Pamene muli pachikondi, choyamba, ndizosangalatsa kudziwa ngati izi ndizogwirizana. Koma amuna ndi okonza bwino, ndipo amatha kubisa maganizo awo enieni. Munthu amangoopa kukanidwa kapena kuoneka wofooka pamaso pa wokondedwa.
Koma sizinthu zonse zomwe zimatha kuyendetsedwa ndi munthu. Mwachitsanzo, kugwiritsira ntchito, komwe kumakhala kovuta kwambiri kuyendetsa. Mimicry, maso ndi manja zimatha kunena zambiri, ngakhale munthu sakuzifuna. Kudziwa chinenero chamanja kudzawathandiza kuwerengera mwamuna wokondana ndi bwenzi lamzanga.
Zizindikiro zambiri zomwe sizimveka zimatha kuwonedwa poyang'ana nkhope ya mwamuna wachikondi. Chifundo nthawi yomweyo chimaonekera pamaso, chomwe chimakhala chotseguka komanso chochezeka. Maso mwamsanga pali chimwemwe, ndipo amangowala ndi chimwemwe. Maso akamayang'aniridwa ndi mkazi amene amamukonda, ophunzira akufutukule ndi nsidze. Kufutukula kwa beji ndi kuwonekera kwa manyazi pa masaya kumasonyeza chisangalalo cha munthuyo.
Samalani, monga mwamuna wachikondi amawoneka, ngati muli ndi bwenzi lanu lodziwika bwino, nthawi zonse mumakhala maso ake. Pamene mukuyesera kumasulira, maso ake adzabwezeretsa kwa inu. Kubisa chifundo chake, munthu amatha kuganizira mozama chinthu chodzipembedzera, kuyesa kugwira maso ake onse.
Ngati, mukakambirana nanu, mphuno yake ikufutukuka pang'ono, pakamwa pakatsegulidwa pang'ono, nsidze zimakwezedwa ndi kusewera, ndipo mutu ukugwedezeka kumbali yanu, mukhoza kusangalala - amakukondani kwambiri ndi maloto kuti mukulitse kukambirana.
Thupi la munthuyo limasonyezanso chikondi. Yang'anani mwatcheru ndipo thupi lanu lidzamuuza mwamuna wokondana nawe.
Chilankhulo cha munthu mwa chikondi
- Nthawi zambiri ankasokosera tsitsi lake, ndipo iyi si nthawi yoyamba yokambirana;
- limakonza zovala kapena tsitsi, ngati kuti limagwedeza fumbi lomwe silikupezekapo;
- amakhudza nkhope ndikukoka pa mabatani a zovala;
- Amayendetsa mapewa ndikuyesa mimba;
- sungani manja anu;
- Amaika dzanja lake pamapewa anu kapena m'chiuno mwanu.
Musaphonye umboni woterewu - mau a munthu wachikondi. Mukamayankhula ndi mawu omwe mumawakonda, mawuwo adzasintha, amakhala ocheperapo komanso otsimikiza kwambiri, sipadzakhalanso mafilimu okhwima ndi amtundu uliwonse.
Zizindikiro zosonyeza kugonana, mwamuna wachikondi
- zovuta;
- Manja ali m'chiuno kapena m'chiuno, kotero anthu amayang'ana ku khalidwe lawo lalikulu;
- thumba liri kumbuyo kwa lamba;
- kumakhudza mmero ndi chibwano;
- kusewera ndi zinthu zozungulira.
Zidzakhala zofunikira kuzindikira momwe mwamuna wachikondi amawonekera. Nthaŵi zina pamene munthu ali pachikondi, amasamala kwambiri za maonekedwe ake. Akuyesera kukhala wokongola ndi wokonzekeretsa bwino, ndi zovala zina komanso zovala zamkati. Amatha kupita kumalo osungira malaya osatetezedwa, koma ngati pali mwayi wapang'ono kwambiri, kukakumana ndi wokondedwa wake kumeneko, amavala suti yake yabwino yogula.
Muyenera kudziwa kuti chinenero chamanja ndi chovuta, ndipo nthawi zina zimakhala zosavuta kudziwa zizindikiro za thupi. Ndipo ngati simukugwirizana ndi munthu uyu, zidzakhala zovuta kutanthauzira molakwika khalidwe lake, chilakolako champhamvu chokhala pafupi ndi chinthu chokhumba chingathe kumvetsa. M'dziko lino, zizindikiro zokha zomwe zimatsimikizira kuti malingaliro amatha kuwonekera, zizindikiro zina sizidziwika mosadziwika. Zingamveke kuti mwamuna amakukondani kwambiri. Nthawi zambiri anthu okondana amachititsa zinthu zonse kuti azisangalala nazo, ndipo pofuna kupewa zimenezi, munthu sayenera kuganiza mofulumira. Kuti musadandaule pambuyo pake, ndi bwino kuyembekezera mpaka manja amatsimikiziridwa ndi umboni wochuluka wokhudzidwa kwake kwa inu. Mwina padzakhala thandizo, kusonyeza chisamaliro, kapena mphatso yosayembekezereka ya holide kapena kuitanira tsiku, ndi zina.