Kulankhula za momwe mungaphunzire kuganiza moyenera, ndibwino kupanga kusungirako kofunikira. Izi sizingaphunzire mofulumira. Dzifunseni nokha, munthu kwa nthawi yayitali ankakhala woipa, ndipo njira yake yolingalira inakhala chizoloŵezi chake, ndi zizoloŵezi, monga mukudziwa, kuthetseratu sikophweka. Ntchitoyi ndikutengera chizoloŵezi choipa ndi chinthu chofunikira.
Akudziika okha ntchito, anthu ovutika maganizo amapeza zifukwa zambiri, "koma" ndi "ngati", zomwe siziwonjezera kukhulupilira ndipo sizingapangitse kuti zizikhala bwino . Anthu oterewa amatha kupeza mozizwitsa njira zambiri za "mawanga a dzuwa" ndipo nthawi zonse amakhala ndi zifukwa zomveka zowonjezera. Optimists ndizosiyana kwambiri.
Kodi mungaganize bwanji?
Choyamba, muyenera kuphunzira "kugwira" maganizo osayera omwe nthawi zina, mwadzidzidzi. Maganizo ndi njere zomwe timafesa, kotero ubwino wa tirigu umadalira nthawi yokolola. Lingaliro lililonse loipa limalowetsedwa ndi chinthu chabwino, yesetsani kugwiritsa ntchito malingaliro anu ndi malankhulidwe anu chidutswa cha kunyalanyaza "ayi."
Muyenera kuganiza moyenera, kumbukirani kuti ngati chitseko musanatseke, mutsegule zina. Mwinamwake chinachake chomwe sichinagwire ntchito lero ndi chophatikiza chachikulu ndi mawa chofunika kwambiri kuposa inu.
Kulankhulana ndi anthu opambana ndi abwino. Otaika, opatsirana monga chimfine, samapeze anthu awo, chifukwa nkutheka kuti sungakhale ndi kudzoza komanso kupereka mphamvu zowonjezera. Anthu opambana angathe kukhala aphunzitsi abwino a moyo mwadzidzidzi, kusonyeza ndi chitsanzo chawo kuti kuganiza moyenera kungathe kuwononga makoma osasunthika.