Chikondi sichitha kukhala chete, nthawi zonse chiyenera kumveka, kumvetsetsedwa ndi wina. Amasowa njira yoti amve kuti akhale amphamvu kwambiri. Nthawi zina mawu achikondi amatchulidwa mokweza, ndipo nthawi zina kalata yaing'ono, mawu angapo mu SMS akhoza kutsitsimutsa chilakolako chogwa kale mu moyo wa munthu wachikondi.
Yesetsani kumvetsetsa kuti mukhoza kulemba mnyamata wabwino, kotero kuti kuyambira mawu oyambirira a chiganizo amamverera chifundo chanu, chikondi chake.
Ndingalembere chiyani kwa mnyamata wokondedwa wanga?
Atsikana ambiri amakhulupirira kuti chinthu chofunika kwambiri polemba kalata ndicho chiyambi. Ndi kulakwitsa kuganiza kuti zidzakhala zophweka kupanga chisankho chachikondi, ngati chiyambi cha kalatayi chikuperekedwa movutikira.
Kotero, choyamba, bwerani ndi pempho lanu kwa mnyamata. Chifukwa cha ichi, mawu a kalatayo adatsimikiziridwa. Ngati mumamvetsetsana popanda mawu, ngati chibwenzi chanu chafika pamsinkhu wanu pa chitukuko chanu, ndiye kuti zokwanira kuti muyankhe "wokondedwa" ndi mnyamata wanu wokondedwa adzamva chikondi chanu. Ngati muli pafupi kwambiri, mungagwiritsire ntchito chiganizo "cholakalaka". Ngati mudakali pachiyambi cha chiyanjano, mugwiritseni ntchito "yokha". Iye adzamva momwe mukusowa, mtengo wake.
Pofuna kupita ku gawo lalikulu, ku kalata ndi kumvetsetsa mawu omwe mungalembe kwa mnyamata, musaganize zonse mosamala. Lembani kuchokera pamtima, kuiwala za malingaliro. Lolani uthenga ukhale wodzazidwa ndi malingaliro, chikondi, koma osati malamulo ndi kulingalira kokwanira. Chifukwa cha ichi, wokondedwa wanu adzamva kuwona mtima kwanu, kusagwirizana. Lembani zonse zomwe zimabwera m'maganizo. Za iye, za iyeyekha, za iwe awiri. Ngati wokondedwayo ali patali ndi inu, mvetserani mmene alili. Yesani mu kalata kuti muwonetse kumverera kwachisokonezo, chikondi chimene amamuyembekezera pofika kunyumba. Kalata yanu iyenera kuchoka chabe.
Ngakhale mutati mwawona maola angapo apitawo, lembani kuti mukusowa ngati ziridi zoona. Khalani woona mtima mukumverera kwanu.
Kodi mungamulembe munthuyu poyamba?
Atsikana ambiri omwe ali pachiyambi pomwe akulankhulana ndi anyamatawa, amamva zovuta pa nkhani zogwirizana ndi nkhani yoyamba komanso nkhani zomwe angakambirane.
Ngati inu mukudabwa kuti ndi zosangalatsa ndi zokondweretsa kulemba munthu, ndiye yankho lolondola ndiloti musamalembe za mavuto anu kapena mavuto ena. Gwiritsani nkhani zomwe mukuganiza kuti zimakondweretsa kwa iye. Mnyamatayo amayamikira, ndipo adzakondwera ngati kulemba kuyamika kochokera pansi pamtima komwe kumakhudzana ndi zochita zake kapena makhalidwe ake. Adzasangalala kwambiri kumva kuti ali ndi zosangalatsa zambiri. Mnyamata adzawona mwa iwe mtsikana wokondweretsa, ngati iwe ukuyamikira chidziwitso chake. Musatengeke ndi kuyamikila za maonekedwe ake, ndi zina zotero. Mukhoza kuona muzonse golidi limatanthauza.
Kodi mungalembe chiyani mu SMS?
Mauthenga afupiafupi ndi chifukwa chabwino chokakamizira mnyamata, komanso kuti azisewera maganizo ake pa inu. Imeneyi ndi imodzi mwa njira zosavuta kumusangalatsa, kudzikumbutsa yekha.
Nazi zitsanzo zingapo zokhudzana ndi kulembera uthenga kwa achinyamata:
- Podziwa nthawi yomwe amauka, mukhoza kulemba chinachake monga "Chabwino m'mawa, kachipatala. Uka. "
- Pofuna kudzikumbutsa, lembani za momwe mukuyembekezera msonkhano wanu.
- Kuti mupepese, lembani mawu opemphapempha, kuwonjezera mawu ochepa achikondi kwa iye.
Kodi mungalembe munthu wotani?
Kuti mulembe chinthu chachilendo kwa mnyamata, muyenera kungosangalatsa komanso kuganiza. Inde, zomwe zili mu kalata yodabwitsa zimadalira momwe muliri pafupi ndi mnyamata. Malangizo okha - lembani kuchokera pamtima, koma dziwani mlingo.
Ndiyenera kudziwa kuti nthawi zonse mumatha kulemba chinthu chokondweretsa kwa wokondedwa wanu komanso mnzanu. Kwa ichi, chinthu chachikulu ndicho kulemba kuchokera mu mtima.