Makhalidwe auzimu a munthu amachitira umboni wake pazomwe akukula , za kukula kwake. Mwachikhalidwe chake, uzimu weniweniwo suli chikhalidwe chabe, koma njira ya umunthu, yomwe imaphatikizapo udindo ndi ufulu.
Ndizimene zimathandizira munthu aliyense kuti asakhalenso payekha, osangokhala ndi zosowa zakuthupi. Chifukwa cha iwo, munthu amakhala gawo la mphamvu yolenga ya mphamvu zakutali. Iye amatha kupitirira malire a umunthu wake wamkati, atatsegula mgwirizano ndi dziko lapansi pamtunda wapamwamba wa chitukuko.
Ndikofunika kuzindikira kuti zinthu zauzimu zimalimbikitsa munthu kuchita zinthu zina, mosiyana kwambiri ndi wamba, wamba. Kuonjezera apo, amachita monga chofunikira kuti azikhala ndi udindo, kupereka ufulu, wopanda malire.
Mitundu ya zinthu zauzimu
1. Makhalidwe a Smyslozhiznennye ndiwo malingaliro, moyo wotsogola wamoyo, kulumikiza chilengedwe chonse cha umunthu ndi moyo wosokonezeka. Iwo ali ndi khalidwe lokhalokha, payekha payekha komanso pa mbiri ya chikhalidwe chilichonse. Mfundo zazikuluzikulu zomwe zimapezeka mu mitundu imeneyi ndi moyo ndi imfa, kutsutsa kwa zabwino ndi zoipa, mtendere ndi nkhondo. Zakale, kukumbukira, tsogolo, nthawi, zam'tsogolo, kwamuyaya - ndizimene zimapangitsa munthu kuti asamangidwe. Iwo amapanga lingaliro la dziko lonse lathunthu, lomwe mosakayikira, ndilolendo kwa chikhalidwe chirichonse. Kuwonjezera apo, mafilosofi ndi mafilosofi amenewa amathandizira kuzindikira mgwirizano wa aliyense wa ife kwa ena, za malo m'dziko lino. Maganizo onena za umunthu, ufulu, umunthu ndi chilengedwe zimatithandiza pa izi. Ndikoyenera kuzindikira kuti iwo akutsatira mfundo zomwe zimagwirizana ndi mtundu wachiwiri.
2. Makhalidwe abwino amatanthauza zinthu za uzimu zomwe zimathandiza munthu kuti azilamulira maubwenzi ake ndi anthu potsutsana ndi zamuyaya zomwe zikuchitika pakati pawo. Makhalidwe awa akuphatikizidwa ndi malamulo osatchulidwa monga: zoletsa, mfundo, zikhalidwe, malamulo. Zinthu zofunika apa ndi zabwino ndi zoipa. Kuyimira kwa munthu pazinthuzi kumatanthawuza, poyamba, kutanthauzira kwa mfundo zotsatirazi: ulemu, umunthu, chilungamo ndi chifundo. Ndi chithandizo chawo chimene munthu amatha kudziona yekha ngati gawo la anthu onse. Chifukwa cha malingaliro awa, lamulo lalikulu, "golidi" lamulo la makhalidwe ndilopangidwa kuti: "Chitani kwa ena monga momwe mukufuna kuti muchitire nanu mofanana." Makhalidwe abwino amayendetsa mgwirizano pakati pa anthu, magulu a anthu komanso zikuphatikizapo mfundo zotsatirazi:
- kuwona;
- kukhulupirika;
- kukonda dziko;
- ngongole;
- ulemu;
- gulu;
- khama;
- chifundo;
- kulingalira.
3. Makhalidwe abwino okhudzana ndi kulengedwa kwa mgwirizano, kudziwika kwake. Kumverera kwa chitonthozo cha maganizo kumabwera momveka bwino pamene munthu amatha kukhazikitsa mgwirizano ndi dziko lapansi, ndi ena komanso ndi iye mwini.
Makhalidwe auzimu ndi makhalidwe abwino
Makhalidwe abwino ndizo zikhalidwe zomwe zimakhazikitsa makhalidwe abwino a munthu aliyense. Iwo, pamodzi ndi mawonekedwe auzimu ndiwo maziko a anthu. Choncho, zinthu za uzimu ndizofunikira pamoyo osati ndi chiwerengero cha zinthu zatsopano zomwe zimapezeka komanso ndalama zomwe zili mu thumba, koma mfundo za makhalidwe abwino ndizofunikira kwambiri kwa munthu aliyense. Iwo sangathe kuphwanya izo mosavuta.