Kugwirizana si kophweka. Nthawi zambiri timawonekeratu kuti pokhapokha tikanapambana bwino: "Ngati mukufuna kuchita bwino - dzichiteni nokha." Koma izi ndi nthano. Popanda kugwira ntchito limodzi, sitikanatha kupulumuka chisinthiko, sitingathe kupambana muntchito yathu, tikanatha kukhazikitsa maubwenzi ndi abwenzi.
Wolemba mbiri wotchuka Twyla Tharp wakhala akugwira ntchito ndi ovina masauzande ndi pafupifupi makamu 100 kwa zaka makumi anai za ntchito yake, komanso a lawyers, okonza mapulani, olemba ndi makampani othandizira. Mu bukhu la "Chizoloŵezi chogwira ntchito limodzi" amauza momwe angapangitsire mgwirizano uliwonse wosangalatsa ndi wopindulitsa.
1. Yambani ndi inu nokha
Kugwirizana ndi chinthu chothandiza, ndi njira yogwirira ntchito mogwirizana ndi ena. Koma imayamba kuchokera pa malo owona. Musanayambe ntchito ya timu, ganizirani nokha. Kodi mumamva chikondi chenicheni kwa anzanu, achibale anu komanso okondedwa anu? Kodi mungagwiritse ntchito njira zoyankhulirana ndi iwo pochita nawo limodzi ndi anzanu? Kodi simukukankhira anthu kutali ndi kuwona mtima? Kodi mumagwirizana ndi cholinga chimodzi?
Ngati muli ndi chikhulupiliro kuti musamakhulupirire anthu ndipo musakhulupirire cholinga chimodzi, muzolowera pa ntchito yovomerezeka vuto lidzakhala inu. Yesani kusintha maganizo anu.
2. Sankhani okondedwa pamwamba pa mlingo
Kuphatikizana kuli ngati tenisi: mukhoza kusintha luso lanu mwa kusewera ndi mnzanu pamwamba pa msinkhu. Choncho, ngati muli ndi mwayi wosankha, sungani anthu anzeru komanso ochezeka. Penyani iwo ndi kuphunzira. Mwina poyamba zingakhale zovuta kwa inu, koma posakhalitsa mudzamva kuti simukuwonanso gululo ngati choipa, ndipo mudzapeza mwayi watsopano ndi masomphenya atsopano.
3. Landirani anzanu monga momwe aliri
Kumayambiriro kwa zaka za makumi asanu ndi awiri, choreographer chachikazi chinali chosowa kwambiri mu kuvina kwachikale. N'zosadabwitsa kuti amuna ena ovina ankakayikira ngati angayankhe kapena ayi. Ine ndikanati iwo samandimvetsa ine.
Kodi ndinachokera bwanji ku zovutazi? Ndinalengeza kuti sindidzakakamiza anthu osewera mafilimu anga. Iye ananena kuti ndikusowa kusiyana: wojambula aliyense adzachita zomwe akugwiritsidwa ntchito.
Kugwirizana kumatsimikizira kusintha, chifukwa kumatikakamiza kuvomereza maganizo a mnzanuyo - ndi kuvomereza chirichonse mwa iye chimene amasiyana nacho. Kusiyana kwathu ndi kofunika kwambiri. Ngati mukufuna kuti abwenzi anu akhale ndi okha, muyenera kuvomereza momwe akufunira.
4. Konzani zokambirana pasadakhale
Pamene ndinali ndi lingaliro lopanga kuvina kwa kuvina kwa Billy Joel, ndinafunika kumusonyeza ndekha kuchokera kumanja. Kotero ine ndinasonkhanitsa osewera asanu ndi limodzi ndikupanga kanema ya makumi awiri ndi awiri. Pambuyo pake ndinamuitana Billy kunyumba kwanga ndikuwonetsa momwe nyimbo zake zingakhalire zokongoletsera zavina. Nditayang'ana nkhani yanga, nthawi yomweyo anavomera.
Ngati mukufuna kuti zokambirana zoyamba ziziyenda bwino, konzekerani iwo pasadakhale. Ganizirani pa zokambirana zanu musanayambe msonkhano ndikuziganiziranso bwino.
5. Kulankhulana maso ndi maso
Kugwirizanitsa kawirikawiri kumachitidwa kudzera pa e-mail - ndi zolemba zovomerezeka, mavidiyo kapena mauthenga. Tsoka ilo, mateknoloji amapanga malamulo awoawo ndi kupanga zisankho mofulumira kuposa momwe mwakonzera kulandira. Kwa chiyanjano chirichonse ndi iwo, mgwirizano pa gawo la munthu ukufunika. Choncho, mukakhala ndi mwayi, kambiranani maso ndi maso.
Ndipo ngati palibe zothekazo, musaiwale kulankhulana - ngakhale ndi e-mail - ngakhale gawo laling'ono la mtima. Mukulankhula ndi munthu wamoyo. Simukusowa kupondereza umunthu wanu.
Ndipo musaiwale kuti ngakhale kalata yotentha kwambiri sichidzabweretsa msonkhano waumwini.
6. Dzimadzidzinso mudziko la mnzanuyo
Chisankho chabwino ndikukumana ndi wojambula mu studio yake, ndi sayansi - mu labotale yake, ndi woyang'anira - mu ofesi yake. Pokhala mwalandira kamodzi kokha lingaliro la dziko limene wokondedwayo angakhale ndi ntchito, ndi kosavuta kukonzekera gawolo lachidziwitso pothandizira.
Ngati sindinapite kwa Donald Knaak, wotchedwa "junkman" (m'Chingelezi, "junk" + mwamuna - "mwamuna"), kumalo ake ogwirira ntchito, kumene amamanga nyumba zake, kuchokera ku zinyalala, sindingathe kumvetsetsa, kapena kuyamikira zolemba zake, zomwe FedEx zimapereka tsiku lililonse kuchokera ku Vermont kupita ku studio yanga ku New York komwe ndimagwira ntchito pamasewero a "Surfing on the Styx River".
7. Musatengere zochuluka kuposa momwe muyenera
Mulole mnzanuyo achite ntchito yake. Chilakolako chofuna kuthetsa mavuto ake nthawi zonse chimachokera ku chisankho chake. Mayesero akhoza kukhala amphamvu. Koma ngati ataya, izi zimangobweretsa mavuto ena okha.
Musadzipire nokha zambiri kuposa momwe muyenera. Pewani kuyesedwa kukwera kumunda wa ntchito kapena udindo wina. Onetsetsani zovuta, ngati kuli kotheka, koma mutenge mbali pokhapokha ngati nthawi ikukakamiza, ndipo yankho lofunidwa silikuyembekezeredwa. Dodometsani wanu maniac-controller.
8. Yesani latsopano
Munthu mmodzi amapereka lingaliro kwa wina, ndipo amamukantha, monga ku tenisi. Ndipo tsopano tikuyang'ana kale lingaliro lathu kuchokera kumbali ina. Izi zimachitika chifukwa chophweka - mnzanuyo nthawi zonse adzapereka lingaliro lanu m'mawu ake omwe, osabwereza mawuwo molondola.
Chifukwa cha ichi mukhoza kuona mwayi watsopano, njira ndi njira zothetsera cholinga. Zomwe timagwirizana zimagwirizana ndikuwoneka mu khalidwe latsopano. Muyenera kukhala wokonzeka kutembenukira kumalo atsopano ndi zida zomwe simungagwiritse ntchito kale. Kufunitsitsa kuyesa chinthu chatsopano kungakhale maziko a mgwirizano wamphamvu.
9. Ganizirani katatu musanayambe ntchito ndi anzanu
Ndi kovuta kukana chiyeso chogwira ntchito ndi anthu omwe mumawadziwa ndi kuwakonda. Zikuwoneka kuti ngati tigwirizana ndi omwe akugawana malingaliro athu ndi malingaliro athu, polojekiti idzayenda bwino. Musakhale ndi nthawi yoyang'ana mmbuyo, momwe mungakhalire olemera / kutchuka / kudzikwaniritsa.
Musachedwe. Maudindo a nthawi yayitali ndi chinthu chimodzi. Bzinthu lalitali ndi losiyana kwambiri. Yoyamba ndi masewera, chidziwitso, chachiwiri chiri pafupi ndi ukwati kapena, m'malo mwake, nthawi ya ndende mu selo imodzi.
Wokondedwa wabwino ndi wosavuta kupeza kuposa bwenzi labwino. Ngati mumayamikira ubwenzi, mudzafuna kusunga. Ntchito yowonjezera idzaika chiyanjano chanu pachibwenzi.
10. Nenani "Zikomo"
Pa mwayi uliwonse, nthawi khumi ndi ziwiri patsiku, "zikomo" sizongopeka.
Malingana ndi bukhu "Chizoloŵezi chogwira ntchito limodzi"