Aliyense wawakonda ndi wokonda, amene munthu amamukonda komanso amamukonda, amasangalala ndi zinthu zopanda pake ndipo amachita zinthu zabwino, amathandiza ndi uphungu ndi ntchito, ndipo amawateteza ku mavuto. Ndipo kodi amasonyeza kuti amachita zimenezi pokhudzana ndi iye mwini? Ngati sichoncho, ndiye kuti mumangodzikonda nokha, koma apa ndi momwe mungakhazikitsire.
Kodi mungatani kuti mukhale ndi chikondi chenichenicho?
Malangizo otsatirawa athandizira izi:
- Musayang'anire mphindi yoyenera pamene mutha kudzikonda nokha, koma mumvetse kuti ndife okonzeka kale - pano ndi pano. Tili okhutira ndipo tili nazo zonse kuti tizindikire zomwe tili nazo.
- Lekani kudzitsutsa nokha. "Mayi" wotsutsidwa ndi chikhumbo chokhala wangwiro, koma pa Dziko lapansi palibe munthu wangwiro. Kudzudzula kumatitengera ife mu chimango, koma munthu wangwiro basi akhoza kudzikonda yekha momwe iye alili.
- Dziyeseni nokha kudzichepetsa ndipo musafunike zambiri. Khululukirani zolakwitsa ndikukhala otsimikiza kuyamikila zochitika.
- Musamvetsere kwa "ofunira zabwino" omwe amakudziwani bwino, zomwe muyenera kuchita. Ngati mumamvetsera maganizo a wina, ndiye kuti maganizo a opambanawo, omwe akudziwa zomwe akuchita ndikuwonetsa.
- Lekani kudandaula za zomwe ena amaganiza za inu. Munthu aliyense ndi wapadera ndipo ali ndi ufulu wokhala yekha komanso kufotokozera momwe akufunira.
Pali ntchito imodzi yogwira mtima yomwe ingathandize omwe akufuna kudziwa momwe angakhalire ndi chikondi paokha. Ndiyenera kudzisamalira nokha tsiku lililonse. Mungathe kulembetsa mndandanda madzulo onse ndikutsatira tsiku lotsatira. Mwachitsanzo, dziwani nokha kugula, ora la kupuma ndi bukhu pamgedi, ndi zina zotero. Kuwerenga zolimba pamaso pa galasi kumathandiza kwambiri, zomwe zingakhale zochitika zina za tsiku ndi tsiku. Ndikofunika kunena zinthu monga: "Ndine wangwiro ndi wokongola, ndimatha kuchita zonse, palibe yemwe angandikhudze ine, ndili ndi udindo pa moyo wanga", ndi zina zotero.