Kujambula ndi mwina chinthu choipa kwambiri chimene mkazi angapereke kwa mwamuna. Ndipotu, tonse timalota za kuwolowa mtima kwa moyo, manja ndi manja okongola. Kuchokera kwa munthu wamphongo simungathe kudikira. Komanso, munthu wamphongo m'maso mwathu ndi wovuta, ndipo samangokhalira kupereka mphatso, koma chifukwa cha malingaliro.
Chifukwa cha chilungamo ndikoyenera kunena kuti akazi ndi ofunika pang'ono, koma mwa ife tokha timapeza khalidweli ndi zokondweretsa zambiri. Koma tiyeni tiyambe, tidziwe yemwe munthu wamng'onoyo ndi ndani, ndipo ngati izi zili zosautsa, kapena kuti pettiness sichiwonetseratu osati mbali imodzi ya zinthu.
Moyo wathu uli ndi zochitika zambiri, zomwe zikhoza kugawidwa mu zochitika zina zochepa. Ndipo chilichonse, ngakhale chaling'ono kwambiri, ndicho zotsatira za zosankha zathu. Ena timachita mopepuka, ena omwe timawayeza mosamala. Munthu wam'nyamata amamunyoza mwatsatanetsatane, ndiye kuti akuwona kufunika kwake. Koma, mwatsoka, ku malingaliro abwino ndi zochitika, manja awo samafika kawirikawiri, chifukwa nthawi imadyedwa ndi mavuto ang'onoang'ono. Kuphwanyidwa kwa Afilisiti, kupsinjika - zonsezi zimalepheretsa munthu kuti asakwere pamwamba pa kukangana, kumva moyo, komanso chofunika kwambiri - kukwaniritsa mapiri enieni. Zambiri zimatenga chidwi cha munthu wamng'ono kwambiri kuti chithunzi chonse sichiwonjezera pamutu pake.
Chofunika cha pettiness
Trifling ndi mbali yotsutsana ndi malingaliro, ndipo momwe zilizonse zopambanitsa zingayambitse mavuto a tsiku ndi tsiku. Kotero, mwachitsanzo, munthu wamng'ono akhoza kuyang'anitsitsa mosamala dongosolo mu nyumba popanda kuzindikira mavuto osokonezeka maganizo. Kwa iye, ntchito yolemba kunyumba imakhala yofunika kwambiri kuposa kuthetsa zovuta zambiri. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti munthu wamng'onoyo amakwiya mwa iye
Nyumba trivia, kuwonjezerapo, kuba nthawi ndi kukhudzidwa maganizo kuchokera kwa munthu. Chisoni m'maso ndizosakanikirana ndi zolembera, zosankha zosavomerezeka, zopanda chidziwitso, kupatula zofuna zamphamvu za moyo, zimachotsedwa ngati poyamba. Chifukwa anthu amphongo amathandiza makamaka kuti asangalale ndi kuchita chinthu chachilendo. Nthawi zambiri kuyang'ana pamaso pa okondedwa anu, kulota zambiri, kumvetsera moyo wanu. Kenaka pettiness imasandulika kukhala yosasamala, yosamalira, komanso, kukhala ndi khalidwe labwino lomwe lingalimbikitse banja lililonse.