Ngongole Yamakhalidwe

Aliyense amadziwa kuti udindo woterewu umadziwika, koma sikuti aliyense amaganizira za momwe lingaliroli lingakhazikitsire, ndipo choyamba, ndilo kudzimana komwe kumapangitsa palokha. Chofunikira chomwe chimaonetsa kuti munthu ali ndi udindo wamakhalidwe abwino, amachititsa munthu kuchita zinthu mogwirizana ndi iye mosasamala kanthu za zikhumbo zake ndi zofuna zake. Kupanga chisankho chotsatira mfundo za makhalidwe abwino ndi kudzipereka kwathunthu, choyamba timasonyeza kuti tili ndi mphamvu komanso kuti tidzatsatira malingaliro omwe timakhulupirira kuti timatumikira mwachilungamo ndipo cholinga chathu chikutithandiza kuti dzikoli likhale bwino. woyera kusiyana ndi.

Musamavulaze!

Mu zipembedzo zonse za mdziko ndi miyambo yakale ya anthu osiyanasiyana, chikumbumtima ndi ntchito, monga makhalidwe abwino, akhala akuyikidwa pamwamba pa china chirichonse. Ndipo lero, mfundo yakuti "Musamavulaze!" Mabodza chifukwa cha chikhalidwe cha anthu komanso dongosolo la malamulo la dziko lonse lotukuka.

Zoonadi, zosiyana zikhoza kuchitika m'moyo ndipo nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta kupanga kusankha, koma mwa njira iliyonse, aliyense amachita zomwe chikumbumtima chimamuuza (kapena kulola). Zolondola ndizo zomwe timavomereza komanso ngati ziri zoyenera kupereka nsembe, nthawi zambiri zimasonyeza nthawi. Koma zochitika zikuwonetsa kuti chinthu chovuta kwambiri ndicho kusankha zoipa ziwiri ndipo pakadali pano, kufunika kwa kusankha kwabwino ndi ntchito kumakhala ndi tanthauzo lapadera, makamaka pankhani ya miyoyo ya anthu.

Anthu ena amakumana ndi vutoli nthawi zambiri kuposa ena, chifukwa cha ntchito yawo, mwachitsanzo, madokotala, ndale kapena asilikali. Koma ngakhale "anthu wamba" ali ndi mavuto ambiri m'moyo, makamaka pamene nthawi ya mavuto ikubwera, kuwululira makhalidwe onse abwino ndi olakwika a munthu.

Kodi mungasankhe chiyani?

Pali mitundu iwiri ya khalidwe labwino: ngongole ku malo oyandikana ndi ngongole kwa anthu onse. Ndipo sizodabwitsa kuti anthu asankhe pakati pawo. Koma onse awiriwa, amagawidwa m'magulu. Mwachitsanzo, ngongole ya achibale imaphatikizaponso phindu lake, ndipo ngongole kwa anthu ikhoza kukhala ndi ngongole ku gawo lina la izo, makamaka, kwa oimira gulu losiyana.

Mulimonsemo, miyezo ya makhalidwe yomwe munthu amatsatira imayikidwa patsogolo pake malire omwe sapita zotsatira. Ngati atapanga chiganizo chotere kuti chikumbumtima chake chiwonongeke ndikuchita zinthu, motsogoleredwa ndi kupindula kwake, ziribe kanthu kaya ndi mtundu wanji umene akulankhula, zidzasokoneza maganizo ake m'tsogolomu, popeza ngakhale zinyama zili ndi makhalidwe ena, kuphwanya kwake Zadzala ndi zotsatira zoipa kwa oimira mitundu yosiyanasiyana.

Kudandaula za zisankho zolakwika nthawi zonse kumapweteka psyche ndi kukula kwa umunthu wa umunthu, choncho nthawi zonse nkofunika kukumbukira makhalidwe ndi makhalidwe abwino. Koma funso la kuchuluka kwa momwe tingathe kuchita izi, aliyense ayenera kudzifunsa kale.