafikira ndi malingaliro osasangalatsa kwambiri, mwachitsanzo, momwe angachotsere kugwa m'chikondi. Choyamba iwo amathamangitsidwa kwa iwo okha, ndiye, amadziwa kuti iyi ndiyo njira yokhayo yopulumutsira chikondi chosadziwika.
Gawo ndi sitepe
M'chikondi, aliyense wodutsa amafuna kufuula za chimwemwe chake. Koma pakuyesera kuchotsa malingaliro ameneŵa, nthawi zambiri timayandikira mwaife-zomwe, ndendende, zimatsutsana ndi zomwe ziyenera kuchitidwa.
Ngati mukuzunzidwa ndi chikondi chosadziwika, fotokozani za anzanu, anzanu, achibale anu. Mukamalankhula zambiri, mumamva chisoni kwambiri. Pangani maganizo anu pagulu.
Fufuzani thandizo kuchokera kwa iwo omwe amatha kuchotsa malingaliro a chikondi. Ndikofunika kuzindikira kuti siwe munthu wosasangalatsa kwambiri padziko lonse lapansi, ndipo makamaka, sikuti mkazi woyamba "adakanikika" sali kwenikweni. Pali mabuku ambiri, mafilimu, maofesi omwe amaperekedwa ku mutu wa chikondi. Gwiritsani ntchito chikondi chanu powerenga zochitika za amai akulu: mu moyo wa aliyense ayenera kukhala ndi vuto ndi maganizo osagwirizana.
Dziwani kuti muli pachikondi. Pofuna kuthana ndi chinachake, munthu ayenera kuzindikira zomwe zikuchitika. Ngati nthawi zonse mumaphwanya phokosolo, potsani kuti simukupeza kanthu, simungathe kuchotsa chikondi, popeza simudzatsimikizira kuti kulipo.
Kunena zoona, nokha ndiwekha
Psychology ya okonda ali ndi khalidwe limodzi lokha: kusowa kwa kumveka mu malingaliro. Simudzatha kuthana ndi vutoli mpaka mutamvetsetsa zomwe zilipo. Pofuna "kudziyankhulana momasuka", pezani chidutswa cha pepala ndipo lembani pazinthu zonse zonena za moyo: momwe adagwera mu chikondi osati "mmodzi", chifukwa chiyani sakukulozerani (mwina sakudziwa zakumverera kwanu), ndi chiyani chisoni chanu, bwanji mukuganiza kuti moyo wopanda "izo" sikumveka bwino. Ndipo mu mzimu umenewo.
Mungathe kunena zonse mokweza (nokha, opanda omvetsera). Zonsezi zidzakuthandizani kumvetsetsa zomwe zikuchitika komanso moyo wanu.
Lankhulani naye
Akazi amakonda kulankhula za momwe munthu amabisa chikondi chake , ngakhale kuti amuna amangozichita mochuluka kuposa amayi.
Munthu akhoza kukhala wamanyazi ndi wamantha. Ndiye sangayerekeze kunena poyamba za momwe akumverera, koma amupatsa mkazi zizindikiro-akukhala pansi motsatira, pamene akuzungulira malo ambiri osalongosoka, amamupangitsa kukhala wokondweretsa
Akazi, pokhala otsimikiza kuti amakonda zosagwirizana, pang'ono ndi pang'ono amayamba kudana ndi omwe ali ofanana. Chitsanzo, kachiwiri kuchokera kumagwira ntchito: kukomana mumsewu, amamulandira, monga onse, ndipo amathawa, amanong'oneza, kapena amakhala chete.
Amuna sali ochenjera kwambiri kuti amvetse kuti tikuchita izi kuchokera ku chikondi chachikulu. Ngati muli pachikondi, yesetsani kulankhula momasuka ndi mwamuna ndikuyika mfundo zonse pamwamba pa "ndi". Mwina adzabwezeretsanso, kapena chiyembekezo chanu chachikulu chidzaphwanyika, ndipo chikondi chidzasungunuka mwamsanga.