Vuto la kugonana ndilolendobwino. Banja lirilonse lakumanapo kapena likulimbana nalo. Ndipo okhawo omwe ali olimba kwambiri, oleza mtima, awiri omvetsa bwino adzaima ndi kukhala pamodzi. Ngati gawo lofunika ngati limeneli lachitika mmoyo wanu - musayang'ane mkhalidwewu mozama. Tengani ngati chiyeso chovuta koma chofunikira. Ndipo zotsatira za zochitikazo ndi zotsatira za mayesero zimadalira aliyense wa inu. Dziwani, mulimonsemo, mavutowo adzatha, ndipo ubalewo udzasunthira kumtunda watsopano! Gwirani mwamphamvu ndi manja, kukoka mpweya m'mapapo ndikusunga ulemu kwa wokondedwa wanu ... ACT !!!
Kodi mungapulumutse bwanji mavuto a m'banja?
Nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta kupulumuka mavuto a m'banja. Moyo, kusonkhana, kusayanjanitsika ndi kusowa chidwi ndi nthawi; kusasamala kwa wokondedwa ndi zina mwa zofooka zake; zochitika padziko lonse, mavuto, mavuto ndi mikangano; kusamvetsetsana, kusagwirizana, kulera mwana - ndipo ichi si mndandanda wathunthu wa zifukwa. Zindikirani kuti zonsezi zimakhala zovuta. Kotero, ndi zopusa kuti ndidziyerekeze kuti chirichonse ndi chabwino, koma sichichita kalikonse.
Mmene mungapulumukire vutoli m'banja?
Ndi kulakwa, komanso, kukhulupirira kuti mnzanuyo sasamala za "nyengo" ya ubale wanu. Mwina mwakhumudwa ndipo mumakayikira kuti zonse zomwe zikukuchitikirani ndi zomwe mukufuna. Ndichophweka kwambiri, ndithudi, kuti muthawe kuchoka ku mkhalidwe wamakono, kusiyana ndi kuyesa kuthetsa izo. Musaganize kuti anthu omwe akhala m'banja losangalala kwa zaka pafupifupi 30 akhala okoma. Ukwati wanu suli woipitsitsa ndipo si wosiyana kwambiri. Apanso ndikubwereza: "Chilichonse chimadalira awiri okha"!
Kodi mungapulumuke bwanji mavutowa kwa zaka 7?
Malire ovomerezeka amasiyana pakati pa zaka 7 ndi 9 akukhala pamodzi. Ndilosayembekezeka kwambiri komanso losakhazikika. Panthawiyi, banjali limabweretsa mwanayo, akuwona makhalidwe ake a msinkhu. Kuwonjezera apo, kusunthira pamsinkhu wa ntchito kumawonjezera udindo ndipo kumatenga nthawi.
Maganizo a banja amalingalira kuti okwatirana amafanizira zofuna zawo ndi maloto awo moona. Pamene zenizeni sizikugwirizana ndi zilakolako, ndiye kuti vuto la zaka zingayambe mwa mmodzi mwa okwatirana.
Tiyeni tikambirane mmene tingathandizire munthu kuti athane ndi mavuto.
Kwa iwe ndi theka lanu lachiwiri zikuwoneka kuti moyo ndi wosasangalatsa - kudabwa. Ndikufuna chinachake chatsopano ndi chachilendo. Pa nthawiyi, gwiritsanani wina ndi mzake kuposa kale lonse. Chitani chinachake chogwirizanitsa inu, chatsopano, chophatikizana. Pezani ntchito zowoneka ndi zokondweretsa. Pamodzi mumathera nthawi, mumacheza ndikuyenda m'malo ofunika kwa inu. Limbikitsani mgwirizano ndi zakale, zosangalatsa, zabwino zokumbukira - osati zodzudzula ndi mawu.
Khalani oyamikira pa chirichonse, kupereka ufulu pang'ono, kupanga zodabwitsa, mu mawu - kuyamba kusintha maganizo anu nokha, ndipo mudzatha kusunga maubwenzi amenewo omwe ali okondedwa kwambiri kwa inu!