Kodi mungatani kuti musamakhale osungulumwa?

Kudzimva wokondedwa ndi wofunikira ndi chimodzi mwa zofunika kwambiri za munthu aliyense. Mukazunguliridwa ndi anthu omwe akukufunani, thandizo lanu ndi thandizo lanu, moyo umatenga mtundu, pali chilimbikitso chogwira ntchito ndi kusintha. Ndipo pamene palibe wina woti agawane zomwe apindula, mitundu ya chigonjetso chilichonse chimatha.

Tikukhala m'dziko lamisala - takhala tikuzunguliridwa ndi anthu zikwizikwi, tsiku lililonse timalumikizana ndikudziwana bwino. Makamaka izi zikugwiritsidwa ntchito kwa okhala mumzinda waukulu. Ndipo chodabwitsa n'chakuti, abambo ndi amai ambiri nthawi zambiri amakhala osungulumwa. Ndipo aliyense amayesetsa kuthetsa malingaliro ameneŵa ndikupeza machiritso awo kuti azisungulumwa.

Kusungulumwa kumachitika mwa anthu osiyana kwambiri pa zifukwa zosiyanasiyana. Anthu ambiri omwe amacheza ndi anthu komanso omwe akuyenda bwino ndi osungulumwa. Musanayese kusungulumwa, muyenera kumvetsa chifukwa chake chikuonekera.

Kuwona muzu

Malingana ndi akatswiri a maganizo a m'mayiko osiyanasiyana, kusungulumwa kumachitika chifukwa cha izi:

• kusadzidalira mwa iwo okha ndi mphamvu zawo zomwe. Anthu oterowo nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi zovuta zokhudzana ndi maonekedwe awo ndipo zimakhala zovuta kuti azilankhulana. Kusatetezeka kumapangitsa mantha kuyang'ana zopusa komanso zopusa, zomwe zimayambitsa kudzipatula ndi kusungulumwa;
• kuthawa kwina. Amayi ambiri amaopa kukhala okha ndi maganizo awo. Choncho, amayesetsa kuti akhale mudziko lirilonse nthawi zonse, ngati sangakhale okha;
• kudzikonda. Anthu odzikonda, amene amasamala za iwo okha, nthawi zambiri amadzipeza okha. Pamene munthu alibe chikhumbo chothandiza wina, kumverera mwachifundo ndi kumvetsetsa, ena amachoka kwa iye. Munthu wotereyo akhoza kukhala ndi mabwenzi ambiri, koma kawirikawiri pali mabwenzi enieni. Komanso, zimakhala zovuta kwa egoists kupeza moyo wawo wokwatirana, chifukwa iwo sangachite kokha kutenga, komanso kuti apereke malingaliro awo mobwezera.

Kuti mupirire kusungulumwa, choyamba muyenera kuima ndikuyang'ana nokha. Vuto lathu lirilonse liri pamutu mwathu, palinso chinsinsi cha njira yake. Ndikofunika kuzindikira vuto lanu ndikupeza chifukwa chake.

Tikugwira ntchito

Kenaka, muyenera kuchotsa chimene chimayambitsa kusungulumwa. Njira yabwino kwambiri pankhaniyi ndi kukambirana ndi okondedwa anu. Ikhoza kukhala bwenzi lapamtima kapena munthu wokondedwa amene mungathe kumuuza za chisoni ndi kulira. Thandizo la bwenzi ndi kumvetsetsa kwake kumatipatsa ife kumverera kuti tikufunikira.

Egotists ayenera kuphunzira kumvetsera wopembedzera. Yesetsani kusiya kulankhula za inu nokha komanso kumvetsera maganizo a ena. Mwinamwake kwa inu kudzakhala kutseguka, koma anthu ambiri amamva malingaliro ofanana ndi inu, ndipo angakuthandizeni kuthana ndi kusungulumwa.

Khalani owona mtima. Kukhala woona mtima nthawi zonse kumakopa zochitika zabwino ndi anthu odzipereka. Musati muzivala chigoba cha kusamvetsetsana ndi kukwanira ubwino - ichi mungathe kuopseza ndikukana mnzanu wabwino komanso wokondedwa.

Ndipo malangizo omalizira ndi kupanga chilengedwe. Ntchito yobumba ndi njira yaikulu yomwe imatithandiza ife kupeza mwayi watsopano, maluso ndi kupeza anthu omwe amaganiza. Pokhala ndi chidziwitso, simungathamangitse maganizo ovuta, koma yesetsani kuthetsa vuto lawo.

Kusungulumwa, nthawi ndi nthawi, kumabwera kwa munthu aliyense. Ndipo tikhoza kuthana nazo zokha. Ndikofunika, kuchokera pazochitika zonse, ngakhale zosasangalatsa, kuphunzira phunziro ndikuyesanso kuti musalowemo.