"Ndinakangana ndi wokondedwa wanga, ndinkakhala ngati mkazi wotsiriza, koma sindinathe kupirira, ndinamva zowawa. Anakhumudwa, ndipo ndikuzindikira kuti pakutsutsana ndimadziimba mlandu, ndimakhala ndikuganizira momwe ndingamufunse munthu wokondedwa kuti akhululukidwe. " Kodi vutoli ndilodziwika bwino? Ndiye tiyeni tiganizire limodzi kuti ndi bwino kupepesa kwa mwamuna wanu.
Kodi mungapemphe bwanji chikhululuko kuchokera kwa wokondedwa wanu?
Njira yabwino yopempherera chikhululuko ndikupanga chidziwitso choyenera cha akatswiri a maganizo. Ndi omwe amapereka uphungu kwa onse omwe amakangana kuti asatenge kamba ndi mchira, koma kuti athamange kukapepesa kwa okondedwa awo mwamsanga pamene zilakolako zatha. Pamene inu ndi mnzanuyo mwakhala chete, muyenera kuyamba kuyanjanitsa. Ndi zophweka kuchita izi - pitani ndikupempha chikhululuko, ndilo "Ndikukondani". Ndipo chinthu chofunikira sikuti uwuze wokondedwa wako kuti angakhale wolakwa kapena wolakwika mu chinachake, kuyamba kuimirira, iwe wawuka kale pamwamba pa mkhalidwe ndipo onse amukhululukira iye, kotero kuti zowonjezera zowonjezera siziri ntchito pano. Komanso, onetsetsani kuti mumalankhula mwamtendere, ndikuyang'anitsitsa.
Koma ndikufuna kupepesa kwa okondedwa m'njira yoyamba, kotero kuti wokondedwa, powona momwe amamuyesa, adakhululukira machimo onse. Pali njira zambiri zopempha kupepesa mwanjira imeneyi, zimadalira malingaliro anu ndi mwayi. Nazi njira zingapo.
Ndibwino bwanji kupempha chikhululukiro kwa wokondedwa?
- Kodi mungapemphe bwanji chikhululuko? Kulumikiza talente iyi kwa ndakatulo, ngati ali, ndithudi. Lembani wokondedwa wanu kupepesa ndi chidziwitso cha chikondi mu mawonekedwe achilembo. Amuna okondana amakhalanso okondana nawo, ngakhale kuti nthawi zonse samawonekera poyera. Ndipo wokondedwa wanu sangasangalale ndi mawu omwewo omwe mumalemba, koma chifukwa cha ntchito yanu - pambuyo pa zonse, mumasankha, mukukweza mawu, mizere, ndikuyesera kuti musamvetse. Koma ngati mulibe luso la ndakatulo, mukhoza kulemba kalata yokongola kwa okondedwa anu. Ndipo mungamupatse kupepesa kupyolera mwa mnzanuyo, yesetsani kuti musamawoneke ngati mukuchita manyazi kapena mukuwopa kuti mumamuuze zonse. Yesani kumenya zonse bwino komanso mwachikondi.
- Kodi mungapemphe bwanji chikhululukiro chabwino? Lingaliro loyambirira ndilo kusankha ndi chakudya chamakono. Chilichonse chidzakhala chokongola apa: zonsezi, ndi inu, ndi mawu anu. Ndipo timakumbukira kuti anthu amakonda kudya zokoma, ndipo pambuyo pake amawoneka bwino kwambiri padziko lapansi. Choncho, ndi bwino kuyesa zomwe okondedwa anu amakonda. Chabwino, fano lako liyeneranso kupangidwa ndi kalembedwe limene limakonda.
- Mukhoza kupempha chikhululukiro ndi zothandiza - kupereka wokondedwa wanu chinthu chochepa chomwe akhala akuchiyang'anitsitsa. Mwachibadwidwe, mphatsoyo iyenera kukhala limodzi ndi pempho lanu lodzipereka kuchokera pansi pa mtima ndipo musamadzipange.
- Kodi mukufuna kupepesa kwa wokondedwa wanu? Lembani banner ndikuiike kumalo anu, kotero kuti mmodzi yekhayo aziwona izo. Zimene muyenera kulemba pa banner, dzifunseni nokha. Mwinamwake izo zidzakhala zochepa "Pepani, ine ndimakukondani inu" kapena mawu omwe inu awiri mukudziwa.
- Pempherani zopembedzera osati zokongola, komanso zosangalatsa.
Valani, muike uta m'manja mwanu, mutenge gulu lalikulu la mabuloni ndikupemphani kuti mukhululukire kwanu kwa wokondedwa wanu. Palibe aliyense amene angakane kukongola koteroko ndi kuseketsa phokoso.
Koma ziribe kanthu momwe mungasankhire kuti musamufunse chikhululukiro chanu chokondedwa, chinthu chachikulu ndicho kukhala owona mtima mu kuvomereza kwanu ndi kupepesa. Ndipo kodi mungatani kuti musakhale wofunikira kwambiri, kulira, kuikidwa pamapewa, kumpsompsona ndi kumutsimikizira kuti iye ndi wabwino kwambiri ndipo simudzamukwiyitsa kapena kuima ngati kamtsikana kakang'ono pamutu wanu ndikufunsanso kuti mumvetsere. Ndikofunika kuti azindikire kuti mumalapadi ndikumukonda.