Kodi mungagonjetse bwanji anthu?

Mpaka pano, pali njira zosiyanasiyana zodziwira momwe angagonjetse anthu. Zolinga za chilakolako chotere ndi zosiyana kwambiri, mwachitsanzo, wina amachita chifukwa cha zolinga zawo zokha, ena chifukwa cha chikondi kapena mpikisano. Anthu ambiri m'dziko lamakono amakonda kukondedwa ndi kupembedzedwa ndi ena, motero akuyesetsa kuti azigonjera.

Kodi mofulumira kwambiri imamugonjetsa bwanji munthu?

Munthu yekha amene ali ndi chifuniro cholimba angathe kuthana ndi ntchitoyi, mwinamwake sipadzakhalanso zotsatira. Ngati simukufuna kugwiritsa ntchito mtundu uliwonse wa kuzunzika ndi kuopseza munthu, ndiye njira yowonjezera yowonjezera idzachita. Aliyense ali ndi malingaliro asanu omwe amamvetsetsa zakunja ndipo ngati wina akudziwa momwe angachitire, ndiye kuti wina akhoza kugwira munthu. Njira zogonjera munthu ku chifuniro cha munthu:

1. Zotsatira pa kukhudzana. Mmodzi mwa mwayi wodziwa kuti dziko loyandikana nalo ndi lokhudza mtima ndipo ngati mumagwiritsa ntchito mfundoyi, mukhoza kutenga munthu kwa kanthawi. Palinso chinyengo chofanana ndi akuba mumsewu. Amasankha wozunzidwa, amayamba kunena zinthu popanda kuima ndipo nthawi zina amangokhudza munthuyo. Zotsatira zake, ntchito ya ubongo imatha mphindi zingapo, ndipo wogonjetsedwayo sangathe kulamulira pazochita zake.
2. Kaŵirikaŵiri, chikoka pamvetserani chimagwiritsidwa ntchito poyang'anira anthu. Chitsanzo chodziwika bwino ndi kuponyedwa kapena kunyamula. Mawu osankhidwa bwino, munthu aliyense akhoza kulowa mumtundu wovuta.
3. Ngati malingaliro a fungo ali bwino, ndiye mothandizidwa ndi zonunkhira mungathe kudzigonjetsa nokha kwa munthu, chifukwa fungo limakhudza mwachindunji ntchito ya thupi lonse. Ambiri amagwiritsa ntchito ma pheromones omwe amachititsa kuti anthu azigonana, ndipo ubongo sungazindikire chenichenicho.
4. Njira inanso yogwira mtima kuti munthu akhale nayo ndiyo kukopa maso. Kachiwirinso, pogwiritsa ntchito pendulums osiyana. Mukhozanso kudzikonzekeretsa nokha ndi chithandizo cha manja osadziwika ndi nkhope.
5. Kutsiriza kumverera komwe iwe ungakhoze kukopa ndi kulawa. Pali zigawo zina zachilengedwe, komanso mitundu yosiyanasiyana, yotengedwa ndi njira za laboratori, zomwe zimalowetsa thupi laumunthu, zimatha kufotokozera kuti zikhale zenizeni.

Kodi mungagonjetse bwanji munthu ndi matsenga?

Zikhulupiriro zoterezi zimagwiritsa ntchito matsenga akuda, ndipo ziyenera kugwiritsidwa ntchito mosamala, chifukwa zingakhale zovuta. Ndikofunika kuti ukhale pansi kuti uchite ntchito ndi chidaliro chonse mu zotsatira zabwino. Pali miyambo yambiri yosiyana ndi imodzi mwa njira zabwino kwambiri ndizo "mwambo wa ukapolo". Muyenera kuzigwiritsa ntchito pa mwezi wotsalira. Gulani mphete ya siliva ndikusakaniza ulusi kudzera mmenemo kuti izikhala pang'onopang'ono. Pambuyo pake, ndizofunika nthawi makumi awiri ndi ziwiri kubwezeretsa ulusi ndipo nthawi iliyonse yolankhula ndi chiwembu chogonjetsa munthu, pokhapokha ngati sipadzakhalanso zotsatira, koma zimveka ngati izi:

"Monga ulusi ndi wogonjera, monga mphete modzichepetsa, kuti ndikufuna kuchita zimenezo, kotero (dzina) muzimvera chifuniro changa, masabata makumi atatu ndi atatu, osasamala, ndipo simukusowa. Ine ndikuwononga izi mwa chifuniro chanu, ine ndikusintha iwe kukhala kapolo. Amen. "

Pambuyo pake, muyenera kutenga chithunzi cha munthu amene mukufuna kumuletsa, ndi kuika mphete pa icho. Kupyolera mu izo, gwirani singano, ndipo mu diso, kanizani mapeto omasuka a ulusi. Ndiye, kuti mugonjetse munthu ku chifuniro chake mothandizidwa ndi matsenga, nenani mawu awa:

"Ndimasokoneza mwano wakuda, moyo wanu (dzina) mukutumikira nokha, zaka zapadziko lapansi zomwe zikuwerengedwa, thupi lanu limasandulika kukhala kapolo, ngati mutasonyeza kudzikweza, ndiye ndi singano ya choipa mu mtima mwanu, monga anthu amagwadida pa mawondo, kotero mumagwada ine, ngati ndikuchoka iwe udzatayika, iwe udzataya njira, ngati ulusi kuti uchoke. Inde, ndodo yokhayo inapita, kotero iwe umakhala kapolo, kupyolera mukupita ku ukapolo. Amen. "

Werengani ndondomekoyi maulendo asanu ndi anayi ndipo muzisiye mpaka mmawa wotsatira. Pambuyo pake, singano iyenera kuikidwa mu mtengo uliwonse, ndipo ulusi umaponyedwa pamalo pomwe munthu amachitika nthawi zambiri kapena amusiya pamsewu. Chovalacho chiyenera kubisika kutali ndi maso ena.

Ganizirani mwambo wina wothandiza womwe ungathandize kupondereza munthu. Muyenera kuchigwiritsa ntchito m'mawa mmawa. Ndikofunika kukhala m'chipinda chokha, kuti chilichonse chisokoneze. Ndikofunika kuyatsa makandulo atatu a sera ndi kunena chiwembu chotero:

"Nyenyeziyo inakonzekera, mwezi unagwirizana, dzuwa linakonzekera. Mawu onse amene ndanenawa adzatsimikiziridwa, okonzedweratu ndi kukwaniritsidwa. Lamulo langa lonse kwa mtumiki wa Mulungu (dzina) ndilolondola. Kumvera mwana, womvera Mulungu, ine, ndi kwamuyaya mtumiki wa Mulungu (Dzina) adzandimvera. Amen. Amen. Amen. "