Ndimadana ndi anthu

Pamsonkhano wina uthenga wa mtundu uwu unasindikizidwa: "Ndimadana ndi anthu, ndipo amadana nane. Sindingathe kukhala m'gulu la zinyama, ndimadana ndi anthu awiri, achinyengo, oipa, achinyengo. Ndimadana ndi anthu ambiri, chifukwa onse ali ndi makhalidwe amenewa. Dziko likugwedezeka pamaso pathu. Ndiuzeni, ndichifukwa chiyani ndikudana ndi anthu? Ndingakhale bwanji ndi izi? Ndipotu, kukhala moyo kumangokhala kosasimbika ... ". Wolemba uthengayo ndi mtsikana wa pafupifupi 15, pafupifupi wachinyamata. Poyamba, zikuwoneka kuti mu moyo wake chinachake chiyenera kuti chinachitika kuti zitha kukhumudwa. Komabe, lerolino anthu ochulukirapo amavutika ndi matenda ngati osokoneza - ndilo dzina la munthu amene amadana ndi anthu.

Kusokoneza bodza - ndi chiyani?

Misanthrope, kapena munthu amene amadana ndi anthu ena, amakhala osasunthika, amapewa anthu, akhoza ngakhale kukhala ndi anthu ena, amantha anthu. Zisokonezo zitha kukhala maziko a nzeru zonse za moyo wa munthu, ndipo akhoza kukhala moyo wake wonse, kudana ndi anthu ndikusazindikira chisangalalo cha ubale weniweni waumunthu, chikondi, ubwenzi.

Misanthrope amavutika kwambiri ndi misinthropy, kapena, m'malo mwake, amasangalala nazo. Ambiri a misanthropes anganene kuti, "Ndimadana ndi anthu ndipo ndikunyada." Pali anthu ena amene misanthropes amakhala nawo paubwenzi weniweni, koma ndi ochepa chabe. Misanthrope amadana ndi makhalidwe a umunthu, osati kwenikweni. Amasunthanso masomphenya awo aumunthu kwa anthu ena ndikukhulupirira kuti anthu ena amadana.

Chiyambi chodana

Tiyeni tiwone chifukwa chake anthu amadana. Kudana ndi misanthrope kwa mtundu wonse wa anthu kungayambitsidwe ndi zifukwa zingapo.

1. Kudzikayikira. Munthu amadalira malingaliro a ena, samalola kutsutsidwa mu adiresi yake, choncho amayesa kupeŵa anthu onse kapena kutenga mawu awo onse mu adiresi yake ndi ma bayonets.
2. Kusokonezeka. Kukhazikika kumabwera nthawi zambiri kuyambira ubwana. Ndicho chifukwa cha kumverera kwa kudzichepetsa, ndipo munthu amafuna kudzivomereza yekha potsutsa ena.
3. Nsanje za ena omwe ali ndi ndalama zosiyana, mavuto, kusalemekeza kumakuchititseni kudana.
4. Maphunziro. Izi zimakhudza chidani cha ena. Timapirira zovuta zathu zonse ndi phobias kuyambira tili ana.

Kuyenera kuwonjezeredwa kuti chidani sichinayambidwe mwachindunji ndi chinthu chodana, koma ndi phunziro lake. Ndiko kuti, munthu samadana ndi munthu wina, koma m'malo mwake. Chifukwa chakuti iye sali choncho, osati ngati wina aliyense, izi ndi nsanje ndi zovuta zovuta.

Kodi mungathetse bwanji chidani?

Ambiri mwa misanthrope amadabwa kuti achite chiyani ngati mumadana ndi munthu. Iwo sali okhudzidwa ndi njira zopotoka ku mfundo zawo za moyo, ndipo ndi zomvetsa chisoni. Anthu oterewa adzatha kuthandiza katswiri wodwala maganizo, yemwe adzakupangitsani kumvetsetsa, choyamba, mwa inu nokha. Koma ena adzivomereze okha: "Ndimadana ndi anthu," amadziwa za moyo wawo ndikuganiza momwe angasiyire kudana ndi munthu, momwe angagonjetse chidani chawo cha anthu. Izi sizingatheke popanda uphungu wa akatswiri oganiza bwino a maganizo omwe angathandize kuthana ndi njira yoyamba yothetsera chidani.

Choyamba, muyenera kupeza chifukwa cha chidani chanu. N'chifukwa chiyani mumadana ndi anthu? Dzichepetseni nokha. Ndi chiyani chomwe chikukukhumudwitsani inu ndipo chimayambitsa vuto ili? Ngati mupeza mphamvu kuti mudzivomereze nokha kuti muli ndi nsanje kwa anthu ena, chifukwa ali ndi chinthu chomwe mulibe, ndiye ichi ndi sitepe yoyamba kuchiritsa. Nchifukwa chiyani mumatsogolere mphamvu zanu ku chiwonongeko, ndipo tiyeni tiyesetse, zopanda phindu, kwa inu, choyamba, kumverera kwa chidani? Khalani ndi cholinga ndikuwongolera khama lanu.