Mkazi aliyense akulota kukhala ndi ubale wabwino ndi wodalirika ndi mwamuna wake, koma nthawizina pali mikangano ndi kusamvetsetsana. Panthawiyi, muyenera kudzikweza nokha ndikuyesa kusunga ubale wanu . Inde, mwamuna ayenera kutenga nawo mbali mu chiyanjano, koma sangathe kumvetsa zomwe akufuna kuchokera kwa iye.
Mmene mungathetsere ubale wovuta ndi mwamuna wake?
- Gwirizanani kuti chikondi sichitha kukhala popanda ulemu. Choncho, ndikofunikira kuphunzira kuphunzira ndi kumvetsetsana. Muyenera kuthetsa mavuto onse palimodzi, apo ayi, simungakhale osangalala.
- Kodi mungayambitse bwanji ubale ndi mwamuna wake? Yesetsani kupatsana ufulu wina ndi mzake. Lolani aliyense kuyankhulana ndi abwenzi ake, ndi kuchita zomwe amakonda. Muzichita masewera olimbitsa thupi, yang'anani chinachake chatsopano ndikuchifufuza pamodzi. Ndikofunika kwambiri kuti tithandizane komanso kuthandizana.
- Ngati mwakangana, yesetsani kulankhula mozama ndi mwamuna wanu. Mungathe kumuuza kuti ndikofunika kuti muthetse vutoli. Ngati munthu amakuyamikila, adzalumikizana ndi mawonekedwe anu ndikuthandizani kuthana ndi vutoli.
- Kwa maubwenzi, ndikofunikira kuphunzira kukhululukira. Apatsane mwayi wokonzekera, chifukwa palibe anthu abwino. Mu ubale uliwonse, munthu nthawi zonse amalakwitsa. Kawirikawiri mukumenyana mbali zonsezi ndizolakwa, choncho phunzirani kumvetsetsa ndi kukhululukira.
- Ngati mayesero anu onse apita pachabe, yesetsani kusintha. Mosakayikira, kusintha kudzachitika ndi mwamuna. Pambuyo pake, ubale ndi mwamuna wake - ndi mtundu wa galasi. Ngati mumakhumudwitsa komanso musamamulemekeze, amamvanso chimodzimodzi.
Ubale pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi uyenera kukhala wogwirizana. Ngati mumakhudzidwa ndi chinachake kapena mumamva kuti muli pachibwenzi ndi munthu sizimasuka, yesetsani kumvetsetsa nokha. Ziri zovuta, koma muyenera kukhala oona mtima ndi inu nokha momwe mungathere. Ngati simungathe kuthana ndi vuto lanu nokha, pali alangizi abwino a maganizo omwe angathandize kuthetsa mavuto mu ubale ndi mwamuna.