Momwe mungakhalire chidontho ndi mwamuna?

Chifaniziro cha ochita zabwino ndi ochita bwino masiku ano wataya kufunikira kwake, ndipo amayi ambiri akuyesetsa kuphunzira momwe angakhalire azimayi tsiku lililonse. Inde, tikukamba za tanthauzo la mawu awa, omwe amatanthawuza wopambana, mkazi wochenjera yemwe angakhoze kupotoza anthu pa zolinga zake.

Kodi mungatani kuti mukhale wotchi?

Kuwotcha ndi mkazi wodzipereka wokhazikika 100% amene nthawi zonse amachita mogwirizana ndi zofuna zake. Ndipo chifukwa cha kudzidalira iwe uyenera kuyesetsa kuti udzikulire. N'zosatheka kukhala khungu lenileni, osakhala ndi maonekedwe okonzeka bwino komanso maganizo ochepa.

Ndichifukwa chake nsonga zazikulu, momwe mungakhalire chidontho, zidzakhala:

1. Musamawonekere pa anthu opanda maonekedwe, zovala zonyansa, ndi manja okonzedwa kapena tsitsi loipa. Kuthamanga ndibwino!
2. Pezani kalembedwe ndi kavalidwe mwanu ndi bwino. Palibe chodabwitsa ndipo palibe chophatikizidwa!
3. Pezani nthawi yowerenga zolemba zamakono ndi zamaganizo - popanda izi, simudzakhala ndi zofunikira zokhazokha. Osati kokha kuwerenga, komanso kumvetsa zomwe zawerengedwa - zimapanga nzeru.
4. Chitani ngati dona. Ntchentche yemwe amatha kulira kwa munthu kapena kulumbira pa chikwama sizeng'onoting'ono, koma a bazaar.
5. Pezani zinthu zomwe mumakonda kuzichita - phokoso nthawi zonse liyenera kukhala ndi zofuna zake zomwe sizimulola kuti asungunuke mwa mwamuna.

Mukhoza kuwerenga mabuku a psychology pa mutu wakuti "momwe mungakhalire", ndipo ambiri mwa iwo mudzapeza mndandanda womwewo wa machitidwe.

Momwe mungakhalire chidontho ndi mwamuna?

Ngati mukudabwa kuti mungakhale bwanji chingwe kwa mwamuna, mkwati kapena chibwenzi chanu, choyamba, ganizirani ngati mwachita zolakwa zambiri. Ngati muwona kuti ubalewu ukukhazikika malinga ndi malamulo ake, nthawizina ndichedwa kwambiri kuti musinthe chinachake. Zovuta nthawi zonse zimasewera ndi malamulo ake:

1. Inu mumathetsa nkhani zofunika kwambiri, koma osati mwa kufuula ndi kukangana, koma mwachinyengo mwamunthu mwamunthu kuti lingaliro lanu ndilo lokha lokha.
2. Mumadziŵa momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito nthaŵi ndi nthawi (osadalira wina).
3. Simumalola kukhala wamwano pamaso panu.
4. Mumamuthandiza munthu kuti ali ndi mwayi waukulu kukumana nanu ndikukhala ndi inu, akuyenera kulemba.

Kuthamanga mu ubale ndi imvi kadedi. Amatha kutsogolera chilichonse, koma kuti munthu asadziwe kuti amamuvina.